Surrounding myself with worthwhile individuals, stimulating conversation, 50 cent words, old concert tees, "family" dinners, board games, spelling womyn with a "y", crossword puzzles, fashion faux pas, ROCK N ROLL, witty banter, staring shamelessly, talkin' trash, lewd comments, over-accessorizing, impromptu danse parties, tom foolery, passive aggressivity, studying popular culture, Phoenix Public Library, sewing stuff to other stuff, losing one earring, frenching, old bicycles, reinventing myself as a clarinetist, guitar hero II, trying to play the harmonica, Denmark, etc.
Worthwhile conversationalists, people who are intelligent AND interesting, pop culture aficionados, music junkies, nerds, people who like to hang out at places other than bars, a harmonica teacher, someone who prefers phone calls to text messages, people who aren't wasting their 20s treading water in a sea of gossip and booze.
Rolling Stones. van morrison. guns n roses. ray charles. AC/DC. judas priest. NY dolls. johnny thunders. iron maiden. moving units. the rapture. belle & sebastian. pixies. mc5. Ronnettes. Shirelles. shangri las. liars. t-rex. roxy music. velvet underground. Lou Reed. eagles of death metal. otis redding. stevie wonder. the marvelettes. enon. kinks. zombies. rapid fire. snake burner. ladytron. Bowie. iggy pop/the stooges. King Kahn & BBQ Show/ The Shrines. M.I.A. arcade fire. air. the sonics. the easybeats. cheeseburger. Ted Leo. french kicks. elefant. N.E.R.D. the makeup. stone roses. ambulance ltd. earlimart. the walkmen. Cat power. elliot smith. the kills. wolf parade. the knife. the roots. spoon. dusty springfield. nancy sinatra. holly golightly. the concretes. Tom Vek. of montreal. the damned. stevie wonder. feist. bloody hollies. murder city devils. broken spindles. animals. CCR. girls in hawaii. raveonettes. patsy cline. dolly parton. nouvelle vague. Wilson Pickett. the outsiders (Dutch). girl talk. amy winehouse.
labyrinth, requiem for a dream, spun, buffalo 66, pumpkin, zoolander, slackers, high fidelity, Wet hot american summer, kill bill, the warriors, blue velvet, 21 grams, lost in translation, return to Oz, Garden State, the godfather, broken flowers, royal tenenbaums, little miss sunshine
The "L" word, 30 rock
Although I do a decent amount of scholastic reading, some of my favorites do NOT fall into that category....
Motley Crue: the dirt, The Vice guide to sex and drugs and rock and roll, anything by David Sedaris, Diary, The Bell Jar, Sex Drugs and Cocoa puffs, Fargo Rock City, I'm With the Band: Confessions of a Groupie.
The bookshelf at my house is comprised mainly of literature regarding women's history, popular culture, and African American history.
The self-actualized.