Solid Spit

*Disclaimer* For those women who think that you can entice me by sexual comments and posting nude pictures of yourself. Please think twice before sending me a note because you will get shot down quicker than a hunted deer. I have no respect for those who try to use the subject of sex to penetrate my mental. Besides would you like it If I did the same to you? A woman's body is her temple and my penis is my temple as well. So dont think you can get it easily.
***THIS IS A MAINSTREAM FEMALE RESTRICTED ZONE****
again NO MAINSTREAM FEMALES!!!
In case you are wondering what the criteria is for a mainstream female it is these characteristics.
1. Someone who has a page with 5 words maximum expecting a male to holla. Which some dudes will.
ex.(the entire page says) 21 year old female
Im sorry but if that's all that you feel that you have to say to have a dude to come gawk at you, then you're not my type of woman. Those expect everything to be handed to them
2. Someone who thinks you have to dress like a rapper to get her attention.
Umm I can dress like myself but if you're expecting a to find an authentic male and he's already dressing like he's phony. Dont expect much more out of him. 95% of dudes dress for the sole intent to impress women. Not to feel good about themselves.
3. When the first thing you look for in a man is "he gotta be FUYINE!!!"Ummm I aint the best looking dude in the world but not every woman is gonna find someone who looks like (insert your favorite rapper).4. Women who constantly tell themselves they are independent, knowing that they are not
If you have to ask another grown woman or man for money constantly then you fail miserably to absorb the title "Independent". My philosophy is a grown man/woman should not have to ask another grown person for shit.
5. A woman who feels a boyfriend is mandatory at ALL TIMES DURING THE YEAR
Relationships dont always work out. But If you feel the need to always have a boyfriend in your life just to fill in a void and give yourself a sense of security and an excuse to engage in sexual activity, You're just a reserved Ho. Plain and simple. And wheather or not you might admit it to yourself, several of you are guilty for this. Mainly those 17-20 years of age. But it's not surprising to see it in those that are older than what I just said.
Ex. If you have 13 different boyfriends in a 12 month span than that means that there is something about your character that needs major reconstruction.
****For Your Enquiring mind****
Ladies why is it that you complain about the problems that your man is having but yet you do nothing to solve them? Is it because you are content with the fact that a drama-filled relationship tends to make your life that much more interesting? Drama like that makes you build a deceptive love for that person even though you know you're getting your heart broken. When dating the "nice guy" everything goes right and you're so used to bad things happening, you're quick to say he's boring. End result, you're back to square one with the verbally/physical abusive man.
To those who are looking for that "thug" type. Why???? What is it about a thug that turns you on? Is it the fact that he lives a rugged lifestyle that puts you over the edge? Or maybe it's his "thug" attitude that makes you feel secure. I mean are you really content on potentially raising a family off of drug money? Do you like the fact your man may not have a future if he does not ever change? Women who are looking for the thug type are usually those who are below 17 years of age. Due to the fact they see the flash and the lifestyle your average modern day rapper imposes. If you're above 18 and over 21 and you are still looking for a thug, then you need to grow the fuck up and find a future for yourself. Those would be classified as "boppers". So if you are looking for the "thug" in me, you have come to the wrong page. So hit the X at your top right corner of your screen
"Im Looking for a real nigga"
The word REAL is so cliche'. I mean what is a real person? What is the criteria of being real? I hate when people go out of their way to attest to others that they are real. Usually those end up being the one's that are not. I have nothing to prove to anyone, so to hear me say I'm real will never happen. I dont know how to be real but I DO know how to be myself. It's not up to me to judge if Im real or not. I'll leave that up to those who know me.[To My Fellas]
To all my niggas out there. YALL ARE MAKING THE MALE GENDER LOOK STUPID!!!! Have yall ever wondered what the reason is behind constant rejection and constant hetero to homosexual conversions? It's partially us. Why is it that when a woman tells a nigga no, he goes off on the deep end. I mean I've heard stories where women have had their lives threatened because she didnt want to give him her phone number. Niggas these days are some of the most overpersistent people I know. What niggas will say and do for pussy these days is shameful and I can say that it makes others who do not subject to those motives a harder world to live in. Women are quick to classify a male in the "Dog" genre and we dont make it any better. Have you ever thought about giving the woman time to want you, instead of smothering them and telling her you love them in a maximum of 3 days? Something to think about fellas, if you want pussy, be patient and be sincere.
[Conceitedness]
Fair warning!! I really could care less how you look. And this is directed to the one's who think that they are too cute to be around this person, or too cute to be talked to a certain way. In a nutshell I dont want someone who believes in their own head that they are too cute to be told "the truth". I know that most of you will probably misinterpret this whole paragraph thinking that I am a very disrespectful person and I'm not. But I do not condone women who think every male owes them the world just because they are beautiful on the outside. There is a balance between confidence and conceit and Im well aware of that so if you fall under the confidence column, you're cool. So on an end note, Please dont come at me like you're god's gift to men because I will crush your self-esteem immediately and meticulously.
[Loyalty]
I have a ZERO TOLERANCE to those who are not loyal to their loved ones. Or have a tracking record of not being loyal to their mate. With that being said, do you really expect me to trust you if you call your mother or father every name in the book? And you still live under their roof? NO EXCUSES! Respect your elders. It's in the 10 commandments.
But on another subject of this. Relationship wise, I have a strict rule against cheating. 1 STRIKE AND YOU'RE OUT! Under no excuses or circumstances should you be cheating on your mate. In the 22 years of earth that I have inhaled the good lord's oxygen, I still have not found a probable cause on why people do it.
"He was making me unhappy"
Tell him that and break up with him and move on to your rebound mate.
I look down on those who find cheap flings to satisfy themselves instead of being straightfoward with their loved one. That is unacceptable in my code of morals.
"I got a boyfriend but we can still be friends."
No we cant. Because if you're willingly giving me your number, what makes you think you wouldnt do it to me? If I do partake in engaging in your mind "a possible friendship" or "fuck buddy". I will disrespect you in the worst way because you are doing it to the man you have at home. Friendly conversation is ideal with me. Hi and bye or, .. conversing or How are you doing and what not. But trying to pursue the aformentioned activities is prohibited within my standards.
[Sex part.1]
It's a damn shame to see what our young African American men and women do to themselves.
What I mean is whenever I see a female's page and she has a picture of herself ass naked saying that she is looking for a freak.
In my opinion I feel that woman has no self esteem and in order for her to raise her standards, she feels like she must advertise her privates so men can give her the time of day. When that happens and she willingly opens her legs, she feels like she is getting affection and it makes her feel somewhat better on the inside. Even though she knows it's temporary.
In a nutshell it sickens me to see that women like that(if your reading this it could be YOU) degrade themselves in that way because in my opinion it's people like them that can bring down the value of a woman and can make men in general feel less appreciative of women.
Now the exception to what I said is if you have pics of yourself in lingerie. That's okay to some extent. Because you are still leaving a little bit to the imagination. And who I am directing this to more or less are the aspiring models that are out there. If you are trying to make a career out of that then I can completely understand that.Contrary to what you may have read above, I am an open minded individual.
If you did read all of what I had to say, I thank you for taking the time out of your day to observe my insights and views on common, everyday life. Please remember that my opinions only reflect the thoughts and views of myself and no one else. Wheather or not you agree is entirely up to you. If you agree, thank you, if not, God created no person the same so any dissagreements is fine. I'm always open for debate or discussion on any of the aformentioned subjects above and any of the current or past events that goes on in today's earth, wheather it be personal or public. Once again, thanks for reading what I had to say.
Women I look for:
-I want someone who is honest
-Someone who is at least presentable (i dont need a 10, a 5 with a nice personality suits me fine)
-I wont get into detail on how I want a woman to look cause everyone is beautiful in their own way.
-Woman with ambition (I cant stand lazy a lazy ass woman If I work hard, you should too. It's the new millennium.
-You dont necessarily have to have a job but at least be going to school or vise-versa.
Women I stay away from:
-Boppers(I cant stand yall ho's)
-Shallow Minded females(How can I make love to your mind if you barely have one?)
-Immature females(I know Im goofy but have some sense somewhere in your noggin every now and then)
-Women with no direction.
-If you sit around the house with no job or no school and you think Mr. Right will knock on your door, good luck to you. Time waits for no woman and vice versa.
I'm a straight to the point person. Some can handle my honesty and others cant. If you're one who is weak of mind I advise you to abort this page immediately. But if not, WELCOME!! I'm one who usually doesnt follow the trends of most and I definately have a mind of my own, and I use it. My biggest advantage to being who I am is my intelligence, I am one who realizes my faults and my strengths therefore I keep a balance of humbleness and confidence. I'm only intrigued by those who think on their own and isnt caught up with the simple minded. In short, you have to have some kind of intellectual train of thought to fuck with me. Other than that I'm pretty goofy and I love to put a smile on others face and blah blah blah blah blah blah blah you get the point. Just save me as a friend! But before you do that, please send a note first. Cause If I dont know you, I will not add you. I edited my profile at Freeweblayouts.net , check out these Myspace Layouts!