Holden Beach Chick

Well, where do I start? I am first and foremost a child of God! I love my country! I am truly, truly blessed! I am glad to be alive! I strive not to take life for granted. I have learned a lot about myself and others over the past 2 1/2 years that has changed my life profoundly. I am a very laid back, easy-going person who can be talked to about practically anything. I love to engage in intelligent conversation that causes critical thinking to occur. I also know when to put my foot down. I've been forced to in the past! I LOVE TO HAVE FUN! I am honest and don't enjoy being lied to. No time for games! I absolutely love to laugh! I love a good sense of humor. If you can make me laugh, you've got my heart! I hate confusion and confrontation. I am the 'faithful' type. I believe that when I get married, it will be for LIFE. Lately, I have been referred to by others as a 'real' girl and I would have to agree. I AM, WHO I AM. I don't 'put on fronts' for anyone. I have much self-respect! I have never felt the need to post provocative images on this site, just for the satisfaction of vain, unprofitable conversation. So yes, I am a 22 year old, single female, who does not smoke, drink, do drugs, party excessively, care to expose myself provocatively on myspace, or use profane language, and darn proud of it! I LOVE TO SMILE and encourage others!...Have I ever been in love? Well, that's hard to really say. Let's just say that God knows best in any situation! He had a purpose for my life when He formed me in my mother's womb and that was for me to prosper and be in good health. He knew what was best for me, even when I couldn't see past the 'illusion' of love. It is a fact that love is never defeated, but 'true' love never lies to get what 'it' wants! It is pure and beautiful and should never leave one hurt or in anguish. I am thankful that this was revealed to me early on because today I am freed from bitterness.-- I do not have to look into the innocent eyes of a child, constantly reminded of your deceitful behavior or ever endure the fear of being the 'other' woman, but she does! I have forgiven YOU, with all my heart!!! I enjoy being strictly friends! Soulmate??? Please. Sorry I was so naive in the past. All I can say is, 'thank YOU for the life's lesson.' In life, mistakes are guaranteed, one of which my history with YOU, but what really counts is how one chooses to respond to these mistakes. I choose to be happy that YOU are happy with the choices YOU made. And that's all I have to say about that!-- God has someone very, very special for me and this time they will truly love me back! Afterall, I deserve better!...What else? I just looove helping people! I can honestly say that I LOVE EVERYBODY, including my enemies! I love my family and friends. I am an advocate for the family unit. Leaving an inheritance of wisdom in FAITH, unitedness, integrity, the benefits of an education, financial stability, creativity, etc., I believe is vital for the success of the future family. I believe myspace is an excellent tool for communication, however, I do not normally accept stranger friend requests. Why? Because I have common sense. Anything else, please feel free to ask! I Love You, Shanta ♥
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My Mommy and Sissy.