Debra

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"Moments are created by the friends around you & come across, never forget them, they are what make life fun, not the place, money, or looks."
what best friends are all about!
there's a point in life when you get tired of chasing everyone and trying to fix everything, but its not giving up. its realizing that you don't need certain people and all the drama that they bring. some people also don't realize what they have until they lose it.
i'm debra . :) i believe in karma. i find it everyday, even in small places. there's no such thing as coincidence. everything happens for a reason. i may make wrong decisions but i learn from them. what is meant to be will be.
some find my strength and confidence intimidating, but i'm really a sweet and laid back girl. i enjoy simple pleasures, and i always try to look at things positively.
i'm very independent. getting what i want doesn't make me spoiled, it makes me smart. i work hard for everything i have, and it doesn't include anybody else but myself. i'm the kind of friend that might not always be in touch, but if you EVER need me, you know i'm there. i have a VERY busy life, and those close to me understand that.
i have worked VERY hard to get where i am today, and i feel very lucky and blessed to be here! (a BIG THANK YOU to everyone who ever doubted me and to everyone who ever supported me). the negativity has made me push harder to my goals, and the positivity has made it worth the struggle!
i'm goal oriented, and don't give up easily. persistence pays off! i hope to one day become very successful in the interior design/architectural field professionally. i also have this dream of becoming the next hugh hefner after designing my very own playboy mansion- haha! [hey don't laugh :[ you'd die to be one of my playmates]. i want to be a card maker sometime before i have breathed my last, because i'm just THAT talented. probably will achieve to have my own business one day- like an escort agency [just for you lulu! :) hehe]. i want to make a difference.
and screw you if you stereotype me. i'm not a snob, a slut, or a druggie. jealousy is my favorite form of flattery. so say whatever you want about me. its just more ears and lips for my name to rest on.
i tend to be pretty random and extremely goofy. im very happy go lucky. i smile & laugh constantly. I open doors for strangers. I smile at people I don't know. if I see someone who needs help, I help them. I wave at drivers for letting me merge. i'm known to laugh at everything and/or anything, sometimes for no reason or out of no where. I have a tendency to save the best for last. I am such a sucker for kids, they make my heart melt! i try too hard to please everyone & forget about myself sometimes. but life is short so live it up.
i love anyone who can make me smile and laugh. ("laughter is the best medicine"). i love to meet new people who are unique and different in their own way. someone who can teach me new things & also learn from me. i believe theirs beauty in every individual. i'm always open to try anything once. i love going out to the clubs & hit it off with my girls. i like to dance, even though i can't dance. I love extreme things that makes my adrenaline rush. i would really like to be on Fear Factor one day, so watch out for me. i have ate 10 cicadas for $5. I have 5 piercings & 1 tattoo (well it's actually 4 stars in one area). i will try anything once. I like to do pretty much anything that keeps me entertained. i like making people feel awkward. i am probably the most organized & neatest person you'll know, haha. i'm kind of a neat freak, but i'm not picky about anything.
i'm a strong believer in that everyone has a purpose and that us being human on this planet are meant to experience many different lessons. Being not of the "norm" or not being a member of the heterosexual population, gives me a unique perspective on life and enables me to better connect with people. [Understanding, kind, considerate, & being non-judgmental]. All the things I think a good person should be.
some say i'm a major party girl. i'd like to say i'm hopelessly romantic, and in a sense I am, but I tend to run away from good things in my life. Girls just wanna have fun ya know? i absolutely love to cuddle and i'm very affectionate. i have the HOTS for girls. i think i'm an insomniac but i also love love LOVE to sleep. i enjoy watching movies all the time- it's probably my most fav. hobby. i'm very indecisive when it comes to food. i'm a huge lover for any type of food, as long as it's edible.
i'm drug-free and i'll drink occasionally with trusting friends around me. music is what keeps me alive. trance/progressive/house music is my ultimate favorite type of music, but i do enjoy and am open to many other types. I can be a little wild and crazy sometimes, but i can be serious too. i'm told many times that i look & act more mature than i am.
i'm genuine, honest and loyal. i sometimes trust people too easily. i have a big heart, but sometimes get walked all over on. "People will walk in and out of your life but only true friends will leave footprints on your heart".
i treat everyone with respect and kindness until they prove to be unworthy of it. once you cross me, there's no going back. i'm sharp with words, and i don't sugarcoat. i hate stupid girls/boys. get over yourself. i hate obnoxious people who don't care about anyone but themselves. when it comes to my partner or friends close to me...trust me, its in your best interest to BACK OFF. there's nothing fake about me, and i don't waste my time on people that are. i do my best to cut drama out of my life. i'd rather be hated for who i am than loved for who i'm not.
i love being humorous and being around it. laughter always gets me. i'm always open to meet new people and i like to take a little from all my friends, and carry those pieces with me along my journey. my friends & family are my world. i will bend over backwards, forwards, side-ways for them, just ask. i'm as honest as they get. You either love me for it, or hate me for it. That's just the way it is and the way it's always going to be...i feel no need to beat around the bush. i feel no need to play games either boys! basically don't ask me a question if you don't like the answer, and if you really want to be my friend LET'S DANCE!!! :)
i want to do everything and experience everything. this world is beautiful and there are so many wonderful things to see & experience. there has been people i've met & became very close with that has changed me in SO many ways. they have made me open my eyes and realize that god has given everyone on this earth a purpose to live their life a certain way. and i believe that their life was meant for something special because if not, then they wouldn't have been put through all these hard times. some people just live with their eyes closed and don't have any real purpose. so i think god has chosen me to cross paths with these peers who have affected me inside & out. this has made me realize what is important and where my heart is and that i want to accomplish a lot of things in loving support of these friends.
I guess the most important thing to know about me is that hiding inside the wild, outgoing, fun DEBRA- is a selfless caring person who would give up anything just to bring a smile to someone's face. :)
I'm not perfect. What you see is what you get. The End.
BTW If you're actually reading this, then i think you're AWESOME!!!!! :)