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~Daily random thoughts~
August 5, 2006
been a while since I updated. well, i only have one thing to really say.
Timing is everything.
Sometime if you don't take advantage of the opportunity, you miss out and you never know if you'll get it again. Time just passes you by. And I used to spend too much time on here... So i stopped and i'm going to make my life happen and not watch it happen...
Ok, so enough of that....
My cousins are my favorite. I love them...
I love a good martini. Drinking excessively isn't a good thing... but it's fun.
Velcro Pygmies is the newest fun thing to do. Great times.
My roommates are my best friends...
I love my girls: Cook, Mon, Mel, Jenn, Buck, Shelli, Sam...
I'm going to miss Jasmine & Chris when they move...
Jesse Metcalfe is so freakin' "Delicious".
Everyone is having babies or are getting married. What's the dang deal? People on the east coast don't even think about getting married until early thirties. Why are we in such a rush? Seriously... People are more career oriented out there....
Mavs tried their best, but we're happy for their success. World Cup and NBA finals were great reasons to drink. Soo much drinking...
My family is important to me... I don't know what i'd do without them...
When my friends are hurt, i hurt with them..
And... I'm done. ♥- s...
June 5, 2006
I love to sleep in. I love sleeping in when I have nothing planned the entire day. i think that we all do so much and we don't sleep enough. Hell, i'd rather sleep any day of the week than go out. But i love spending time with my friends, so i do that. Blah.
I need to get my life together! Things aren't looking too grand. I'm working on it, though. Slowly but surely. Baby steps.
Jason Terry is my boyfriend. I ♥ him. I'm going to buy a jersey with his name for the Finals. GO MAVS. I'm so excited. This team has totally turned around since Mark Cuban bought the franchise in '01 (that's the right year, right?). I'm so excited to have a great team in Dallas... a winning team. Bah. Tired. I hate being sick.. POOP.
June 1, 2006
Summer is jam packed with stuff to do and things that need to get done. Plumbing in our house is messed up. Gotta fix that. Computer desk for my bedroom. Organize my closet- still have not done that. Lots of other stuff...
*** I recently had a a song remind me of a former friend. It had me wondering why weren't friends anymore. So, i thought that maybe, if i tried out to reach out to her, we could rekindle the friendship, per se. However, it wasn't the case, and instead, she made me feel like dirt. I'm sure that wasn't her intention, maybe it was, who knows, but it made me question- why am i trying to fix things when i don't think i did anything wrong? I guess there was some bad blood or an incident that made us drift a part, but nothing so significant that i thought we wouldn't remain acquaintences. Nevertheless, this makes me appreciate the people that i have now. the ones that stand by me when i need them. not the ones who i thought were my friends but won't fight for it when things get bad. Blah blah blah. I'm wasting my time typing this. It's a lost cause. But, i tried, and that's all that matters.
*** On top of that, i'm sick. Yeah, sick and tired of seeing the Mavs get beat. Jason Terry, my boo, needs to be a little more consistent. And so does Shelli's boo, Dirk, or as she affectionately refers to him, Nor Nor. Ha. Can't wait....
*** I am sick. I feel like poop. AHHH.
♥-shar
May 28, 2006
I have posted a blog, check it out . That pretty much sums up my thoughts on today... aside from the fact that i've been having a killer craving of Memphis BBQ. Commissary anyone? Hell, Corky's would do right now... Oooh, Rendezvous. Oh how I miss my Memphis people. I definitely took those girls for granted... Tracey, Kirsten, Alison, Lyndsay, Alina, Lindsey, Josie, Nicky, April... and the list goes on. I miss you all like crazy. you were all so great to me and i hope that i was able to return the love. I hope to visit soon, Tracey is getting married in August!
(sigh) I've had a really emotional day. A really close relative of mine is in the hospital. If you could keep her in your thoughts for me, that would be great. It's not too critical, but serious enough for us worry.
I miss my cousin...Van, i love you.
Blah... Duong, OUT.
May 27, 2006
Going to the gym in a minute. decided that i've let myself go too much. Since moving back from Memphis, i've gained a considerable amount of weight. Nothing i'm really proud of, but those nights without much sleep and beers do catch up to you eventually... oh, and i shall not forget the nights at the IHOP, or "the omlette store" as my roommate called it last night. So, i'm going to do this for me. I'm going to get my big ass to the gym and get back into shape. Almost like AJ, i had really good calves. They're lost somewhere... so i'm on a mission to find it. Plus, gaining this weight has made me feel less attractive, and who's going to be attracted to me if I'm not...? Fair enough. Lata, bitches! ♥-shar
May 26, 2006
-I dislike traffic
-I need a vacation, preferably the beach
-I have rediscovered the library- not the bar- as an outlet for my stress.
-I like to talk to people that make sense
-I love to eat, especially Italian, Mexican and any kind of Asian cuisine.
-I love my friends very much...
-I love my family more.
-I could use a hug.
-I feel vomitous. Yet, i'm craving Chiptole...
***Quick Updates***
August 14, 2006
Wow, lots to update on.... quick little notes... I'm going to Memphis on the 18th for a friend's wedding. Most exciting part? The Memphis BBQ. I'm so excited about that...
Van and Fam came to visit, and i love that family. The boys are great. Alex also came and that was great too. My aunt from Boston came out... A little family reunion.
My family are the most important people in my life. It becomes so apparent every day, and i tend to take it for granted but i love my family more than words could ever describe.
School starts soon, and i'm excited, but a little nervous at the same time. I'm going full time and trying to work full time. I might get a second job for some extra fundage, who knows.
Newest obsession is shoes. I've been a shoe buying machine.
I think i'm getting out of my materialistic phase. I bought some clothes from (gasp) Old Navy. They actually have pretty cute polos. Geez, i think that's a step. I don't need designer/label clothes... although they are nice to have...I'm learning that you don't have to buy expensive things for them to be nice or of good quality...
Sometimes... it's a little too late...(a reflection of how timing is everything)
♥- s....
June 5, 2006
Mavs are the Western Conference Champions!!! It's a nice feeling i'm sure. we had people over for the game on Saturday- cooked out on the grill, and just hung out. Randy helped put our pool table together so it is starting to come together. we now have a Poker table at the house. So, late nights of poker and stuff sounds like a plan. Thinking about a lot of improvement stuff for the house. i'm really excited about it all. Still waiting for a plumber to come over and fix my bathroom. Blah. It sucks sharing a bathroom with two boys. But, lucky for me, they're really clean boys. I just liked having the privacy to shower with a lock. LOL, there isn't a lock on the door in that bathroom.
Boys are crazy. LOL. Long day yesterday. Lunch with the crew. Hung out till late. Good times. I'm exhausted.
No more talk about R, M or L words. They do not exist in my vocabulary. Plus, they don't hold any kind of significance either. I'm bitter. poo.
June 1, 2006
--Mavs game is tonight. Game 5 for those who aren't keeping track. So the series is tied 2-2, and i'm sure the Mavs will pull through since they are playing at home. Let's hope that is the case. After reviewing Game 4, I'm realizing that the Mavs' offense isn't confident in their shots, because I feel like they are just shooting the ball to shoot it. Plus, they don't attempt any offensive rebounds, they just assume they will make the shot and run to the other end of the court. Blah. I just hope that we're able to get the focus back to have the team I know they are. Mavs will go all the way. I have faith.
--I've seen The DaVinci Code and X-Men: The Last Stand recently, and I don't know how I feel about that. Both movies were good. They were pretty suspenseful, for the most part. The DaVinci Code was good, but i expected more. Of course, it's not as good as the book. X-Men: The Last Stand is not consistent with the other two films. I understand that there is a new director, but it's just not the same. Good movie though, overall, but doesn't follow through with the actual comic. Blah.
--So the plan now is to see The Break Up and I can't wait. Me and Mel are dying to see it. I love Jennifer Aniston. Can't wait. I love Vince Vaughn, too. they're a cute couple..
--The Hills, a spin off from Laguna Beach premiered yesterday. Mixed feelings. Still love LC, but not feeling Heidi. Are girls really that stupid? I'm ashamed to have them represent me. But, i'm not a 19 year old California rich girl. Blah. The previews look good though... I miss my 8th & Ocean. I missed the season finale. Anyone have that on DVR?
I'm out... ♥-shar
May 28, 2006
*Mavs Game 3 is tonight! I'm so excited. I definitely plan on watching this game with a lot of people tonight. I need to get out and get my mind off things. I've been way too stressed out lately. All I really want is to just kind of relax and enjoy every moment. So the usual place would be Racks, and I am sure we'll have a good crowd.
*I have to work tomorrow. Blah. At least there will be no traffic. No other updates as of yet. These are my plans for today... See you at the Rack! ♥-shar
May 27, 2006
Couple things:
Go Mavs!!!! I knew they'd tie it up. Now, on to Phoenix. I'm so excited and yet, slightly nervous about this series. The SUNS are so unpredictable. They can make a 7 point lead into a tie game with ease. It's insane. So my plans for tonight... Going to El Paseo with Cook and the gang for some delicious Mexican food. (Thank you, my sweet Alex, for allowing us to come!) Then, i might go to Kathy's graduation, who knows. I've got a lot to do, but i need to do this to support her. Very proud of Ms. Kathy Nguyen. :) Uh, what else?
Game 3 is Sunday night. 7:30 pm. Be there. Same place.
My day will consist of this: -working out
-tanning
-laundry
-cleaning my room
-organizing my closet
-figuring out my school sitch
-eating lunch with my peeps
-relaxing
Sounds like a plan to me... Ok, That's all folks! ♥-shar
May 26, 2006 * Western Confernece Finals- Game 2 is tonight. Rack Dizzle anyone? Be there to watch the Mavs tie up the series! Game starts at 7:30! Bring yo' bitches!
X-Men 2 came out at midnight... I wonder how many people went to the midnight showing?
Summer school or no summer school? That is the question. Blah blah blah. i miss ♥timmy♥.
---Random Quizzes---
You Have Your PhD in Men
You understand men almost better than anyone.
You accept that guys are very different, and you read signals well.
Work what you know about men, and your relationships will be blissful. How Well Do You Understand Men?
You Don't Need a Man ... or Want One!
Generally, you're very happy being a single woman.
And anyone who has a problem with that... well, that's there problem.
Not that you wouldn't share your life with the almost perfect guy.
You simply won't settle though. Your life is too good to share with some substandard man! Do You Need a Man?
Your IQ Is 155
Your Logical Intelligence is Genius

Your Verbal Intelligence is Genius
Your Mathematical Intelligence is Genius
Your General Knowledge is Exceptional A Quick and Dirty IQ Test
You Are a Classic Martini
You area sophisticated drinker, who knows that simple quality is over-rated.
You're a knowledgeable drunk, but sometimes you're a know-it-all when you're blasted.
You should never: Drink and gossip. You tend to forget who's standing right behind you!
Your ideal party: Has a real bartender. But no one mixes a better drink than you.
Your drinking soulmates: those with a Chocolate Martini personality
Your drinking rivals: those with a Margarita Martini personality What Flavor Martini Are You?
Your Personality Profile
You are dignified, spiritual, and wise.
Always unsatisfied, you constantly try to better yourself.
You are also a seeker of knowledge and often buried in books.
You tend to be philosophical, looking for the big picture in life.
You dream of inner peace for yourself, your friends, and the world.
A good friend, you always give of yourself first. The World's Shortest Personality Test
You Belong in London
A little old fashioned, and a little modern.
A little traditional, and a little bit punk rock.
A unique woman like you needs a city that offers everything.
No wonder you and London will get along so well. What City Do You Belong In?
You Are Most Like Gisele Bundchen
Slightly exotic and perfectly gorgeous Which Victoria's Secret Angel Are You?
Men See You As Playful
Men want a challenge and you are the perfect playmate
You know how to push men's buttons and attract a wide range of guys
You enjoy living and loving - it's one of your most attractive qualities
Men are often consumed with desire for you, and you love that! How Do Men See You?
Your Style is Sassy
Your date outfits are flirty and fun - and make guys smile
Occasionally you'll take a fashion risk, and it will pay off
You're up for flashing an inch or two of skin
But your general rule is to leave most of your bod to the imagination What's Your Date Fashion Style?
You Are Summer!
Outgoing
Friendly
Flirty
Cute
Fun
What Season Are You?
You Should Be With a Water Sign!
Your best match is a Cancer, Scorpio, or Pisces
Why? You crave intimacy and connection in your relationship
And while most guys can't open up enough for you, a Water Sign can
Not that you're whole relationship will be soul gazing
A Water Sign matches your goofy sense of humor - and desire to help others. What Sign Should You Date?
You're Almost Ready to Get Married, But Not Quite
No doubt that you've warmed up to the idea of marriage and life long love
You just aren't quite ready to follow up with your desires, yet.
You may be a bit young, or a bit commitment phobic... give it time.
Concentrate on guys who you can imagine being with next year. Forever can wait. Are You Ready To Get Married?
You Are a Friendly Flirt!
You are quite the flirt, but you don't flirt with just anyone.
And you hardly ever get caught, because your flirting seems so friendly.
You've got a good thing going. Tons of friends, both guys and girls.
And if you do decide to flirt, hardly anyone's the wiser. Pretty trick! What Kind of Flirt Are You?
The Keys to Your Heart
You are attracted to good manners and elegance.
In love, you feel the most alive when things are straight-forward, and you're told that you're loved.
You'd like your lover to think you are optimistic and happy.
You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please.
Your ideal relationship is comforting. You crave a relationship where you always feel warmth and love.
Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment.
You think of marriage as something that will confine you. You are afraid of marriage.
In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily. What Are The Keys To Your Heart?
You're a Wild Drunk
You can't get enough to drink. Seriously, you'll just go puke and start pounding them back again! What Kind of Drunk Are You?
You Are A Total Shopaholic!
You have a keen eye for spotting trends before they are hot
And sometimes your credit rating takes a beating as a result
Consider a job in retail to subsidize your gorgeous outfits
Over time, you could become a famous stylist or designer! Are You a Shopaholic?
You Are Lacy Panties
You're one seductive chica, but you've also got a ton of class.
You are like a pinup girl, with timeless beauty and sexiness.
Men are afraid to talk to you, knowing they'll be addicted to your charm immediately.
Only a true manly man, confident in himself, is your perfect match. What Kind of Panties Are You?
You Are a Skin Deep Sweetheart
You may be supermodel gorgeous or a plain Jane.
It really doesn't matter, because you're confident and secure.
You don't go out looking like a slob, but you are low maintenance.
You have better things to worry about than whether your nails are the right shade! Are You Obsessed With Your Looks?
You Are Medium Maintenance
You aren't as hard to deal with as some girls
But you aren't the most laid back chick either
You're easy to deal with 90% of the time, but watch out for that 10%!
If the guy you are with has good intentions, then calm down a little
But if he's really screwing up, don't waste your breath - move on :-) Are You High Maintenance?
You are Totally Realistic
"Romance" means you're about to roll your eyes
Seriously, you can do without the sap or drama
Save it for someone who has nothing really going on in their relationship
For you, love is real - and easily integrated into your life
You don't need candles, flowers, or chocolates to know he's the one
Just some stimulating conversation... and maybe a great smile. Are You a Romantic or Realistic?

My Interests

I love to eat, especially green vegetables: Spinach, broccoli, asparagus, artichoke hearts....and I'm finally getting the cooking bug. I actually really wanted to cook now a days. It's weird...** Lately, i've been workin' out like a crazy mofo. It's good stuff. I'll be sexified before you know it... Any takers? :P **On the weekends, you can find me drinkin' it up, watchin sports with the roomies or with the girls. Most of the time, i'm at the Library drinkin' my new drink of the month: Mandarin Sprite **Basically, I like to go out and have fun. It can be doin' it pool side or at a bar, or hell, something outdoorsy. I wouldn't mind camping or hittin' up the Brazos. BRING IT. **When i have the cash, I like to go shopping. Heels, cute tops, blazers, slacks, dresses... cardigans! I LOVE 'EM. Accessories: hand bags, shoes, jewelry!!!** Reading a good book or mag, getting educated: Museums/Seminars, Going to the movies, Listening to bad ass Music, Eating/Cooking/Buying Food, Going to all types of Concerts**

I'd like to meet:

lots of people who like to have a good time- oh, and other geniuses (see random quizzes above).

GOOD TIMES WITH FRIENDS!!!

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Music:


Since moving back to Ft. Worth from Memphis, i've picked up the love for hip hop... So i like a lot of Kanye West, 50 Cent, Mary J Blige, etc.... I like to listen to pop also... I'm a little on the teeny bopper side sometimes.. But i do listen to other stuff- John Mayer, Maroon 5, The Killers, Coldplay, etc... You know anything with a good beat.
***BRITNEY'S NEW CD ISN'T BAD...But, i'm into Paramore, Chris Brown, Timbaland...JT, you know what I'm talking about!***

You're a Passionate Kisser
For you, kissing is about all about following your urges. If someone's hot, you'll go in for the kiss - end of story. You can keep any relationship hot with your steamy kisses. A total spark plug - your kisses are bound to get you in trouble
I miss having those passionate kisses....

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Movies:


Right now, my favorite kind of movies are comedies. Knocked up, Wedding Crashers, 40-Year-Old Virgin, Old School, Clerks 2, Road Trip, EuroTrip, Van Wilder.. etc. I like most movies with Reese Witherspoon... I also like dramas and action movies... You won't catch me in the theater to see movies like Saw or Star Trek: the Next Encounter or whatever, unless I'm dragged... I'll watch anything otherwise.

Television:


I like...Entourage, Weeds, The Daily Show, The Colbert Report, CSI, MTV's: 8th & Ocean/The Hills/Laguna Beach/RealWorld/Rob&Big, Family Guy, Grey's Anatomy, Private Practice, Big Shots, Friday Night Lights, Heroes, Prison Break, The Office, Boston Legal, and reruns of Sex and the City, Friends, Seinfeld, Will and Grace, and many more...
I like watching sports, too. Especially basketball and football, college or pro. I'm addicted.

Books:


I'll read anything that interests me, which is a pretty wide range.
I just read The Hades Factor by Robert Ludlum (the author of The Bourne Identity series) I also just read Lies: And the Lying Liars Who Tell Them: A Fair and Balanced Look at the Right by Al Franken. Good stuff. I also read his other book, The Truth (with Jokes). It's a good read. I recommend it. I've also read Dan Brown's The DaVinci Code, which i loved as well as his other books... I like to pick up a People and Us Weekly every once in a while....There's nothing like celebrity gossip.
I am about to read A Beautiful Mind, a story about the life of John Nash. Should be a good one since the movie about him was amazing.

Heroes:


My father. He means the world to me. I think he's a great example of accomplishing your dreams. He pretty much came to the states with nothing, and now he's pulling six figures and has a pretty loving family. GO DAD. Aside from that, i am inspired everyday by someone... so essentially, everyone is a hero..

My Blog

Infidelity by Davy Rothbart for GQ

Sooner or later, nearly every man finds himself blurring the line of commitment: Does a fling count when I'm traveling?  What if my trysts stay online? Davy Rothbart examines the often hazy - and...
Posted by ♥ shar ♥ on Mon, 14 May 2007 12:07:00 PST

Celebrity lookalikes

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Posted by ♥ shar ♥ on Thu, 01 Nov 2007 09:41:00 PST

New Year's Eve Party...

Three of my friends (Shanda, Shelli, Shea) and I are throwing a party to help jump start 2007 with a bang. Drinks, fun, and possible nakedness are in your future. Bring yourself, some friends, a bottl...
Posted by ♥ shar ♥ on Wed, 27 Dec 2006 01:17:00 PST

Two-thirds over...

Since Ive posted this on my Xanga nearly 9 months ago, I wanted to know where I stood so I could get the momentum going for the rest of the year.  Yes, were almost done with 2006.  Scary if ...
Posted by ♥ shar ♥ on Wed, 06 Sep 2006 10:42:00 PST

What I wish I had known about marriage

"What I wish I had known about marriage"By Kristin ArmstrongKristin Armstrong, the ex-wife of cyclist Lance Armstrong, believes that too many women leave their true selves behind at the altar. Here's ...
Posted by ♥ shar ♥ on Mon, 05 Jun 2006 02:17:00 PST

Motivation

What in your life motivates you?  Is it money? love? success?Many things motivate me, but those three things give me a harder push.  I want to be financially stable, so i would like to pursu...
Posted by ♥ shar ♥ on Mon, 29 May 2006 04:38:00 PST

I want to...

I want to....:- Visit an aquarium- Go to Medieval Times- Eat at new restaurants- Go to History and Science Museum- Go to NYC- Get at least 8 consecutive hours of sleep- Get a tan- Hit the beach- go to...
Posted by ♥ shar ♥ on Tue, 16 May 2006 01:16:00 PST

What's left of me...

WHATS LEFT OF ME~ Nick Lachey Watched my life pass me by -- in the rearview mirrorPictures frozen in time -- are becoming clearerI don't wanna waste another day -- stuck in the shadow of my mista...
Posted by ♥ shar ♥ on Thu, 11 May 2006 03:27:00 PST

Relationships? I give up...

***edit*** 5/11/06 5:06 PM CTSo, i understand that i'm being way overdramatic.  I guess that was the mood I was in last night.  After some careful reevalution, I understand that I am focusin...
Posted by ♥ shar ♥ on Thu, 11 May 2006 12:05:00 PST

The One

I've written a blog like this before, maybe not on here, but on my xanga. It may be repetitive, but I just feel like I need to say some stuff and get it off my chest. How do you know when you have fou...
Posted by ♥ shar ♥ on Mon, 01 May 2006 02:48:00 PST