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Which Buffy Girl Are You? Find out @ She's Crafty I've mostly been pegged as an INFP, but here's what my most recent (and somewhat abbreviated) personality test said...(as an INFJ)
Introverted iNtuitive Feeling Judging
by Joe Butt
Profile: INFJ
Revision: 3.01
Date of Revision: 6 Mar 2005
------------------------------------------------------------ --------------------Beneath the quiet exterior, INFJs hold deep convictions about the weightier matters of life. Those who are activists -- INFJs gravitate toward such a role -- are there for the cause, not for personal glory or political power.
INFJs are champions of the oppressed and downtrodden. They often are found in the wake of an emergency, rescuing those who are in acute distress. INFJs may fantasize about getting revenge on those who victimize the defenseless. The concept of 'poetic justice' is appealing to the INFJ.
"There's something rotten in Denmark." Accurately suspicious about others' motives, INFJs are not easily led. These are the people that you can rarely fool any of the time. Though affable and sympathetic to most, INFJs are selective about their friends. Such a friendship is a symbiotic bond that transcends mere words.
INFJs have a knack for fluency in language and facility in communication. In addition, nonverbal sensitivity enables the INFJ to know and be known by others intimately.
Writing, counseling, public service and even politics are areas where INFJs frequently find their niche.
Functional Analysis:
Introverted iNtuition
Introverted intuitives, INFJs enjoy a greater clarity of perception of inner, unconscious processes than all but their INTJ cousins. Just as SP types commune with the object and "live in the here and now" of the physical world, INFJs readily grasp the hidden psychological stimuli behind the more observable dynamics of behavior and affect. Their amazing ability to deduce the inner workings of the mind, will and emotions of others gives INFJs their reputation as prophets and seers. Unlike the confining, routinizing nature of introverted sensing, introverted intuition frees this type to act insightfully and spontaneously as unique solutions arise on an event by event basis.
Extraverted Feeling
Extraverted feeling, the auxiliary deciding function, expresses a range of emotion and opinions of, for and about people. INFJs, like many other FJ types, find themselves caught between the desire to express their wealth of feelings and moral conclusions about the actions and attitudes of others, and the awareness of the consequences of unbridled candor. Some vent the attending emotions in private, to trusted allies. Such confidants are chosen with care, for INFJs are well aware of the treachery that can reside in the hearts of mortals. This particular combination of introverted intuition and extraverted feeling provides INFJs with the raw material from which perceptive counselors are shaped.
Introverted Thinking The INFJ's thinking is introverted, turned toward the subject. Perhaps it is when the INFJ's thinking function is operative that he is most aloof. A comrade might surmise that such detachment signals a disillusionment, that she has also been found lacking by the sardonic eye of this one who plumbs the depths of the human spirit. Experience suggests that such distancing is merely an indication that the seer is hard at work and focusing energy into this less efficient tertiary function.
Extraverted Sensing INFJs are twice blessed with clarity of vision, both internal and external. Just as they possess inner vision which is drawn to the forms of the unconscious, they also have external sensing perception which readily takes hold of worldly objects. Sensing, however, is the weakest of the INFJ's arsenal and the most vulnerable. INFJs, like their fellow intuitives, may be so absorbed in intuitive perceiving that they become oblivious to physical reality. The INFJ under stress may fall prey to various forms of immediate gratification. Awareness of extraverted sensing is probably the source of the "SP wannabe" side of INFJs. Many yearn to live spontaneously; it's not uncommon for INFJ actors to take on an SP (often ESTP) role.
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Introverted iNtuiting Feeling Judging
by Marina Margaret Heiss
INFJs are distinguished by both their complexity of character and the unusual range and depth of their talents. Strongly humanitarian in outlook, INFJs tend to be idealists, and because of their J preference for closure and completion, they are generally "doers" as well as dreamers. This rare combination of vision and practicality often results in INFJs taking a disproportionate amount of responsibility in the various causes to which so many of them seem to be drawn.
INFJs are deeply concerned about their relations with individuals as well as the state of humanity at large. They are, in fact, sometimes mistaken for extroverts because they appear so outgoing and are so genuinely interested in people -- a product of the Feeling function they most readily show to the world. On the contrary, INFJs are true introverts, who can only be emotionally intimate and fulfilled with a chosen few from among their long-term friends, family, or obvious "soul mates." While instinctively courting the personal and organizational demands continually made upon them by others, at intervals INFJs will suddenly withdraw into themselves, sometimes shutting out even their intimates. This apparent paradox is a necessary escape valve for them, providing both time to rebuild their depleted resources and a filter to prevent the emotional overload to which they are so susceptible as inherent "givers." As a pattern of behavior, it is perhaps the most confusing aspect of the enigmatic INFJ character to outsiders, and hence the most often misunderstood -- particularly by those who have little experience with this rare type.
Due in part to the unique perspective produced by this alternation between detachment and involvement in the lives of the people around them, INFJs may well have the clearest insights of all the types into the motivations of others, for good and for evil. The most important contributing factor to this uncanny gift, however, are the empathic abilities often found in Fs, which seem to be especially heightened in the INFJ type (possibly by the dominance of the introverted N function).
This empathy can serve as a classic example of the two-edged nature of certain INFJ talents, as it can be strong enough to cause discomfort or pain in negative or stressful situations. More explicit inner conflicts are also not uncommon in INFJs; it is possible to speculate that the causes for some of these may lie in the specific combinations of preferences which define this complex type. For instance, there can sometimes be a "tug-of-war" between NF vision and idealism and the J practicality that urges compromise for the sake of achieving the highest priority goals. And the I and J combination, while perhaps enhancing self-awareness, may make it difficult for INFJs to articulate their deepest and most convoluted feelings.
Usually self-expression comes more easily to INFJs on paper, as they tend to have strong writing skills. Since in addition they often possess a strong personal charisma, INFJs are generally well-suited to the "inspirational" professions such as teaching (especially in higher education) and religious leadership. Psychology and counseling are other obvious choices, but overall, INFJs can be exceptionally difficult to pigeonhole by their career paths. Perhaps the best example of this occurs in the technical fields. Many INFJs perceive themselves at a disadvantage when dealing with the mystique and formality of "hard logic", and in academic terms this may cause a tendency to gravitate towards the liberal arts rather than the sciences. However, the significant minority of INFJs who do pursue studies and careers in the latter areas tend to be as successful as their T counterparts, as it is *iNtuition* -- the dominant function for the INFJ type -- which governs the ability to understand abstract theory and implement it creatively.
In their own way, INFJs are just as much "systems builders" as are INTJs; the difference lies in that most INFJ "systems" are founded on human beings and human values, rather than information and technology. Their systems may for these reasons be conceptually "blurrier" than analogous NT ones, harder to measure in strict numerical terms, and easier to take for granted -- yet it is these same underlying reasons which make the resulting contributions to society so vital and profound.
Copyright © 1996-2007 by Marina Margaret Heiss and Joe Butt
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The Counselor Idealists are abstract in thought and speech, cooperative in reaching their goals, and enterprising and attentive in their interpersonal roles. Counselors focus on human potentials, think in terms of ethical values, and come easily to decisions. The small number of this type (little more than 2 percent) is regrettable, since Counselors have an unusually strong desire to contribute to the welfare of others and genuinely enjoy helping their companions. Although Counsleors tend to be private, sensitive people, and are not generally visible leaders, they nevertheless work quite intensely with those close to them, quietly exerting their influence behind the scenes with their families, friends, and colleagues. This type has great depth of personality; they are themselves complicated, and can understand and deal with complex issues and people.
Counselors can be hard to get to know. They have an unusually rich inner life, but they are reserved and tend not to share their reactions except with those they trust. With their loved ones, certainly, Counselors are not reluctant to express their feelings, their face lighting up with the positive emotions, but darkening like a thunderhead with the negative. Indeed, because of their strong ability to take into themselves the feelings of others, Counselors can be hurt rather easily by those around them, which, perhaps, is one reason why they tend to be private people, mutely withdrawing from human contact. At the same time, friends who have known a Counselor for years may find sides emerging which come as a surprise. Not that they are inconsistent; Counselors value their integrity a great deal, but they have intricately woven, mysterious personalities which sometimes puzzle even them.
Counselors have strong empathic abilities and can become aware of another's emotions or intentions -- good or evil -- even before that person is conscious of them. This "mind-reading" can take the form of feeling the hidden distress or illnesses of others to an extent which is difficult for other types to comprehend. Even Counselors can seldom tell how they came to penetrate others' feelings so keenly. Furthermore, the Counselor is most likely of all the types to demonstrate an ability to understand psychic phenomena and to have visions of human events, past, present, or future. What is known as ESP may well be exceptional intuitive ability-in both its forms, projection and introjection. Such supernormal intuition is found frequently in the Counselor, and can extend to people, things, and often events, taking the form of visions, episodes of foreknowledge, premonitions, auditory and visual images of things to come, as well as uncanny communications with certain individuals at a distance.

My Interests

Equality. Chipotle's barbacoa and guacamole. Ninjas. Instruction manuals for techno-toys. Reminiscing the '80s. Apple. Semi-colons. Women who kick ass (literally and/or figuratively). Glow-in-the-dark anything. Good karaoke. Mint anything...except--ugh--'wintergreen'. Joss Whedon. Sony. The words 'onomatopoeia' and 'juxtaposition'. Cool lights. Pistachios. Rob Thomas (the writer, not the Matchbox Twenty guy...though he's cool, too.) Orange (the color, not the fruit...though they're cool, too.) Bryan Fuller. Celebrities who surprise me in a good way. Video games. Manners and courtesy. Stephen King. People who get my weird humor (and I don't think there are many of you out there). Entertainment Weekly. Olives and pickles. Fresh ( two weeks on the expiration date) Hostess pastries. Michael Moore. Quality toilet paper. Anger-free, rational debating. Pretentiousness inverted. Ellipsis...
Right now (well maybe not RIGHT now) I'm listening to:...

Music:

Test Page Hooo boy this is gonna be a long one, in mostly random order:Depeche Mode Erasure/Andy Bell Tori Amos Toad the Wet Sprocket/Glen Phillips Anything Box Madonna Missy Elliott Trina Fall Out Boy Keane Snow Patrol The Cranberries Jason Mraz Ludacris Eminem Liz Phair Bassment Jaxx Nine Inch Nails Nelly Furtado Collective Soul Moby Better Than Ezra Andrew W.K. Athenaeum N.E.R.D. Jars of Clay The Fray FannyPack Roxette Matchbox Twenty Pet Shop Boys Freedy Johnson Gwen Stefani Guster Duncan Sheik RENT sdtk The Verve Pipe/Brian Vander Ark Information Society Sir Mix-a-Lot The Killers John Legend Nirvana Green Day B.T. Sigur Ros Bloodhound Gang Alanis Morrissette Junior Senior Pink When in Rome The Streets "Weird Al" Weezer The Police Jack Johnson N.W.A. Enya Howie Day Bubba Sparxxx Jay-Z Black Eyed Peas Jimmy Eat World *NSYNC/Justin Timberlake/J.C. Chasez Bjork Rufus Wainwright P.M. Dawn Gwen Stefani Kanye West Merril Bainbridge Lady Sovereign Outkast Sarah McLachlan Panic! At the Disco Kelly Clarkson Lords of Acid INXS Suzanne Vega Paula Cole Nelly Death Cab for Cutie Craig David More comin'...

Movies:

Test Page The Breakfast Club The Shawshank Redemption The Piano Brokeback Mountain Office Space Ferris Bueller's Day Off Stand By Me The Lord of the Rings Trilogy Good Will Hunting Crouching Tiger, Hidden Dragon Serenity Children of Men Heathers Spider-Man (both) Donnie Darko Memento Pi Batman United 93 Batman Begins Michael Moore's stuff Once Mary Poppins Rent Dirty Dancing Pretty Woman Super Size Me Sin City Crash The Wizard of Oz Fight Club Sling Blade The Descent Sideways Terminator 2 Pulp Fiction The Blair Witch Project Fargo Maria Full of Grace Open Water Trainspotting The Shining Charlie and the Chocolate Factory Willy Wonka and the Chocolate Factory The Sound of Music Kill Bill Hero The Indiana Jones Trilogy The Matrix Jaws American Beauty Harold & Kumar Go to White Castle Aladdin Beauty and the Beast The Lion King The Little Mermaid Thumbwars Before Sunrise Before Sunset Ghostbusters Star Wars (original trilogy, thanks) Reservoir Dogs A Christmas Story Heathers Hotel Rwanda Fargo The Princess Bride Ever After Reality Bites Mean Girls My Big Fat Greek Wedding In the Company of Men Labyrinth Go Sixteen Candles Spaceballs Kevin Smith's stuff More...

Television:

The Best. Show. Ever(and if you laugh, I will mock your obvious, dismissive ignorance, and will school you accordingly. Trust.) Buffy the Vampire Slayer ; Also:

    Angel Firefly (I have a serious Joss Whedon thing).
My current pinnacle of faves:
    Battlestar Galactica ('spect to the old one, but it's ALL about the brilliant new) The Office (they sooo could've jumped the shark, but it hasn't let me down even once all season) Veronica Mars...(the recently cancelled...R.I.P. =(
Coming in close second(s):
    Lost (although they try to make me hate them) Grey's Anatomy (occasionally the best written show on TV) Heroes Bones So You Think You Can Dance (Best season ever! I love 'em all...but go Neil!) The Sarah Silverman Program (prepare to be offended...but you won't notice through all of your guffawing) Best Week Ever
Everyone else can pile up here:
    Wonder Showzen (LSD disguised as candy. Delicious, bloody candy.) The 4400 (when the writing doesn't suck) My Name is Earl The Office (OG British flavor) Entourage Project Runway (I was sucked in this season) 30 Rock American Idol Sealab 2021 (and the new Frisky Dingo flavor!) Prison Break (check your brain at the door and just enjoy the ride) Intervention The Shield Robot Chicken (the shorter, kinder younger sibling of Wonder Showzen. Now with less puppets and more clay! Essential for children of the 1980's and '90s.) Real World/Road Rules Challenges (forget the regular episodes...the challenges rule!).

Books:

Test Page Watership Down, The Dragonlance Saga (the OG ones, thanks), Harry Potter, anything Stephen King, Terry Brooks' stuff, the Chronicles of Narnia, The Lord of the Rings, A Wrinkle in Time, Where the Red Fern Grows, From the Mixed-Up Files of Mrs. Basil E. Frankweiler, OG Dave Barry stuff, David Sedaris, instruction manuals for gadgets...(no, seriously).

Heroes:

...is a really great show that has had a really disappointing Season 1 finale and Season 2 beginning.

My Blog

Time again to couch and fondle the remote...

It's fall and premiere week, y'all! As if you didn't know and aren't waiting for your favorite show to start... At any rate, here's my current "To Watch" list, which will be aided by my faithful DVR....
Posted by Ellipsi...an on Mon, 24 Sep 2007 03:14:00 PST

Oh. Mygod. "Top That!" Part 2: "Teen Witch" the Musical

Just got this in my mailbox and it made me pee: Teen Witch lives on! _____________________________________________ Hi, I'm Sara and I hope you'll stop by and give a listen to my songs - I play Louise ...
Posted by Ellipsi...an on Mon, 09 Apr 2007 02:38:00 PST

My pseudo-Idol aspirations

Hey all~My mom found this blurb in the SD Union Tribune where fans can "audition" to be a part of their panel to handicap this year's "American Idol". Those with "...passion and snark to share" were ...
Posted by Ellipsi...an on Thu, 25 Jan 2007 03:46:00 PST

Top That!

OMG, like, I hope you guys totally remember this AWESOME RADICAL movie! It's Teen Witch, from the TOTALLY TUBULAR decade of the 80's! Okay, seriously, I used to watch this s----y movie everytime it ...
Posted by Ellipsi...an on Tue, 17 Oct 2006 03:58:00 PST