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Debra

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About Me

I love music, reading, talking shit with my friends! I have 5 children, and a new grandma! I love animals and own 4 cats, and a small dog. Any free time I have, I'm usually doing some sort of crafty thing or chatting on line with friends. Wondering what life has in store for me next!..
Who am I? I wish I knew. At 41 years old I am just finding my place in the world. I know I can run my office with military precision but come home to a total disaster. I think that’s because my kids know me for the pushover I really am. I’m as tough as a tiger but bruise as easy as a banana. My emotions run very deep, but I hide them well… as long as no one asks me ‘how are you?’
I’m the bravest soul you’ll ever meet, but the biggest chicken in the world. I guess that makes me an oxymoron, or just maybe a moron. LOL
I wake each day with a smile on my face, just happy knowing that me and mine are alive and healthy.
I love to laugh, and am just happy my children are happy and have what they need. I am saddened with the thought that I am not all I can be for them, but persevere with the knowledge that it is really for the best that they don’t get all that they think they need.
I love life, I tackle everything that comes my way. I could live to be 200 years old and still not see and do what I want to see. There is still so much to learn “out there” that I never want to die. Each day is an adventure and I hope to be around to see a lot of it.
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My Interests

.. width="425" height="350" ..img src="http://image.blinkyou.com/glitter_images/debbiehp.gif" border="0" Yapping, sewing, cross stitch, Computers, Music, Pets, Music, Food!

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How evil are you? How about an ex Microsoft employee, lol!!
Your Five Variable Love Profile
Propensity for Monogamy:

Your propensity for monogamy is low.
You see love as a gift that you should give to many.
It's hard for you to imagine being with one person at at time...
Let alone one person for the rest of your life!

Experience Level:

Your experience level is high.
You've loved, lost, and loved again.
You have had a wide range of love experiences.
And when the real thing comes along, you know it!

Dominance:

Your dominance is medium.
You tend to be the one with more power.
You aren't a total control freak in relationships..
But of course you don't mind getting you way!

Cynicism:

Your cynicism is low.
You are an eternal optimist when it comes to love and romance.
No matter how many times you've been hurt - you're never bitter.
You believe in one true love, your perfect soulmate.
And if you haven't found true love yet, you know you will soon.

Independence:

Your independence is low.
This doesn't mean you're dependent in relationships..
It does mean that you don't have any problem sharing your life.
In your opinion, the best part of being in love is being together. The Five Variable Love Test

Music:

I love ALL music!

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Movies:

I will watch anything except HORROR. Just gives me the shivvers thinking about it! Love Action/Adventure, SciFi, Comedies,

Television:

Mostly watch TLC, Spike TV, History Channel, and the FOX channel. Dont really have a favorite anything. Just depends on what my mind is interested in at the time I happen to turn on the tv (which isnt frequent)


Books:

I read SciFi, Prehistory (ie: Clan of the cave bear shit) Just discovered fantasy (Terry Goodkind rocks!)
Your Brain's Pattern
You have a tempered, reasonable way of thinking.
You tend to take every new idea in, and meld it with your world view.
For you, everything is always changing. Each moment is different.
Your thinking process tends to be very natural - with no beginnings or endings. What Pattern Is Your Brain?

Heroes:

My heroes are everyday people: Like my friend who at 54 recieved custody of her grandchildren, and struggles everyday to make ends meet. Or my friend who chose to change his sex so that he was finally comfortable in his own skin. Or any person who makes a change, who knows that change will not make their friends and family happy but they know that this change will truly make themselves happy for the first time in their entire life.
Your Brain is 60% Female, 40% Male
Your brain is a healthy mix of male and female
You are both sensitive and savvy
Rational and reasonable, you tend to keep level headed
But you also tend to wear your heart on your sleeve What Gender Is Your Brain?
You Are 70% Boyish and 30% Girlish
You are pretty evenly split down the middle - a total eunuch.
Okay, kidding about the eunuch part. But you do get along with both sexes.
You reject traditional gender roles. However, you don't actively fight them.
You're just you. You don't try to be what people expect you to be. How Boyish or Girlish Are You? Which Tarot Card Are You?
You are the Justice card. Justice preserves the harmony of the world. Working with opposite forces, Justice does not seek to criticize or condemn but rather to accept. The idea behind the card justice is that opposite forces are complementary; you could not have good without evil or light without darkness. Justice's position is to make sure that if a thing is out of balance, the weight of its energy is realigned with its opposite force. This card is also a card of humour, for it is in pointing out contrary positions that humour is often found. The attitude that is found in the humourous person, being able to shift perspective and flow with an instinct, is important in the maintenance of good balance. Image from The Blue Moon Tarot Deck. http://www.themysticeye.com/pics/bluemoon.htm
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Your Hair Should Be Purple
Intense, thoughtful, and unconventional.
You're always philosophizing and inspiring others with your insights. What's Your Funky Inner Hair Color?
You are Maryiln Monroe
A classic tortured beauty
You're the dream girl of many men
Yet they never seem to treat you right What Famous Pinup Are You?
You Should Be In The Donnas
You've got that a bit of an edge to you
The bad girl that all the good boys want! What Girl Group Should You Be In?

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There are:
1,346
people with my name
in the U.S.A.
How many have your name?
What American accent do you have? Your Result: The West

Your accent is the lowest common denominator of American speech. Unless you're a SoCal surfer, no one thinks you have an accent. And really, you may not even be from the West at all, you could easily be from Florida or one of those big Southern cities like Dallas or Atlanta.


The Midland
Boston
North Central
The Inland North
Philadelphia
The South
The Northeast
What American accent do you have?
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Your Five Factor Personality Profile
Extroversion:
You have medium extroversion.
You're not the life of the party, but you do show up for the party.
Sometimes you are full of energy and open to new social experiences.
But you also need to hibernate and enjoy your "down time."
Conscientiousness:
You have high conscientiousness.
Intelligent and reliable, you tend to succeed in life.
Most things in your life are organized and planned well.
But you borderline on being a total perfectionist.
Agreeableness:
You have medium agreeableness.
You're generally a friendly and trusting person.
But you also have a healthy dose of cynicism.
You get along well with others, as long as they play fair.
Neuroticism:
You have low neuroticism.
You are very emotionally stable and mentally together.
Only the greatest setbacks upset you, and you bounce back quickly.
Overall, you are typically calm and relaxed - making others feel secure.
Openness to experience:
Your openness to new experiences is high.
In life, you tend to be an early adopter of all new things and ideas.
You'll try almost anything interesting, and you're constantly pushing your own limits.
A great connoisseir of art and beauty, you can find the positive side of almost anything. The Five Factor Personality Test

What Classic Movie Are You?
personality tests by similarminds.com
Your personality type is SCOAI

You are social, calm, organized, accommodating, and intellectual, and may prefer a city which matches those traits.

The largest representation of your personality type can be found in the these U.S. cities: Salt Lake City, Oklahoma City, Nashville, Tucson, Phoenix, Memphis, W. Palm Beach, Portland/Salem, Louisville, Cincinnati, San Diego, Los Angeles and these international countries/regions Slovenia, Luxembourg, India, Croatia, Romania, Taiwan, Middle East, China, Caribbean, Iceland, South Africa, Czech Republic, South Korea, Hong Kong

What Places In The World Match Your Personality?
City Reviews at CityCulture.org What's your inner power? (Girls only sorry. Beautiful anime pictures, lengthy results)
Understanding- Your inner power is Understanding! Lifes many mysteries have become your ultimate goal to work out. You are neither a good or bad person, just very neutral, very stable. You look down on nothing or anyone, merely observe their point of view and make no judgments. You can be seen as very shadowy and uncertain in what you believe in to an outsider, but this isnt always true. You simply dont flaunt your views around. You have a few, close friends who rely on you, and love you for the way your never scorn for the way they live their lives. You are very caring and would make a great mother, seeing you always try to help those who come to you for your aid. You are extremely hard to anger, and yet when you are, your forgiveness is hard to gain. You are loyal, secretive, very quiet and often impassive, with few able to break around the wall that you built to protect yourself. Not everyone acknowledges you even exist, but you dont really care. As long as you have your close friends by your side, you are right to go. Although they might not voice it, many people long to have your ability to accept change as well as what cant be changed. Dont ever let others bring you down, because you are truly special, and those who have the courage to venture passed your walls of silence will only regret not having tried to befriend you sooner. Boy/Girl who will sweep you off your feet: The mysterious boy/girl. The one who no one knows much about. You are attracted to him/her by the secrecy around him/her, and he/she loves how stable and unjudging you are. Your stone/jewel: Sapphire Your power: Life. The ability to bring those who have died back to life, as well as bring life back into those who have lost all hope. Your element: Lunar A quote that applies to you: "Do not be 'against' anything. Being 'against' weakens you. Be 'for' what you want. Being 'for' empowers you."
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Your Seduction Style: Fantasy Lover
You know that ideal love that each of us dreams of from childhood? That's you!
Not because you posess all of the ideal characteristics, but because you are a savvy shape shifter.
You have the uncanny ability to detect someone's particular fantasy... and make it you.
You inspire each person to be an idealist and passionate, and you make each moment memorable
Even a simple coffee date with you can be the most romantic moment of someone's life
By giving your date exactly what he or she desires, you quickly become the ideal lover.
Your abilities to make dreams come true is so strong, that you are often the love of many people's lives.
Your ex's (and even people you have simply met or been friends with) long to be yours.
No doubt you are the one others have dreamed of... your biggest challenge is finding *your* dream lover. What Kind of Seducer Are You?
You Are Smokin' Hot
You're a terrible flirt, a sharp dresser, and a party animal.
Of course, you're totally sizzling too. And for you, being hot just comes naturally. Are You Hot?
Your Kissing Technique Is: Perfect
Your kissing technique is amazing - and you know it.
You have the confidence to make the first move.
And you always seem to know what kissing style is going to work best.
Sometimes you're passionate, sometimes you're a tease. And you're always amazing! Are You a Good Kisser? Which ArchAngel are you most like?
Gabriel. You're most like the ArchAngel of Communication, in charge of things like telephones, libraries, internet, and the 411 phone menu. You're organised and are not shy about inflicting that organisation on others.
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My Blog

Long Island

(previously posted as a bulletin in December) It's amazing, I oftened wondered if I would really make it to New York. Once I visited the place I really wanted to come. Before that it was just the pla...
Posted by Debra on Tue, 30 Jan 2007 01:33:00 PST

Looming just over the horizon

Moving Day! Sheesh, its two weeks away and we still dont have a place to go. I am so worried I will be stuck here! I so hate being here, I wish I could explain it to my friends... Hell I wish I could...
Posted by Debra on Sun, 12 Nov 2006 08:16:00 PST

Married life

  This is my husband. We've had a very rough year. We split up. Now we are back together. I love him with all my heart, and now he sees it. I've missed him tremendously. I am so happy he is com...
Posted by Debra on Fri, 08 Sep 2006 06:08:00 PST

More stupid tests

Your love is... by ChibiMarronchan Your name is... Your kiss is... erotic Your hugs are... to die for Your eyes... light up a day Your touch is... heart warming Your smell is... refreshin...
Posted by Debra on Wed, 23 Aug 2006 09:32:00 PST

I'm getting a GrandDaughter!!

I will have a GrandDaughter Christmas Eve! Here's her pics! theres her face.. you can tell by her jaw which way the head is.. here's her femur.. the legbone from the hip. here's her little fin...
Posted by Debra on Tue, 22 Aug 2006 05:54:00 PST

Death

Thursday morning my cousin was hit by a train... Not much left of him from what I understand... So much death in my life, sometimes it makes me wonder what we are living for. Off and on I have been th...
Posted by Debra on Sun, 20 Aug 2006 11:49:00 PST

Chat with an old close friend

Freelance whispers to Noodles: shhhh you talkin to much Noodles whispers to Freelance: :) Noodles whispers to Freelance: actually I was being teary eyed and feeling lonely Freelance whispers to Noodle...
Posted by Debra on Mon, 14 Aug 2006 07:50:00 PST

More Stupid "Tests"

Your Birthdate: December 13  You're dominant and powerful. You always need to be in charge.While others respect your competence, you can be a bit of a dictator.Hard working and serious, you...
Posted by Debra on Mon, 07 Aug 2006 05:50:00 PST

Does Your Birth Month Mean?

Your Birth Month is December  You love life and exude an outgoing, cheerful vibe.Blessed with a great sense of humor, you can laugh at adversity.Your soul reflects: Celebration, success, an...
Posted by Debra on Sun, 06 Aug 2006 10:17:00 PST

Message to HGL

This song says it all! I remember when, I remember, I remember when I lost my mind There was something so pleasant about that PLACE. Even your emotions have an echo in so much space And when you're o...
Posted by Debra on Sun, 06 Aug 2006 09:49:00 PST