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joy

I am here for Friends and Networking

About Me


a b o u t m e :

i love laughter, hate drama, go "grrr" when im irritated, pucker my lips when im mad. a bit shy at first, so just give me a while to open up. always here to listen when you need to vent, to lend a helping hand, or just a shoulder to cry on...never wanting my friends to feel like their alone...and dont mind acting a fool just to put a smile on their face *i'll even bust my "white girl" dance moves if i have to* a day never goes by where i dont think about my sister...life just isnt complete without her!! i love love love vanilla stoli w/ coke *i'm not an alkamaholic* i always have to finish my fries, no matter how full i may be, and dont mind helping those who cant...theyre just soooo good. sarcasm is on of my best qualities. i believe love conquers all, in karma, and that everyone deserves a second chance...not all grudges should be held on to. ooh, and that the "nod and smile" really does work =)

My Interests

i n t e r e s t s :

GOD, my loud dysfunctional family, picking on my lil bro, actin a fool with my nephews, playin with kingston the pup, reminiscing with friends, happy thoughts, funny moments, laughter, good wine, vanilla vodka, chocolate covered strawberries, rasberries, caramel machiato, dancing, reading, designing, sewing, shopping, grubbin, vintage/retro clothing, deep conversations, people watching, art, spoken word, and my beautiful god-daughter..Lil Miss Natalie Joy Lumada... SESAME STREET & MORNING STRETCHES ...lol...

I'd like to meet:

My Baby's Mommy

Ma-Marisa

Geenah

Vel

Miss Mary

Scoutism

Leah

Jing

Jennifer

Fatso

Isang

Aileen

Nicolette Patch

Princess JJ

Cherry

Sesy

Dina

Myisha

Cecille

Music:

m u s i c :

neosoul, drumnbass, jungle, dancehall, reggae, oldschool hip-hop, house, acid jazz....basically anything that makes me close my eyes, bob my head, sway my hips, snap my fingers, clap my hands, forget about the world, and dance like nobody's watching!!

Movies:

m o v i e s :

smoking aces, sin city, closer, the notebook, napoleon dynamite, half baked, office space, pulp fiction, kill bill 1&2, love jones, romi and michelle's highschool reunion, sweet november, princess bride, 13 going on 30, 50 first dates, the sweetest thing, willy wonka/charlie and the chocolate factory, cinderella, sixteen candles, pretty in pink, being john malkovich, lost in translation, eternal sunshine of a spotless mind, empire records, heathers, reality bites, the skeleton key, a lot like love, crash, 40 yr old virgin, munich, the wood, just friends, curious george, v for vendetta, grandma's boy, failure to launch

Television:

t e l e v i s i o n :

friends, sex & the city, will & grace, csi, grey's anatomy, samantha who, mtv, and much much more...cant get enough of it!!

Books:

b o o k s :

the wisdom of florence scovel shinn, tears for water, boys are stupid...throw rocks at them!, even god is single, your best life now, dont sweat the small

Heroes:

h e r o e s :

my grandparents....perfecto & perfecta santos (their real names...no joke!!)

My Blog

"non-judging orientation"

it simply means that we can act with much greater clarity in our own lives, and be more balanced, more effective, and more ethical in our activities, if we know that we are immersed in a stream of unc...
Posted by joy on Mon, 26 Nov 2007 08:14:00 PST

i exist...

i exist as i am, that is enough if no other in the world be aware i sit content, and if each and all be aware i sit content. one world is aware, and by far the largest to me, and that is myself. and w...
Posted by joy on Sat, 17 Nov 2007 09:36:00 PST

mother teresa

"we cannot do great things on this earth. we can only do small things with great love."
Posted by joy on Sun, 23 Sep 2007 10:21:00 PST

daily affirmation

i let go of everything not divinely designed for me, and the perfect plan of my life now comes to pass. florence scovel shinn
Posted by joy on Tue, 18 Sep 2007 06:47:00 PST

goodbye l.a......hello new york

....AAAAAAAAAAAAGH....cant believe im leavin tomorrow!!! almost packed and ready to go. actually going for work, but im sure i'll be able to squeeze in some play time....sight seeing....shopping....an...
Posted by joy on Fri, 20 Jul 2007 10:17:00 PST

make a gift...

Those who achieve are those who give. The greatest leaders are the leaders who are most devoted to service.Every encounter, every challenge, every relationship, every situation is an opportunity to gi...
Posted by joy on Tue, 19 Jun 2007 08:09:00 PST

you are not defined by anything or anyone external to yourself

i do not have to prove myself or be judged by the results. i simply am who i am, doing what i choose to do, with a sense of acceptance about the outcome or lack of outcome.
Posted by joy on Fri, 08 Jun 2007 08:28:00 PST

focused abundance

Abundance is all around you. At any given moment, you are immersed in it.Through the living of your life, you focus that abundance. And it becomes specific experiences, creations and accomplishments.T...
Posted by joy on Wed, 06 Jun 2007 08:05:00 PST

Barcelona.....blaaaaaaaah!

due to company expenses, i will not be needed in barcelona. grrrrr. fuck it....guess im gonna be partyin my ass off while the boss is away! yup, sounds too me! lol. who wants to party with me? come on...
Posted by joy on Thu, 24 May 2007 08:48:00 PST

transformation

i know that i create what i have and what i need, and that i am capable of performing miracles when i am balanced inwardly and using my thinking dimension to create the world i want for myself. i know...
Posted by joy on Tue, 22 May 2007 10:04:00 PST