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James

I am here for Dating, Friends and Networking

About Me

So you want to know a little something about me? Well, I can cook, so hopefully that is a plus. I am an IT/Telecom Professional, and a computer geek (well, a geek all around). I am a hopeless romantic, but I do not give my heart easily. I'm single after a long partnership, so this is my first foray into "dating" in a decade. I do not like headgames, and prefer people be honest with themselves, and with me. I own a house, and have two wonderful huskies named Timber and Choemuc. I have done the "bar hopping" scene, and while I do not mind occasionally going out for a few drinks with friends, I prefer to snuggle up and watch a movie, cook dinner and just spend quality with the people I care about. I like camping, and the mountains, hot tubs, and taking trips when I can afford to do so. I am a first year college student at the Art Institute, and hope to be a Graphic Designer one day.I enjoy Sci-Fi and Fantasy books and movies, and my "fetishes" (if you can call them that) include belly dancing (I am learning how to drum), body paint, costumes and roleplaying (chicks in chain mail are really hot). I am more spiritual than religious.I would to expand my circle of friends, and have some fun along the way. Give me a shout if you think you would like to get to know me a little better. I am not perfect, nor never claim to be. I try to be honest, and in a serious relationship I am loyal and committed. I do not like shallow, plastic people.If you think I am someone you would like to get to know, just send me a message!
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My Interests

I enjoy cooking (not baking), and can work the grill or use a regular kitchen or cook on a campfire. I also enjoy ren faires (yes I dress up), camping, Sci-Fi conventions, reading Sci-Fi and Fantasy, Computer Gaming (yes I am a computer geek), table top and live action role playing. I also enjoy medieval costuming and history. I collect swords, knives and armor. I like sushi, Captain Morgan's spiced rum and imported beer and cider.

I'd like to meet:

A fun, vibrant person to hang out with, cook for (or be cooked for), to go out with and just enjoy some companionship. Most importantly I would like someone who can talk and listen well, who is patient and understanding, who can be honest with me (and themselves) about their feelings. If you are expecting perfection, or a "daddy" figure I am not interested (already been through that). I would like a "real person" if you know what I mean, someone who knows who they are to some degree, is comfortable with themselves to some degree, and does not play games. I am not looking for the bigger better deal, or the grass is always greener mentality. I guess I have gotten picky in my old age..:) I would also like to meet someone that will accept me--all of me--for who and what and I am, and who can show me how fun life can be again. If you think you have these qualities, then send me a message!

Music:

I love 70's and 80's classic rock (Styx, Meatloaf, REO, Nightranger ect). I also enjoy New Age (Mannaheim Steamroller) and Classical (Mozart).

Movies:

I enjoy pretty much anything, especially SCI-FI and Fantasy, including Lord of the Rings, Anime, Disney, and Action Adventure. I also like "B" movies, both Sci Fi and Fantasy, and some older classics such as Spartacus, Ben Hur, and any Clint Eastern westerns.I am not into romance or "girlie" flicks that much, however I do have one romance movie I will watch anytime-give me a jingle and I will be happy to consider inviting you over for dinner and a movie..:)

Television:

My favorite TV shows are Stargate Sg-1, Stargate Atlantis, Battlestar Galactica (both classic and new) and just about anything on SCI-FI, Discovery, History Channel, Food Network, A&E, and Adult Swim and the Cartoon Network.I LOVE Black Adder and other brit coms, including Monty Python, My Hero, Red Dwarf, Are You Being Served. I am also into Firefly and the movie Serenity. I also like Aqua Teen Hunger Force, Family guy, Simpsons, and Futurama.

Books:

Favorite books are the Mists of Avalon by Marion Zimmer Bradley, The Black Company by Glen Cook, and just about anything Sci-Fi or fantasy.

My Blog

Home...

I just wanted everyone to know that I am at home, and I am ok.  Yes, I do have a long road, things to come to grips with, but I am getting help.  I am not quite ready to post a blog of what ...
Posted by James on Mon, 16 Jul 2007 03:16:00 PST

Goodbye...

I just wanted to say goodbye.  I am sorry in advance for any hurt pain or suffering I have caused anyone. I am not loved, not wanted, never was and never will be.  So be it. Melissa, I still...
Posted by James on Fri, 13 Jul 2007 10:01:00 PST

Another useless blog...

well, here we are...memorial day weekend.  I have the next three days off, and was planning to go to the ren faire.  But some financial issues cropped up and now I cannot afford to go. It se...
Posted by James on Sun, 27 May 2007 07:51:00 PST

Where did he go? (Part 1)

I knew a guy once, a long time ago when I was in the air force. He was the kind of guy everyone liked being around--funny, life of the party, a good friend, who was always there to watch your back. A...
Posted by James on Sun, 20 May 2007 11:25:00 PST

Not that it matters...but Still....

Lady, mornings just a moment awayAnd Im without you once againYou laughed at meYou said you never needed meI wonder if you need me nowSo many dreams that flew awaySo many words we didnt sayTwo people ...
Posted by James on Thu, 08 Mar 2007 06:43:00 PST

Sick of It....

Ok..I am sick of it, sick of hearing about it and seeing it...Valentines Day.  Every commercial on the radio--valentines day.  People talking about valentines day.I am sick of it.  For ...
Posted by James on Sun, 11 Feb 2007 07:58:00 PST

It's 3 am..(warning: rant)

And I cannot sleep.  I start the new job tomorrow (today) at 9 am.  I need to be up by 6 am.  Alot of things keep running through my mind.  Some things make me feel angry, and anxi...
Posted by James on Tue, 16 Jan 2007 12:44:00 PST

Updates...

Well, I start my new job next week (on the 16th), so that is good.I started classes tonight for this quarter, and I got a letter in the mail from the school.  Apparantly last quarter I made a 3.9...
Posted by James on Tue, 09 Jan 2007 06:41:00 PST

Thoughts...

Well, yesterday and today were good days.  Wow...two in a row..:)Yesterday I got together with some friends, had dinner and tea, and just a very good day of reconnecting with some people.Today, I...
Posted by James on Fri, 05 Jan 2007 08:26:00 PST

Final grades are posted...

final grades are posted. and permanent..:) psychology A- typography A photoshop A My gpa is now a 3.4...:) go me! P.S  To the person in Conyers who keeps checking my site everyday..I am curio...
Posted by James on Mon, 18 Dec 2006 06:52:00 PST