Infatuation or Love...Infatuation is instant desire. It is one set of glands calling to another. Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows------one day at a time.
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely. It might spoil the dream.
Love is quiet understanding and the mature acceptance of imperfection. It is real. It gives you strength and grows beyond you---to bolster your beloved. You are warmed by his presence, even when he is away. Miles do not separate you. You want him nearer. But near or far, you know he is yours and you CAN wait.
Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him."
Love says, "Be patient. Don't panic. Plan your future with confidence."
Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. If you are honest, you will admit it is difficult to be in one another's company unless you are sure it will end in intimacy. Love is maturation of friendship. You must be friends before you can be lovers.
Infatuation lacks confidence. When he's away, you wonder if he's cheating. Sometimes you check.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. He feels that trust, and it makes him even more trustworthy.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you'll regret later, BUT LOVE NEVER WILL.
LOVE IS AN UPPER. IT MAKES YOU LOOK UP. IT MAKES YOU THINK UP. IT MAKES YOU A BETTER PERSON THAN YOU WERE BEFORE
I'd like to meet:
I try not to form a picture in my head of what I'm looking for because you just never know who is going to come sweep you off your feet, But i believe in timing and fate and when those two decide to have a party, me and one hell of a great guy are going to get together but until then someone handsome, has to have a great smile (light up the room style) fun loud outgoing in your face but not over the top, this libra wants BALANCE!!! Adventures of the unknown are good too. Certain things are more fun when you dont plan them. Go with the flow. Someone who is living rather than surviving. i want to laugh until i cry, that would be awesome!
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