I'm drawn to interesting people, good food and wine, great conversation, art, dance and the theatre, books that are hard to put down, music (see below) and Nantucket. I like to sail, and also bike and ski. Occasionally, I even like to shop. I'm equally at home in a suit, a pair of jeans, or a tux.
Women capture my interest because they are funny, articulate, cultured, independent, attractive/sexy, and libidinous (yes, I am a guy). They have their own careers, or other interests which they take seriously. They carry their own weight in a relationship and are not afraid to say "I love you" or initiate intimacy, behavior that I readily respond to.
Jazz, the blues, rock, and classical