I'd like to meet:
I am who I am! U either hate me or love me.....Either way I don't give a fuck!
Alil about me.... My name is Cecelia but only a few people have the privilege to call me that, u can call me Ce-Ce until i say otherwise! If u call me anything other then Ce-Ce it will be the last time we speak!
I am originally from South Philly but residing in South Jersey (Clementon) with my girl Nichole. I moved over here a few months ago to try and start fresh. So far, so good!
A few things u should prolly know before sending me a message.....I can't stand liers....most of the time I can smell a lie from a mile away! I hate cheaters, I wont help u cheat so if u have a girl dont waste ur time trying to talk to me, if anything I will find a way to contact ur girl as soon as u try! If u cant tell yet I am a very straight up person, I dont stand for bullshit and games so I would appreciate it if u dont come at me with any! Otherwise I am a very sweet person, well maybe not so much lately but it seems like people are learning how to push my buttons ( especially men or should I say boys) I believe in treating people the way they treat me and I pretty much live by that! If u treat me like shit be prepared to get whatever u give, only ten times worse! I love my family and friends with all the heart I have left and would do anything for them! They are the only people that have my heart and if u cross the line with them u will have to answer to me....I may not look like much but please test me and find out! I love a challenge! The bigger the better! Yes I can be considered as a bitch or maybe alil feisty, but I would say I am more real then anything! I don't lie unless u give me a reason to think u are less then the truth, I dont cheat or sleep around!
From my best friend Nichole's point of view: She's is hot, very outgoing, she will tell you how it is whether you like it or not, she is very trusting and caring and would give you the shirt off her back even if it was the last one she had and she had to walk around naked, lol. It would be a good excuse for her to walk around naked cause she does it in my apartment, lol. If you ever need anything from her she will always be there no matter what. If you take her anywhere she will make you laugh your ass off especially in restaurants she will talk to all the waiters and make them crack the fuck up the whole time, sometimes you may want to crawl under the table and pretend you're not with her but in the end you will definitely have a smile on your face. If anyone touches her in the wrong way she will hit you even if its with her tin can purse, lol. She may apologize later cause she feels bad, but they shouldn't have touched her in the first place. She'll probably apologize for everything in between. Basically she is a very fun girl and I love her to death and wouldn't change one thing about her........
Ok well I guess thats it for now anything Nichole and I haven't mentioned don't hesitate to send me a message and ask I promise I wont bite!
Maybe God put a few bad people in my life,
so when the right one came along I'd be thankful.
A Few Great Words Of Advice For All Women!!
If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be.
Slower is better.
Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
Don't settle.
If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you.
If something bothers you, speak up.
Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are.
Never borrow someone else's man. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
All men are NOT dogs.
You should not be the one doing all the bending... compromise is a two way street.
You need time to heal between relationships... there is nothing cute about baggage... Deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you... a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals... look for someone complimentary... not supplementary.
Dating is fun... even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
Make him miss you sometimes... when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him -he takes it for granted.
Never move into his mother's house.
Never co-sign for a man.
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
Music:
SLOW ME DOWN, LORD
Slow me down, Lord
Ease the pounding of my heart by the quieting of my mind.
Steady my hurried pace with a vision of eternal reach of time.
Give me, amid the confusion of the day the calmness of the everlasting hills.
Break the tenstion of my nerves and muscles with the soothing music of the singing streams that live in my memory.
Help me to know the magical, restoring power of sleep.
Teach me the art of taking minute vacations-of slowing down to look at a flower, chat with a friend, to pet a dog, to read a few lines from a good book.
Slow me down, Lord and inspire me to send my roots deep into the soil of life's enduring values that I may grow toward the stars of my greater destiny.
Slow me down, Lord
JUST BREATH IN THE DAY
Life is a voyage that we cant just rush through
although you want to grow up, stop simply to
Cherish the moments that you have by your side
This ride is crazy, so hold on tight
Year after year fly by with ease
But please smell, feel, hear, taste and see
All the wonderful things that easily pass u by
feel free to cry, laugh, scream and sigh
Relax, time goes by fast enough
Its tough to not push when push come to shove
But just taste the moment, and breath in the day
Don't delay, take a breath, just breathe in the Day
Movies:
Tarot.com/Astrology
The OX … THE DILIGENT OX
The Ox is the most balanced Chinese sign, loving peace, harmony and beauty. At the same time, Oxen can be strong willed, and behind their beautiful, serene faces can be a great temper and a critic that reacts angrily to anyone who threatens or harms them. They love family life but tend to be quite traditional in their values. Oxen only deeply trust a handful of people throughout their lives. They hate fussy or chaotic types -- for the Ox, life has to be easy. With their logical minds and creative hands, Oxen can produce the most perfect artworks and innovations.
Oxen walk through life without making many changes, which they avoid whenever possible. The traditions of his or her region or family will remain high in the Ox's mind. Oxen are hardworking and strong willed, and because of this they will go far in life. Respect the Ox and he or she will respect you. Once you lose an Ox's respect never try again -- you are no longer welcome. The Ox masters perseverance. Almost stubborn to a fault, the Ox will hold firm to his beliefs even at risk to his own comfort.
Love for the Ox Woman
Give this woman the freedom of running the household and it will be perfect, charming and warm. But you need to let an Ox do what she wants. Trust her and she will always do the right thing. Ox women love to love with humor and laughter. Very faithful, they expect the same from their partners. The best combination for an Ox woman is the Ox man. Sexuality is important for her, and she is more sensual than her Ox man. She is traditional in her lovemaking and needs a lot of tenderness.
Heroes:
My dad is prolly my biggest hero...He has been there taken care of me and my big bro since I was 2, doin it on his own! I really look up to him he is the realist man I know....I love him with all my heart and no1 but God comes b4 him!