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~Stac~

Never take someone for granted. Hold every person close to your heart because you might wake up one

About Me

I am 5'6", short light brown hair (and yes I love it short so don't ask me to grow it out for you), hazel eyes (be careful, they will change with my moods), and no I am not skinny. If you have a problem with that, keep on walking by. For the single women out there that are skinny, that are bbw "haters". Always remember that a fat person can always loose weight, but UGLY is always UGLY unless you have major surgery of course, and even then you are still UGLY on the inside.
I work in a bank and really love my job MOST days. I say most because sometimes it gets old dealing with stupid people LOL. I received my BSHA in May with a 3.98 GPA and currently obtaining my MBA/HCM with a 4.0 GPA. I should graduate early '08
My kids are my life. When people ask how many kids a woman has, men seem to run. Well I have 4. I have a 18m, 16m, 14f, and 4m. I have joint custody of the teenagers and they are rarely home anymore. They are busy doing their thang. I do not have any drama with their father as we usually get along. Neither of us enjoy fighting anymore. The 4 year old's father is not a part of our life.
Most of all I am tired of having my heart played with. Why do men play games? I would treat a man like a king, but it seems they just want to walk all over me.
What Your Sleeping Position Says
You are secretly sensitive, but you often put up a front.
Shy and private, you yearn for security.
You take relationships slowly.
You need lots of reassurances before you can trust. What Does Your Sleeping Position Say About You?
You're a Playful Kisser
Kissing is a huge game for you, a way to flirt and play
You're the first one to suggest playing spin the bottle at a party
Or you'll go for the wild kiss during a game of truth or dare
And you're up for kissing any sexy stranger if the mood is right! What Kind of Kisser Are You?
Your Seduction Style: Prized Object
The seduction game you play is tried, true, and still effective: hard to get.
You know that the best seducers turn the tables - and get their crush to seduce them.
The one running has the power, and you're a challenge that is worth the chase.
You are a master of enticing and pulling back. Giving a little and taking some away.
You are controlled enough to know rewards come after a long seduction dance.
Even though you want to call, email, or say "I love you" first - you don't!
You're style is the perfect mix of hot and cold - so much so that you have many suitors.
Think Holly Golightly from Breakfast at Tiffany's ... or any of those creepy guys from the Bachelor.
You're skilled at inspiring a chase. The real test is picking the person to slow down for. What Kind of Seducer Are You?
Your Ideal Relationship is Marriage
You've dated enough to know what you want.
And that's marriage - with the right person.
You're serious about settling down some time soon.
Even if you haven't met the person you want to get hitched to! What's Your Ideal Relationship?

My Interests

My kids! My daughter is Ms. AllAmerican and I follow her around to all her games. This is very important to me. I love sports period. I love to go bowling though I am not very good at it. I love to watch movies.

I'd like to meet:

Make no mistake, I want to find Mr. Right. I am not getting any younger and I am really bored with the dating game. I am a person that was not meant to be alone. I have proven I can live alone, I just do not enjoy it. So yes I am looking for love. I am looking for my best friend/soul mate/lover.

I want someone that I can open up to and totally trust with my life. He MUST have a sense of humor as life is not any fun if everyone is serious all the time. He must be able to provide for himself and must love kids. Could you be him?

Friends...at one point in my life, I used to think "lovers come and go but friendship is forever". Ever since my birthday, I realized that friends are not really that important either. True friends are almost impossible to find and "friends" tend to just take but never give. So while I do enjoy making friends, it is not a top priority.

Again, I know what I want, and I will NOT settle for less. I want someone to have and to hold, in sickness and in health until death do us part. This does not mean I am ready to jump into marriage, only a long term goal.
Br.

Music:

Music Video: IRREPLACEABLE (by Beyonce)

Music Video Code provided by Video Code Zone

Movies:

Coach Carter, Remember the Titans, XXX State of the Union, Blade Triology, Star Wars Triology, Armeggdon, Apollo 13, The Fast and Furious 1 and 2, Urban Cowboy, 8 seconds....lots of favorites depeding on my mood.

Christmas movies - Miracle on 34th street, Santa Clause 2, Grinch, and Christmas Vacation

Television:

Survivor (my 16 year old got me hooked), CSI, Shark, Without a Trace, and I can not forget I am a big Smallville fan (thanks to my 18 year old).

Heroes:

Even though my brother and I are not seeing eye-to-eye right now because of my choices, I still consider him my hero, as he is a fire fighter. He risks his life to save others. I am not sure he realizes how much I love him because we are not close, but maybe someday he will.

I also want to thank all of those who have served or are serving our country in Iraq. Because you are over there, it is keeping our homeland safe (though many people disagree). The fight is over there instead of on our soil. For that, I thank all of you.

My Blog

Joshua Morgan Hancock April 11, 1978 - April 29, 2007

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.Here, there's no more tears of sad...
Posted by ~Stac~ on Tue, 01 May 2007 09:48:00 PST

The Night Before Christmas

  T'was the night before Christmas, He lived all alone, In a one bedroom house, Made of plaster and stone. I had come down the chimney, With presents to give, And to see just who, In this home d...
Posted by ~Stac~ on Sun, 10 Dec 2006 05:29:00 PST

Ode to a Player

ROSES ARE RED VIOLETS ARE BLUE..I'm in love, but not with you... When you left, you thought I cried...But it was you that had to run and hide...You tell your women that I am crazy...But baby its your ...
Posted by ~Stac~ on Sun, 10 Dec 2006 06:22:00 PST

Web Pages

Why do people use backgrounds that are so busy that you cannot read the information in the profile? What is the point of having information on the page if you can't read it for the stupid backgrounds?...
Posted by ~Stac~ on Sun, 05 Mar 2006 09:56:00 PST

Sorry for being MIA

Life is busy as usual. I have been taking a break from the net and the games that come with it. Life is too short to spend it on here with players, cheats, and liars. My daughter was in a play this w...
Posted by ~Stac~ on Sun, 05 Mar 2006 09:53:00 PST