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Bar Goddess

I'm not interested in dating you (or anything else for that matter) so don't bother trying!

About Me


I'm a bartender living in Manhattan. Sure I went to college, but why work in an office when I can get paid to do what most people do on their free time? Want to come drink with me? I can be found at the Double Down Saloon (quite often on my days off too!).
DOUBLE DOWN SALOON
With all these NYC bars moving to Las Vegas, it was time for them to open up a bar here; proving that some things just don't stay in Vegas. The #1 dive bar in America now has a little sister here in NYC. This bar boasts an amazing jukebox full of punk/surf/rockabilly/etc., an outdoor patio (so you can drink and smoke at the same time), pool table, and a pin ball machine. With a 2 for 1 happy hour from 2pm-9pm, it's a drinkers paradise. Don't forget to check out the Bacon Martini and shots of "Ass Juice".
I was a bartender at Red Rock West Saloon for almost 5 years. I'm not there anymore but here are some of the highlights (and more hairstyles than any one person should ever be able to fit into 5 years).
What can I say about myself? I tend to talk to much and laugh too loud. Most of my friends describe me as a little crazy. I would say I'm a lot crazy. I'm loud and oppinionated, but I mean well and care more for my friends than I probably do about myself. I have a little bit of the mother hen syndrome, where I'm always trying to take care of the people around me. If my friends aren't happy, neither am I. I think you get back in life what you put out there. I try to always put out positive energy and avoid the negative. The only thing I like more than a good party is throwing a good party. Come sit at my bar and I can almost guarantee a good time!
You're Bettie Page!
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My Interests

Drinking, dancing, blowing fire, hula hooping, music, live shows, modeling, pin-up art, tattoos, piercings, shopping, hanging out with good friends, curling up on the couch w/my kitty

I'd like to meet:

Cool people. Friends of my friends. My soul-mate (ha, ha, ha....that's fucking funny...I made a joke; laugh). I don't really use MySpace as a way to meet people. More of a way to keep in contact with my friends. If you want to meet me, stop by the bars where I work (addresses are listing in my "companies" section). I'm always up for meeting new people, but I'm not sure this is really the venue to make close friends. I prefer the "real" world to cyberspace.

I DON'T WANT TO MEET FRIEND COLLECTORS. EVEN WORSE, I DON'T WANT TO MEET MEN COLLECTING WOMEN. DON'T WRITE ME TO TELL ME THAT I'M HOT. I DON'T CARE IF YOU WANT TO FUCK ME. I'M NOT INTERESTED SO YOU CAN JUST GO FUCK YOURSELF!

Music:

Goth, industrial, heavy metal, rock, punk, psychobilly, etc. Some bands I'm into are, Mindless Faith, Godsmack, Type O Negative, Switchblade Symphony, My Life w/the Thrill Kill Kult, KMFDM, NIN, Rasputina, Garbage, The Cramps, Korn, Marilyn Manson, Evanescense, Ozzy, Pantera, Depeche Mode, Kidney Thieves, Lords of Acid, No Doubt, Sheep on Drugs, The Creatures, Ani Difranco...just to name a few. My tastes are varied. I even like some country *gasp* (it's an aquired taste).

You Are Gwen Stefani!

All guys dream about you And all the girls want to be you "Sappy pathetic little me That was the girl I used to be"

Who's Your Inner Rock Chick? Take This Quiz :-)

Movies:

Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (Johnny Depp is amazing!), The Usual Suspects, The Matrix, Fight Club, Interview with a Vampire, Dirty Dancing (yes I am a dork!), House of 1,000 Corpses, Salton Sea, any brat pack movie, etc.

Marylin Monroe Classic "bad girl" You are all getting
what you want and who you want.

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Television:

Law and Order (the original and SVU. I'm not a big fan of CI), Oz, Simpsons, Family Guy, Carnivale (can't fucking believe they cancelled it),Miami Ink, Inked, Taboo documentaries

Books:

"The Dirt" by Motley Crue, Vampire Chronicles by Anne Rice, "Good Omens" by Neil Gamen and Terry Prachet, anything by Henry Rollins, "Diary of an Emotional Idiot" by Maggie Estep, Dean Koontz, Robin Cook, John Grisham

My Blog

Melodrama

Anybody that actually knows me, knows that I sometimes (ok, most of the time) can get  little melodramatic.   What can I say, I suscribe to the "more is more" philosophy.  If I have a h...
Posted by Bar Goddess on Mon, 14 May 2007 07:47:00 PST

"Would you"

Would you come to see me, if I asked you to?Would you come find me, and hold my hand?Would you come walk with me, if I asked you to?Would you help me, if I felt to weak to stand?Can we just sit here, ...
Posted by Bar Goddess on Sun, 13 May 2007 05:04:00 PST

My case of the "crazies" has been cured

And so the craziness lifts. And I'm just left with the embarassment of my behavior. And the knowledge that I may have fucked up something good, by trying to force it in to being something "wonderful"....
Posted by Bar Goddess on Wed, 09 May 2007 02:22:00 PST

"Candles"

"All the darkness in the world can not extinguish the light of a single candle"...The words that inspired the tattoo permanently carved into my leg.And as I blew the candles out on my birthday cake, I...
Posted by Bar Goddess on Sun, 29 Apr 2007 09:36:00 PST

Heart vs. Head

Every so often I'll be talking to a friend, offering words of encouragement and/or advice and what-have-you.  Every so often I'll catch myself saying things to them that I need to be saying to my...
Posted by Bar Goddess on Wed, 04 Apr 2007 11:33:00 PST

I've got spring fever!

And I think I like it! Man that sun is doing wacky things to me.  For the past few days I've been going to work hyper as hell.  The only word to describe it is manic.  Half crazed even....
Posted by Bar Goddess on Wed, 28 Mar 2007 11:20:00 PST

Things are not so bad

Call me fickle.  That's fine.  I'm a woman.  That's what we are, right?  One second I'm completely miserable and the very next, I'm extatic.  It's a woman's perogative to chan...
Posted by Bar Goddess on Mon, 26 Mar 2007 10:50:00 PST

Girl brain and other mental afflictions

I need to stop blowing every little thing out of proportion. I'm not sure when I came down with this case of "girl brain" but it needs to stop.  I've had cases of it before but never quite this b...
Posted by Bar Goddess on Fri, 23 Mar 2007 07:11:00 PST

Open letter for someone who will never read it

How much longer can I keep doing this to myself?  Wondering what you're thinking but haven't got a clue...Do you know that I've felt lonelier knowing you're "there" then before I actually met met...
Posted by Bar Goddess on Wed, 21 Mar 2007 03:18:00 PST

"Day dreaming"

I close my eyes and I can see your facesee your smilethe way your eyes squint just a little when you tell me, "You're really great".We talk on the phone and I can imagine the expression on your face.I...
Posted by Bar Goddess on Sat, 17 Mar 2007 03:25:00 PST