Well, you probably already know me. I'm that little voice inside your head that you try to ignore because it's not "accepted" to listen to me. I'm the little voice that tells you the truth. You aren't pretentious for listening to me. To be pretentious is to pretend to hold an unjustified self-stature.
Are you proud of yourself? If not, you haven't really met me. Are you always satisfied with your mediocrity? In that case, leave before you do harm to others.