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Heather

If you need me you know where to find me.

About Me

I appreciate true friends and know I only have a few. I love live music. I like being on my own. I hate feeling lonely. I'm restless and get bored easily. I lean towards trouble, but in mostly innocent ways. I tend to see the best in people but have little faith in them at the same time. I'm consistantly amazed by both the kindness and cruelty of human beings, most especially my own. I have a fairly pessimistic view of relationships. I miss being a suburban stay at home mom. And I'm thankful I'm no longer a suburban stay at home mom. div

My Interests

or: things that make me happy: music. books. motorcycles. taking in a good live band. good friends. lazy sunny days. lazy rainy days. art. a peaceful day with my children. lunch with my girlfriends. happy hour. peoples stories. hainen lunches and reading fortune cookies. clean laundry. thunderstorms. the dash in at 3 in the afternoon. debates. introspective conversations. peace. cold gin. nights out. urban spaces. making a difference. a smoke on my porch steps. the clink of ice in the glass. artlink. a guy with a guitar in his hand. tattoos. hugs. kisses. a highlife at the dug out. hands that work hard. dive bars. museums. tulips. happy couples. cheap silver rings. the new dodge charger. you.

I'd like to meet:

Intelligent people. Kind people. If you think GWB has anything intelligent to say you don't fall into catagory number one and please don't bother to send me your right wing propaganda. Oh, and I have a deep rooted loathing of organized religion. If your looking for a good Christian girl keep clicking. Seriously. Go on, shoo. Who's your Psychobilly dream man?
Mike Ness from Social DistortionYou just got my DREAM MAN!!! He's a man who's lived a hard life but who's known what's he's wanted out of it. He's the man that will fix the car(or build you a new one), take the kids to soccer practice, but then will come home and romance you and make sweet love to you. He's the kind of man, you fall head over heels in love with and everyday is something new. Yet, in time he will grow to be an understanding husband, but even he's not perfect, he has his flaws and often gets moody, but you love him for who he is and he loves you the same right back!
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Music:

The the stuff i like right now: She wants revenge, panic at the disco, Raconteurs, Damone, Dashboard Confessional, Yeah, Yeah, Yeahs, Blue October, Liz Phair (old stuff), Flyleaf, Alice Cooper, Ben Folds, Fountains of Wayne, Avenged Sevenfold, Green Day, Cracker, Crossfade, Three Days Grace, Poe, The Doors, Leda Atomica, Prodigy, Garbage, Indigo Girls, PJ Harvey, Stevie Nicks, Supersuckers (just bought it!), Social Distortion, Joan Jett, Rickie Lee Jones, Korn, Prince, Zombie White and Rob, All Local Music: particulary: Synergy (Jobeth rocks), Def. Gary, Sirface, all of Dave P's bands, Superhunk rocks my fucking socks off, Phil's Family Lizard, Sankofa, we have a great scene and I wish I had much more time to go see everyone play. Morphine soothes my soul.

Movies:

We dont live here anymore, Pieces of April, American Beauty, Sexual Lives, Danny Deckchair, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Office Space, Dogma, Garden State, Kung Foo Hustle, Mind the Gap, Eulogy, Heights, Waiting, anything a little dark and quirky. I have found I like almost any movie with the right company.

Television:

I'm not much of a tv watcher. sometimes i'll catch a show that doesnt suck.

Books:

In the middle of Glass Castles. It's an autobiography of a women who grew up in the 60's being raised by an alcoholic father and a very fucked up mother. Im going to make my kids read it so they can see what a stellar fucking job i'm doing!! Finished reading: The Story of O, which was written by a French Author in the 50's and was considered quite scandalous at the time. It's a story about bondage. It was fairly disturbing and had no end. I was left disappinted. I also just finished for the 4th or 5th time The Virgin Suicides - sometimes i get alot out of that book, just started 5 Kick Ass stratagies for growing a successful business. i Lie. i havent started it past page one. i suck at reading books that will help me advance in my career. I also finished yayas in bloom. Disappointment. Favorites list: A prayer for Owen Meany (anything by John Irving is good), Wicked, , The Boys of my Youth. Reading Virgin Suicides again. I have a tendancy to read and re-read certain books. I have read so many good books that I can't recall the titles of. I can picture the covers. It's very disturbing that I can't remember them.

Heroes:

Strong independent women. Strong independent men. I seem to meet more of the former than the latter.Taylor made this for me . . .

My Blog

my husband

hopefully by the end of the year i wont be calling him that. i spoke to him tonight. he was upset with me for calling at 11 last night. (i swear he NEVER answers his phone, day or night). I explained ...
Posted by Heather on Thu, 02 Nov 2006 08:08:00 PST

the story of Heather as told by Jack Von Acton.

 Heather: as told by Jack Von Acton: Once upon a time there was a great and mighty queen who ruled both with a terrible and graceful hand, instilling fear as well as love from all in her vast rea...
Posted by Heather on Mon, 30 Oct 2006 10:55:00 PST

15 years

Statton Schad Hedlof. Dec. 27, 1970 - Oct. 25, 1991.
Posted by Heather on Thu, 26 Oct 2006 08:05:00 PST

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i couldnt come up with a witty title. i'm feeling a bit . . . off kilter and rushed just a bit. not in a bad way per say. i'm going to steal an idea from a friend of mine and bullet point this bitch. ...
Posted by Heather on Tue, 26 Sep 2006 08:18:00 PST

random stranger intrigues the jaded one

i'm officially intrigued. if i could arrage my friends you would break the top 200. thats progress right?
Posted by Heather on Mon, 18 Sep 2006 03:02:00 PST

weekend update

it was a weird weekend. my no kid weekends had taken on a bit of a routine and that was thrown off so my weekend took odd shapes. Friday my sister and i went to kashmann gallery for the opening there....
Posted by Heather on Sun, 10 Sep 2006 01:58:00 PST

and the phone rings . . .

Function: noun: one leading a vagabond life; especially : VAGRANT, - vagabondage /-"bän-dij/ noun - vagabondism /-"bän-"di-z&m/ noun ...
Posted by Heather on Thu, 07 Sep 2006 04:57:00 PST

ok, fine. movie review two

We dont live here anymore: Mark Ruffalo (hot), Laura Durn, Peter Krause and naomi Watts (hot). Your basic story of two couples who are friends. No one is happy, everyone is married with children. MR a...
Posted by Heather on Sun, 03 Sep 2006 10:25:00 PST

movie review

Duane Hopwood. Sundance pick 2005. Alcoholic husband. Wife had the balls to move on and build a new life while he continues to fuck his up.  Familiar themes.  A little close to home. In shor...
Posted by Heather on Sun, 03 Sep 2006 09:35:00 PST

Name Change

So the name change has caused a stir. There isnt that much to it. I have a friend who calls me Kitten. (and other variations depending on his mood, he's an ornery one) Sometimes I'm smitten kitten. bu...
Posted by Heather on Tue, 29 Aug 2006 08:59:00 PST