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*~BREN~*

I smashed my rear view mirror because starting today I am NOT looking back!

About Me

RANDOM THOUGHTS ABOUT ME AND LIFE:I am very intelligent but not street smart...I have been known to say some pretty strange things because at times I don't think before I speak...I'm not looking to be #12882 on your list of myspace conquests...The sexiest thing about a man is his mind...If you can't stimulate my mind I have no use for ya...I live a drama free life so take that bs elsewhere...I'm a positive person and strongly believe in karma...I live my life well...I am friends for LIFE once you have it like that...I prefer blk men...Don't put things out in the universe that you don't want to happen...Do ppl actually read this?...I am a lady and expect to be treated as such...If you think you have game expect it back cause you can't play a playa-Men need to recognize...Ladies if you act like a ho expect to be treated like one...Men need to realize the value a good woman has and not fluck things up(yes I typed fluck)...If you're not happy in a relationship GET OUT...You control your own destiny...Ask and it shall be given...Give and receive back tenfold...Money cometh to me NOW...Questions? Didn't think so...

My Interests

My life is the best its ever been...Thru all the blessings I have learned a few things:

~~Sometimes your "friends" try to block your blessings...Be careful who you share them with

~~Give back...Volunteer, tithe, always help others

~~Embrace change

~~Don't be scared of the unknown...GOD knows what he is doing!

~Say thank you!

I'd like to meet:

I would like to meet people who can carry on a decent conversation...SMH...It's hard to find nowdays.IF I DON'T KNOW YOU DON'T ASK FOR AN ADD...I'M NOT LOOKING FOR A MILLION FRIENDS...IF YOU EMAIL ME FIRST I MIGHT CONSIDER IF I FIND YOU INTERESTING ENOUGH!

Music:

I love R&B and hip hop.

Movies:

My fav movies are Pretty Woman and Napoleon Dynamite, he is so friggin cool

Television:

I'm a Law and Order freak! I love Court TV and most recently got into some reality shows, something I would have never thought I would do!

Books:

I am trying to read Anna Karenina...Its not an easy read...

Heroes:

My parents by far! They are the best!

My Blog

Starting my new life!!

Some of you may know that I have been with my company for close to 21 years...Thats almost half my life... Recently I have made some decisions and today I gave my 2 week notice...Trust me when I say t...
Posted by *~BREN~* on Thu, 14 Feb 2008 02:59:00 PST

Relationships! Yikes

So I have been making a few changes in my life in the past month or so...Eating better, saving more money, keeping in touch with my friends better(That is my constant struggle) but one thing I ha...
Posted by *~BREN~* on Sat, 05 Jan 2008 09:28:00 PST

10 Things about me

I've been tagged by John and Kelli so here goes 1.  I don't like to hurt ppls feelings and probably cry more than they do 2.  I work in the I.T. field and have no formal education...My degre...
Posted by *~BREN~* on Tue, 20 Nov 2007 06:24:00 PST

What can I do?

I don't usually put personal stuff on here but I really need some advice... My moms is really sick...She is fighting her THIRD different kind of cancer...She is 73 and the chemo, radiation, and being ...
Posted by *~BREN~* on Tue, 13 Nov 2007 04:31:00 PST

Wanting more out of life

As most of my friends know I am a very positive thinker...I believe that what you put out in the world you will get back...I also believe that if you want more out of life then you have to THINK like ...
Posted by *~BREN~* on Mon, 22 Oct 2007 06:53:00 PST

I’ve been tagged!

Ok I've been tagged...Thanks Amber! So the rules are, once you've been tagged, you have to write a blog with 6 weird things or habits about yourself. In the end you need to choose the 6 people to be t...
Posted by *~BREN~* on Mon, 10 Sep 2007 06:02:00 PST

So heres my day...

As most of you know today has been a rough day for me...I didn't cry all day-go me!  I even exchanged some dialogue with one of Peanuts daughters and didn't shed a tear...The pain is still there ...
Posted by *~BREN~* on Wed, 29 Aug 2007 09:57:00 PST

Don't take your friends for granted

I'm kinda in a pissy mood tonite which is rare cause I am the eternal optimist...Even us optimist need a shoulder to lean on tho... So I tried to talk to not one, not two, not three, but FOUR ppl, som...
Posted by *~BREN~* on Sat, 07 Jul 2007 05:55:00 PST

Toxic ppl in you life

Is there an easy way to let someone out of your life?  I mean we all have toxic ppl we interact with...By toxic I don't mean they do mean or rude things...They may just be energy suckers, complai...
Posted by *~BREN~* on Tue, 26 Jun 2007 11:31:00 PST

Reflections

Most ppl reflect on the past year around New Years...My birthday has always been my point of reflection... This birthday really hit me hard...I'm not sure why...I'm past the point of caring about...
Posted by *~BREN~* on Wed, 23 May 2007 06:28:00 PST