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Jen Is the Fiercest Calm You've Been In

...My Dark Twin: the Annihilating Feminine: Does Not Need: Civilizing...

About Me


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“I disregard the proportions, the measures, the tempo of the ordinary world. I refuse to live in the ordinary world as ordinary women. To enter ordinary relationships. I want ecstasy. I am a neurotic -- in the sense that I live in my world. I will not adjust myself to the world. I am adjusted to myself.” ~Anais Nin
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I am a mother, lover, partner, daughter, & friend....
I'm a dancer, healer, performer, writer, & dreamer!

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Jen, In the 3rd Person...
She's been in the face of death;
at the tip of birth.
She's been known to dwell in the shadows,
and she's cast the shadow.
She's stomped her feet on this side of the Atlantic
as well as the other.
She's rubbed elbows with the not-so-rich & semi-famous;
She even shared a kiss or two.
She's known love, life, & peace.
She's known anger, death, & chaos.
She's known addiction & wild nights.
She's known sobriety & innocent times.
She's been adored on stage,
and adored others there, too.
She's experienced free love....
....and committed love.
She's seen beauty
and ugliness.
She's walked with Jesus-
Now the God/s/ess/es-
and come to a crossroads.
All these things led her to
a life of wonderful things.
A life in which she has
given birth to a precious cherub...
And shares her heart & home
with a beautiful star!
SHE'S THE LUCKIEST, MOST BLESSED GIRL IN THE UNIVERSE!!!
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Jennifer with your orange hair
Jennifer with your green eyes
Jennifer in your dress of deepest purple
Jennifer - Where are you tonight?
Jennifer - Where are you tonight?
(Underneath the water / Underneath the water)

~Eurythmics
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My Astrology Chart:
Rising Sign is in 13 Degrees Virgo You tend to be very shy and not very self-assertive. You are supercritical about how you appear to others. Even though you may think you are uninteresting and dull, you are actually quite soft- spoken, orderly, neat and very likable. You are a perfectionist with high standards, and at times you can be quite tactless in pointing out the faults of others. Very practical, efficient and purposeful, your appearance and bearing reflect your need to appear graceful, sensible and reserved. You have a crisp, no-nonsense approach to dealing with others. Never lazy or self-indulgent, you tend to be dedicated to the work ethic.
Sun is in 27 Degrees Pisces. Extremely sensitive and emotional, you absorb the emotions of others (whether positive or negative) like a sponge. Emotionally vulnerable, you are easily upset and tend to cry readily. You are at your best when you can structure your environment in such a way that you are surrounded by positive, upbeat people. You are very helpful and understanding of the needs of others. Indeed, at times this can be a disadvantage, because you can be a sucker for anyone who needs help. Shy, dreamy, romantic in nature, you delight in retreating into your private fantasy world. Just be careful that you do not get lost in it! Trust your intuitions -- you may be quite psychic.
Moon is in 26 Degrees Leo. You always want to be proud of yourself and will never do anything that will make yourself look bad. You need the respect and admiration of others and enjoy attracting attention to yourself. Everything you do tends to be self-emphasized and self-exaggerated. Very stubborn, willful and independent yourself, be sure to allow others who are close to you the similar right to "be themselves." Your need for love, affection and reassurance, and your tendency toward vanity, allow you to have your head easily turned by flattery. The more insecure you are, the more you tend to be a showoff. You love games and sports as a matter of fact, you would usually rather play than work. Be careful of a tendency to be snobbish and uppity -- it does not become you.
Mercury is in 29 Degrees Aquarius. You tend to be very opinionated -- you have strongly felt notions about things and are quite vocal about expressing and defending them. Yet you are also an original thinker -- you enjoy shocking others with your offbeat, original thoughts. You appreciate and need mental and intellectual stimulation. Your judgment is usually fair and impartial -- you can be a good critic because you can remain objective and unemotional about most things.
Venus is in 22 Degrees Pisces. You have a dreamy, fanciful, romantic nature and a very creative imagination. Indeed, at times, your private fantasies are more appealing than the reality around you and it is difficult for you to leave them. You tend to be unselfish and giving in relationships and are extremely sensitive of the needs of others. Be very sure that those you help are worthy of your devotion and are not merely taking advantage of your innocence and naivete.
Mars is in 00 Degrees Aries. You are very independent and self-assertive, and you have lots of physical energy. You are not satisfied unless you can be the first to do something. As such, you are more comfortable in leadership positions than you are as an underling. When you are challenged by anyone for anything, you delight in the competitive process and will fight long and hard for your beliefs. You are bold and courageous and often act without thinking. At times, in your zeal to get ahead, you are tactless and offensive -- learn that cooperation with others can often bring you nearer to your goals quicker because of the support you will get.
Jupiter is in 06 Degrees Libra. You are generally good at balancing opinions and judging issues, but you tend to be indecisive when it comes to making up your own mind. You are objective and quite concerned with fair play and justice. But, when it comes to yourself, you are so aware that whatever you do might upset the apple cart that you often choose to compromise rather than do anything that might make you lonely or vulnerable. Relationships are very important to you -- you learn about yourself and grow through observing yourself interacting with others. Your aesthetic tastes are refined, but expansive and expensive.
Saturn is in 07 Degrees Libra. Although you take quite a while to make decisions, you usually consider all sides to a question, all the pros and cons, and the solution you come up with is very often the correct one. You tend to be very reserved and shy, but, once you make a commitment to someone (in either a business or personal relationship), the partnership is forever. You have a strong sense of justice and fair play and greatly respect the laws and institutions by which you are governed. As such, you are outraged when others break laws or show contempt for authority.
Uranus is in 00 Degrees Sagittarius. You, and most of your peers, have the tendency to think that all ideas, customs and traditions from the past are outmoded and irrelevant. You are attracted to radically new ideas, philosophies and religions that will, hopefully, cause sweeping changes throughout the world.
Neptune is in 24 Degrees Sagittarius. You, and your entire generation, are heavily involved in investigating and idealizing foreign and exotic intellectual systems and religious philosophies. The most extreme ideals will be pursued with gusto. You will be at the forefront of humanitarian attempts to improve the lot of those who are in need of assistance. You will be comfortable with the concept of the "global village."
Pluto is in 23 Degrees Libra. For your entire generation, this is a time of radical changes in society's attitude toward marriage and interpersonal relationships. There is a general fear and awe at the power inherent in making emotional or contractual commitments -- they will not be entered into lightly.
N. Node is in 10 Degrees Leo. You prefer to take the leadership role when it comes to dealing with others. You enjoy administering and organizing group activities. Others tend to listen to your suggestions because you aren't usually overly domineering or patronizing in your interactions. You love to entertain in a big way -- you're at your best when throwing a large and lavish party. Your popularity and social success are assured as long as you don't take others for granted -- resist the temptation to become snobbish and arrogant.
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These two boys are the loves of my life!
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I love him::Forever...Forever & Ever!
O you whom I often and silently come where you are that I may be with you, As I walk by your side or sit near, or remain in the same room with you, Little you know the subtle electric fire that for your sake is playing with me.~Walt Whitman
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The best thing that ever happened to me....
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...I cut the scars to mask the scars you left behind...
Razed In Black


Myspace Layouts - Myspace Editor - Image Hosting


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LINKS TO SOME OF MY FAVOURITE PLACES IN CYBER SPACE:
Fruitful Vine Birth Center & Midwifery Services
TheBusinessOfBeingBorn
Online Dictionary/Thesaurus/Encyclopedia
MachineDancePhotographyOnMySpace
MachineDance.Com
WakenTheDeadPhotographyOnMySpace
WakenTheDeadPortfolio
Dita Worshippers On MySpace
Dita.Net
Fans of Nicole Kidman
DavidLynch.com
Endometriosis.Org
Adenomyosis Info
PCOS Support
The Secret
What the Bleep Do We Know?
Al Gore's Conservation Campaign
Daryl Hannah's Green Website
Earth 911
E-Waste Website
EarthShare
GreenPeace
PETA
ASPCA
Humane Society
Pet Rescue Jacksonville, Florida
No-Kill Animal Shelters
Unitarian Universalist Church of Jacksonville
Jax CUUPS
BeliefNet...Paganism
ReligiousTolerance.Org/Paganism
Reiki Info
The Legendary Pink Dots
Skinny Puppy
Bjork.Com
PJHarvey.Net
ToriAmos.Com
TORIPHORIA
RapeAbuseIncestNationalNetwork
RAZEDINBLACK.NET
Movement Magazine
Factory at Eclipse...Jacksonville's Dark Alternative Night
(www.factoryjax.com)
Seduction...Jacksonville's Fetish and Burlesque Theatre
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My Interests



*Aesthetics (I have a license in aesthetics)
*ANAIS NIN
*Andy Warhol
*ANGELICA..."Gel-E"
*ANIMALS/ANIMAL RIGHTS
*Antiques
*Artistic photography
*Astrology
*Beautiful Women
*Beauty
*Betsey Johnson
*BJORK
*BREASTFEEDING
*BUBBLE BATHS
*BURLESQUE
*BURT'S BEE LIP BALM
*Butterflies
*CATS
*Chocolate (the fancy kind, like Godiva & Choxie)
*Corsets
*DANCING
*DAVID LYNCH
*DITA VON TEESE
*Dreaming/Daydreaming
*Dragonflies
*EDWARD KA-SPEL
*Erotica
*Essential Oils
*FACTORY @ ECLIPSE
*Faeries/Fairytales
*Fantasy
*FETISH THEATRE
*Flowers (especially white roses)
*FRAGGLE ROCK
*French Culture
*Glitter
*Gloom Cookie
*GOD/S/DESS/ES
*HANDBAGS
*Herbs
*Henri de Toulouse-Latrec
*HR Geiger
*Human Rights
*Hummingbirds
*MAC
*MAGICK
*Make-up Artistry
*MC Escher
*Meditation
*MOTHERHOOD
*MOVEMENT MAGAZINE
*Mythology
*MUSIC
*Nature
*New Orleans
*NICOLE KIDMAN
*PAGANISM
*PJ HARVEY
*Poetry
*Poppy Z. Brite
*Psychology
*PRIMROSE...."Prim-E"
*RABBITS
*READING
*Red Wine (Cabernet Sauvignon, Chianti, Shiraz/Syrah)
*REIKI
*ROMELL REGULACION (my sweetheart)!!!!
*Salvador Dali
*SASCHA...."Sasch-E"
*SATURDAY NIGHT SEDUCTION
*Sea Horses
*SEBASTIAN RILEY REGULACION (my baby boy)!!!!
*SEX
*SOCIOLOGY
*SPIRITUALITY
*Stones & Crystals
*SYLVIA PLATH
*These Colours: Grey, Pink, Red, White, & Black!
*THE SECRET
*THE PROPER USE OF THE ENGLISH LANGUAGE
*Toyota Camry’s
*TORI AMOS
*UNITARIAN UNIVERSALISM
*Vincent Van Gogh
*Vintage
*WHAT THE BLEEP DO WE KNOW?
*William Shakespeare
*WRITING

I'd like to meet:


Nana...in our next life...
along with David Lynch & Edward Ka-Spel (again). Conservation Warriors like the late-great Steve Irwin, Al Gore, & Daryl Hannah. People who use their success & fame to help improve the world and raise awareness, like Sarah Michelle Gellar & Angelina Jolie. And others whom I admire, such as....

Nicole Kidman

Bjork

Tori Amos (again)

PJ Harvey

Dita Von Teese

And my future baby, LuLu Franchesca Bach;)

Music:



“Music melts all the separate parts of our bodies together!" ~Anais Nin

*Alternative, Ambient-Ethereal, Classical, Classic Rock, Dark Alternative, EMB, Electro Clash, Electronica, Experimental, Goth, Indie, Industrial, New Age, New Wave, Synth Pop. Also….Some Current Pop and Some Trance.

*A Perfect Circle
*Above & Beyond
*Alien Sex Fiend
*Angelo Badalamenti
*Bach
*BAUHAUS
*Beethoven
*Belle & Sebastian
*Berlin
*Billie Holiday
*Bitcrush
*BJORK
*Black Tape for A Blue Girl
*Bob Marley
*cEVIN Key
*Christian Death
*Covenant
*Cyndi Lauper
*DANIEL ASH
*DAVID BOWIE
*Dead Can Dance
*Death In June
*DEPECHE MODE
*DJ RIB
*DJ Tiesto
*Eden
*EDWARD KA-SPEL
*Faith & the Muse
*Ferry Corsten
*Fiona Apple
*Fischerspooner
*GLAMPIRE
*Genitorturers
*George Michael
*Goldfrapp
*Grim Faeries
*Hooverphonic
*Interpol
*Joy Division
*Julee Cruise
*JUSTIN TIMBERLAND
*KATE BUSH
*Lamb
*Led Zeppelin
*Love & Rockets
*Love Spirals Downward
*Lycia
*Mazzy Star
*Meat Loaf
*Milla Jovovich
*MIRANDA SEX GARDEN
*MORRISSEY
*Mozart
*My Bloody Valentine
*New Order
*Nick Cave & the Bad Seeds
*NINE INCH NAILS
*Oceanlab
*Oghr
*PETER MURPHY
*Pigface
*Pink Floyd
*Portishead
*PJ HARVEY
*Prick
*Prince
*Puscifer
*Radiohead
*RAZED IN BLACK
*Royksopp
*Sarah Brightman
*SHE WANTS REVENGE
*Sinead O’ Connor
*Siouxsie & the Banshees
*SKINNY PUPPY
*Smashing Pumpkins
*Soul Whirling Somewhere
*Superstar DJ Keoki
*Switchblade Symphony
*The Creatures
*THE CURE
*The Cruxshadows
*THE DOORS
*The Faint
*THE GLOVE
*THE KNIFE
*THE LEGENDARY PINK DOTS
*THE TEAR GARDEN
*The Shroud
*THE SMITHS
*This Mortal Coil
*Timbaland
*TRANSMUTATOR
*Tones On Tale
*Tool
*TORI AMOS!!!!!
*X Marks the Pedwalk
*etc…

Movies:


*16 Candles
*Adam’s Family & Adam’s Family Values
*Adam & Steve
*ALICE IN WONDERLAND
*Alpha Dog
*Amelie
*American Beauty
*ANDY WARHOL’S DRACULA
*Baby Einstein (all of them…our favourite is Baby Neptune)
*BEETLEJUICE
*Beowulf
*Black Snake Moan
*BLUE VELVET
*Boxing Helena
*Bram Stoker’s Dracula
*Breakfast At Tiffany's
*Cabaret
*Caligula
*Catch Me If You Can
*Cecil B. Demented
*Children of Men
*City of Lost Children
*COLD MOUNTAIN
*CORPSE BRIDE
*Crash
*DANCER IN THE DARK
*Dangerous Beauty
*Dangerous Liasons
*Delta of Venus
*DONNIE DARKO
*Edward Scissorhands
*ERASERHEAD
*Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind
*EYES WIDE SHUT
*Finding Nemo
*FIRE WALK WITH ME
*Fright Night 1 & 2
*FUR
*GARDEN STATE
*Ginger Snaps
*GONE WITH THE WIND
*Gypsy 83
*Hannibal
*Harry Potter (all of them)
*Heathers
*Henry & June
*House of 1,000 Corpses
*I Married A Witch
*Kissed
*Labyrinth
*Legend
*Lord of the Rings Trilogy
*Lost In Translation
*Kissing Jessica Stein
*May
*Memoirs of A Geisha
*Mirrormask
*MOULIN ROUGE
*MULHOLLAND DRIVE
*NIGHTMARE BEFORE XMAS
*Pan’s Labyrinth
*Parenthood
*Party Monster
*PRACTICAL MAGIC
*Pretty In Pink
*Quills
*Raising Arizona
*Secretary
*Silence of the Lambs
*SIN CITY
*Strangeland
*Story of O
*Terese et Isabelle
*The Anniversary Party
*The Beach
*The Blood Oranges
*The Breakfast Club
*The Colour Purple
*The Dark Crystal
*The Devil’s Rejects
*The Divine Secrets of the Ya-Ya Sisterhood
*The Doors
*THE GOLDEN COMPASS
*THE HOURS
*THE HUMAN STAIN
*The Hunger
*The Jacket
*The Joy Luck Club
*The Lost Boys
*The Mists of Avalon
*THE OTHERS
*Titus
*TO DIE FOR
*What Dream’s May Come
*WHAT THE BLEEP DO WE KNOW?
*WILD AT HEART
*Willow
*Zoolander

Television:



*America’s Next Top Model
*Angel
*BUFFY THE VAMPIRE SLAYER
*Extreme Makeover: Home Edition
*FRAGGLE ROCK
*FRAISER
*Friends
*Golden Girls
*Gossip Girl
*Law & Order (Original, CI, & SVU)
*ONE TREE HILL
*Sex & the City
*TWIN PEAKS
*Typical Housewife Stuff (Rachael Ray, Dr. Phil, Oprah, Martha Stewart, etc.)
*Will & Grace

Books:


I love to read, but haven’t had much time for that lately. The only books I’ve manage to read in the past year are books on childbirth and infant care, such as Ida May Gaskin’s Guide to Childbirth. I’ve also been reading children’s books to the baby, such as Love You Forever by Robert Munsch and Sarah Toast’s books on baby animals. When he gets a little older, I will get him started on the book of classic fairytales my grandma bought him for Xmas (which seems like more of a gift for me than him).
Currently, I am SLOWLY going through Baby Signing for Dummies. When I have a little more time, I will start on Bhagavad-Gita As It Is. I love learning about religions, philosophies, and cultures worldwide. I also fancy fairytales and erotica, especially Anais Nin. I adore poetry, particularly from Sylvia Plath. The Secret has become like a bible to me. Oh, and I’m crazy about Love & Loud Colours, which is a collection of lyrics, shorts, and poetry by Edward Ka-Spel & Piece By Piece, which was written by Ann Powers & Tori Amos about Tori’s life.

Heroes:



*My Son, Sebastian Riley Regulacion
*My Sweetheart, Romell Regulacion
*My Nana, Frances Louise Rader
*Anais Nin
*Tori Amos
*Also see my "who I'd like to meet" list, which names a whole lot of people worth idolizing & mimicking!

My Blog

Please Help Me Find Anastasia!

About a month before I had Sebastian, Anastasia went to live with a friend of mine. Anastasia is a very sweet & loving cat, but she has mood swings more severe than my own. One minute she'll love all ...
Posted by Jen Is the Fiercest Calm You've Been In on Tue, 08 Jul 2008 09:17:00 PST

Temp Blog::Jax Peeps-Charity BellyDance Show 6/28

Hey Guys,The following is information for the Belly Dance show and workshops taking place this weekend in Jax (Springfield). The lovely Ophelia (formerly Xtina) will be performing in the show. For tho...
Posted by Jen Is the Fiercest Calm You've Been In on Fri, 27 Jun 2008 08:36:00 PST

The Business of Being Born

TheBusinessOfBeingBorn ...
Posted by Jen Is the Fiercest Calm You've Been In on Wed, 25 Jun 2008 02:45:00 PST

HAPPY EARTH DAY!

I have regressed so much in my personal battle to fight the daily raping of Mother Earth! I used to be Nature's Warrior; green witch to the core. I've lost sight, but I'm determined to get back on tra...
Posted by Jen Is the Fiercest Calm You've Been In on Wed, 23 Apr 2008 09:30:00 PST

Dita Von Teese Interview

Biggest misconception about burlesque: That it’s about dancing around in hot pants with feather boas. Burlesque was about the striptease. The stars of burlesque took their clothes off, end of st...
Posted by Jen Is the Fiercest Calm You've Been In on Wed, 02 Apr 2008 12:16:00 PST

Factory Promo Video

I knew that this was on the Factory website, but Romell found it on YouTube last night, too. Anyway, it was made about four years ago. Main features include Alex Pagan spinning, Mistress Kitten candle...
Posted by Jen Is the Fiercest Calm You've Been In on Sat, 15 Mar 2008 06:44:00 PST

Hot-Es on MySpace...I Salute You!

Who doesn't want to start off the New Year by gazing at some hot chicks? I wanted to acknowledge the following women as being bonafide hotties. You all inspire me for various reasons, and in many diff...
Posted by Jen Is the Fiercest Calm You've Been In on Thu, 03 Jan 2008 02:40:00 PST

Reposted from Movement Magazine

YEAR ZEROSome Say it was a WarningBy Andrew Gregory"With this record I feel a lot less concerned about what people think about it  especially the dying record industry. I couldn't care less about tha...
Posted by Jen Is the Fiercest Calm You've Been In on Wed, 18 Apr 2007 12:33:00 PST

Grammar 101

During my time using LiveJournal and Myspace, I have come to realize that there are many American natives who just do not grasp the correct use of the English language. Honestly, this breaks my heart ...
Posted by Jen Is the Fiercest Calm You've Been In on Tue, 17 Apr 2007 02:25:00 PST

2nd Annual Factory Goth Prom


Posted by Jen Is the Fiercest Calm You've Been In on Wed, 11 Apr 2007 09:36:00 PST