1. Treat women like women. Not like property, or pin-ups, or punching bags...embrace chivalry--expend the energy it takes to argue against being a gentleman, and use it to open the damn door. Ignorance is not an excuse..if you don't know how to treat a woman, learn.
2. Get out...squish the grass between your toes, breathe in the smog, pick some type of berry off a bush and eat it (it won't kill you; hell we stuck every plant we could get our hands on in our mouth as kids, thinking it was Honeysuckle...), run in the rain, not from it, get laid under the stars---windowsill gardens, babbling brook CD's, picturesque mountain landscapes under glass; these are all fine, but stop trying to capture and confine the outdoors within the framework of your feng shui-laced double wide and go to the source....
3. Respect diversity...hate it, fine--that's your right as a proud card-carrying member of the Stone-Age Neanderthal Association, run from it, cool (chicken shit), but ALWAYS respect it.
4. And most importantly: take care of your peeps (see ebonics, circa 1995). We all lie, cheat, and eat the last slice of pizza...it's okay, we're human; but take care of your friends. Try to include their feelings in your life's equation. Say, "I love you" often; show it even more frequently.
As for me personally, I am probably best described as a good man in a constant state of self-addition..not improvement, addition. I crave learning new things, and have been blessed with a hyperactive right brain, a Sagittarius' spontaneity, and a patient, attentive demeanor. I am a creature of comfort...I love natural beauty in its many forms...anything else you want to know, just ask...
MY POETRY CORNER
TABLE OF CONTENTS
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Only You Define You
She
Silent Smile
Rainy Day Refuse
Can You Tell Me How To Get To Seseme Street
Perpetual Anticipation
Reasons to Leave, Excuses to Stay
Soporific Devotion
Conscience-Laced Candle Wax
Just Because
Waiting To Inhale
Jazz-magination
Window Watching
Philophobia
Summer Storms
ENjoying the View From an Empty Nest
Sprinting in Your Footsteps
Doppleganger
Median Memorial on the Road to Life
Dreams Cannot Escape the Night
Daydream