First of all, dont be hating on my page..This is my page..and I can write what I want on it..Look, Im not tryin to cause any drama..I just want respect..thats all. If the truth hurts, get off!..cuz thats all I ever say on here.. the truth.. So with that said..What's up gente?! Thank u for stoppin by and please read before u start askin me any questions.. First of all, I can talk..and as u r about to read..I can also write..But if u r on my page..that means that hopefully u r interested in what I say...so here it goes:
I'm a happily taken 35, 100% Latina and I have 2 beautiful kids who are my world! Ive been told that Im a flirt..but I dont think I am, Im just being friendly.. lol I love to laugh...Im easy goin.. Im definitely non-materialistic.. Its nice to have name brands and shop at malls but I dont need to have name brands..I much rather spend money on my kids or on havin fun with my kids or my man..Im pretty much plain and simple..I love my jeans and tank tops..but Ive been told I clean up good! lol..
And yes Im a nice person..to those who are nice to me..I do try to teach my kids some important lessons that Ive try to live by..the main one of course is: "TREAT OTHERS HOW YOU WANT TO BE TREATED" and thats not hard to do..most of the time..lol..along with that goes: "RESPECT ME, AND I WILL RESPECT YOU"..I dont disrespect anyone.. unless they disrespect me first.."RESPECT IS GIVEN UNTIL RESPECT IS NOT SHOWN".. I especially believe: "WHAT GOES AROUND, COMES AROUND"...I totally believe in Karma...and no Im not a Saint but I do try to be as nice as possible to people..
Please "DONT MISTAKE MY NICENESS FOR WEAKNESS"..cuz Im far from being weak.. and just cuz sum of us stay quiet about things, it doesnt mean we dont have feelings...all u need to do is ask us ..I usually say whats on my mind.. I said usually cuz I know that "THERE IS A TIME AND PLACE FOR EVERYTHING"... and I do mean everything.. I do believe that "EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON"..and "THE PAST IS WHAT MAKES U WHO U R" and what has happened to u in the past can be taken in a negative way or in a positive way..cuz "THE PAST CANNOT BE CHANGED BUT THE FUTURE IS WHAT U MAKE OF IT"...and Ive learned.. "WHAT DOESNT KILL U ONLY MAKES U STRONGER".. and believe me with all that Ive been thru...Im hella strong... and Yes Ive also been told that Im stubborn...but Im not stubborn, Im right! lol
Ive had a lot of drama in my past due to worrying about what would people say or what they would think of me for speakin my mind..and this was causing me to be unhappy. ..and Im thru with that..I dont bottle things up anymore... so I "SAY WHAT I WANT, SAY WHAT I FEEL..CUZ THOSE WHO MATTER, DONT MIND..AND THOSE WHO MIND..DONT MATTER." (just found out that Dr. Seuss said that..lol..) Cuz if Im not happy, my family (my man and kids) wont be happy... and THEY are the ones who matter to me...Family should always come first..and thats the way it should be..No matter how many friends u have in ur life..u only get one family...and family is blood and "BLOOD IS THICKER THAN WATER"...Friends can be "like" family..but they will never be blood.. "U CAN CHOOSE FRIENDS. BUT U CANT CHOOSE FAMILY"..and the wishes of a family member should be above any one else..period.
Look I do have a heart..a little one..lol.. I try to put myself in others shoes.. and I dont hurt anyones feelings just to be mean..but believe me I will put my feelings and my loved ones feelings first before others...and just cuz I believe in sumthing, I dont force my feelings unto anyone...I let them make decisions for themselves..all I can do is voice my feelings and thoughts..and just hope for understanding...but if I dont get it..then its not meant to be..period.
I always stand behind what I say..and I always say the truth...okay almost always..lol..but if I said it..I will definitely back it up..and I wont apologize for what I feel.. This doesnt make me a mean person..and Im definitely not a jealous person..Im far from being jealous... Im very happy with who I am and what I have...cuz I know what I have and Im totally secure with everything that I have..but when it comes to my man or my kids..OOOOOH WATCH OUT!! believe me, I will speak out and say what I feel..and some people may not like it..and may not like me..but "ITS BETTER TO BE HATED FOR WHAT YOU ARE, THAN LOVED FOR WHAT U R NOT"..Im not a hyprocrite...I dont pretend to like sumone when I dont..I may tolerate them..for a minute..lol.. but I wont kiss anyones ass..and I dont have to justify why I dont like a person.. and I dont judge anyone but if I have a feelin about sumone...that feelin usually is true..Always go with ur gut instinct...I do.
Basically gente, I dont front...What u read here.. its me...and yes I have my page on private most of the time but I dont hide anything from anyone..and I dont have to justify anything to anyone...okay my man is my only acception..I justify everything to him and I tell him everything...okay almost everything..lol..TQM PETER!..but the only approval I need comes from above.."ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE ME" ..but of course I want my mans and my kids approval too. Believe me, it doesnt take much to make me happy..All I ever ask from anyone is respect..thats not too much to ask. And as long as my man is happy and my kids are happy.. then Im happy... and guess what?..IM TOTALLY HAPPY!!..
Ive been with my man Peter for over 1 year and IM TOTALLY IN LOVE WITH HIM!! I LOVE MY MAN! AND I KNO HE LOVES ME..AND I KNO HE LOVES MY KIDS!..The promise ring he gave me for Christmas said it all...He promised me his love, his respect, and his understanding.. and thats all that matters to me.. Hes been so good to us...We always, always have fun...whether we are out and about..or home not doin anything but watching TV.. I cant wait to move in with him this year and be a happy family and make him as happy as he makes me! I LOVE YOU PETER!! THE KIDS AND I ARE LUCKY TO HAVE U IN OUR LIVES!! TQM MUCHOS Y PARA SIEMPRE!!
Okay.. getting back to the "About Me"..lol..I love goin out with my man or my girls to eat, go see a movie, or to go watch any kind of sport.. Football, Basketball, Baseball,..or stay home and watch sports on TV.. I LOVE SPORTS!!! Especially football...I LOVE MY RAIDERS!! WIN, LOSE, OR TIE..ITS RAIDERS TILL I DIE BABY!!..SIEMPRE!!.. I love BBQing and hangin out with friends..playing cards or dominoes... Other things I like to do are: playing pool, go bowling, go listen to bands at local Fresno clubs or hit the club...I love to dance! Hip Hop, R&B, Old School, Cumbias are my favs...I dont go clubbin as often as I used to.. but its okay, I dont miss it..that much..lol.. I would much rather stay home with my man and my kids and watch movies while having a beer and poppin sum seeds.. Boring?.. Nah, I think Im just finally growing up...HAHA Yeah right! NEVA! I may be 35 but I dont feel it and ur only as young as u feel, right?
