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VenSeph

When I grow up...

About Me

Hello, some of you know me as VenSeph, or Steven Joseph I have lived in Santa Monica CA, Old Orchard Beach Maine, Tampa and Kissimee Florida, and now I am rocking both MA and NH with my Virgo friends. (coincidentally we are all Virgos! ... I will be moving to warmer climate sometime in the near future for sure...I'm 5'8 and a veterinary technician. I quit smoking this year and I must say it was hard but I am so glad I did it. I feel so much better. I spend so much time with my alcoholic friends.You should definately add me after reading this! :DA lot of reading is about to start, get comfortable...You most likely wont like some of what I have to say.I really don't care too much for opinions, yours or mine really. Opinions are just opinions, I care more about facts. If you think differently than myself, I wont judge you, and be sure not to judge me. For example, if someone smokes, smoking is gross... that is my opinion. I wont think you are gross for doing so. Because facts are way more important. If you are always there for your friends, that is a fact and will respect you way more than ostracizing you for a different view. That applies to anything really.I can't stand most vegetarians. Usually because it gives them a high and mighty attitude. Vegetarians that smoke are just a total waste of life. Vegetarians lack culture (unless its part of their culture) and they also put their mind in an unrealistic world. Sure! Lets just release all the cows and chickens that we have genetically bread into meatballs back into the wild! Lets see what nature does to them! Animals do horrible things to their food. Some like to eat them alive. Lets not pretend we are not animals, because we certainly are not eggplants. I am for more humane ways of treating our livestock but not really into the whole PITA idea. (by the way, if you think that organization is good, and you have ANY pets, then you're wrong. They don't think we should have anything to do with animals at all).I am really sick of the argument that you don't need meat to survive too. You don't need myspace to survive either. Or ipods, or toilet paper. And you may say 'what does that have anything to do with taking lives'? Clearly the answer is there if you just think about it a little more.I will totally wear leather + fur. It looks good, so deal with it. I save animals lives with my two hands every single day on the job, its more than what a lot of people do. So I am proud to take back my share.Smoking... reason why I don't is because I got to watch my grandfather deteriorate from cancer. One of his things I could remember him saying while hooked up to tubes was "I could sure go for another cigarette". It just makes me very sad thinking about how he listened to Patsy Cline the last few days of his life, while gasping for air every other second. He didn't care what happened to him but I got to watch my whole family suffer from grief because of it. Its selfish. But I guess it's your right to be selfish if you want to. I was smoking up until this year. And just decided to stop to preserve my vanity.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Dr. Albert Schweitzer: An optimist is a person who sees a green light everywhere. The pessimist sees only the red light. But the truly wise person is color blind.Mark Twain: Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn't do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.Samuel Butler: Friendship is like money, easier made than kept.VenSeph: Vegans don't swallow.

Television:

Buffy the Vampire Slayer

My Blog

birthday gift

My best gift this year was also my best memory of my life. You mean so much to me.
Posted by VenSeph on Fri, 31 Aug 2007 08:12:00 PST

I can’t even think of a title for this...

    You know what sucks?  I will always be his friend, no matter how much it will kill me and hurt me and rip my soul out.  I guess I rather suffer and suffer than live the re...
Posted by VenSeph on Sat, 25 Aug 2007 07:49:00 PST

do what I have to do

I don't know if you are interested...probably not at the moment...I might not be what you want...but who other than me is going to take the time to try to become that?there are signs if you can only s...
Posted by VenSeph on Sun, 19 Aug 2007 07:24:00 PST

It is not mature but...

I learned from Andrew, that the best thing to do when someone rejects you after telling them your feelings, and choose someone else they have not even met over you... that lives thousands of miles awa...
Posted by VenSeph on Tue, 07 Aug 2007 08:37:00 PST

The Offer

Indecent exposureExposing a poserWill you teachthe lesson?Improper aggression...I can't hardly stand it.Supply and demand it!Will you make a mess orWill I take the lesser?I have no evidence It doesn'...
Posted by VenSeph on Mon, 06 Aug 2007 11:39:00 PST

Why

Do I torture myself?
Posted by VenSeph on Sat, 04 Aug 2007 01:48:00 PST

sometimes

Sometimes you just have to put a crush aside and realize how awesome being friends can be. Thats all.
Posted by VenSeph on Sat, 04 Aug 2007 04:03:00 PST

DAMN! (this song totally fits the mood atm)

That old dog has chained you up all rightGive you everything you needTo live inside a twisted cageSleep beside in empty rageI had a dream I was your heroDamn I wish I was your loverI'd rock you till t...
Posted by VenSeph on Wed, 01 Aug 2007 04:32:00 PST

Ryan, my watcher, the king of fortune cookies told me...

"you would have so much more fun if you didn't get emotionally attached"...He is right.
Posted by VenSeph on Mon, 30 Jul 2007 03:46:00 PST

Don't worry, I'll catch you.

can you sleep as the sound hits your ears one at a time?an unspokenbalance here,unabridged for so many yearsthat i should stare at receivers to receive her isn't fairdon't worry i'll catch youdon't ev...
Posted by VenSeph on Mon, 30 Jul 2007 05:39:00 PST