The T.J. Slideshow:
A LITTLE SOMETHING ABOUT TJ
Name: TJ
Birthday: 1/12/84
Birthplace: Manhattan, NYC
Current Location: Brooklyn, NYC
Eye Color: Brown
Hair Color: Black
Right Handed or Left Handed: Right Handed
Your Heritage: Black (South Carolina)/Puerto Rican
The Shoes You Wore Today: Black/White Jordan Retro 11
Your Weakness: Love
Your Fears: Fearless now
Goal You Would Like To Achieve This Year: Automotive School
Your Most Overused Phrase On an instant messenger: Formerly "LOL" now "LMAO"
Thoughts First Waking Up: "Be a better man than you were yesterday for your family, friends, and the woman you are going to spend the rest of your life with."
Your Best Physical Feature: My Heart
Your Most Missed Memory: Far too many with my friends and fam...
Pepsi or Coke: Used to be Pepsi - NO MORE SODA
McDonalds or Burger King: McDonalds
Single or Group Dates: Single
Do you Smoke: NEVER
Have you Been in Love: It hurt like hell
Do you want to go to College: Been there, done that, doing it again
Do you want to get Married: Yes
Do you think you are Attractive: No self-confident man can answer this question with a "Yes" without being considered conceited. People are so ignorant, yes I think i'm attractive to some, not all.
Are you a Health Freak: No, getting there though
Do you get along with your Parents: Yes
Do you like Thunderstorms: Love them
In the past month have you Drank Alcohol: Nope
In the past month have you been on Drugs: Never
In the past month have you gone on a Date: Yes
In the past month have you eaten Sushi: Yes
Ever been Drunk: Once
Ever been called a Tease: No
Ever been Beaten up: Nope
How do you want to Die: With the love of my life in my arms/family around me...
What do you want to be when you Grow Up: Automotive Engineer
What country would you most like to Visit: England
In a Girl..
Favourite Eye Color: Doesn't matter
Short or Long Hair: I prefer long, but it doesn't really matter in the end. As long as she has some ponytailz. :)lol
Best Clothing Style: Whatever's fly at the time.
Number of CDs I own: Limewire Pro
Number of Piercings: 2
Number of Tattoos: None yet.
Number of things in my Past I Regret: I forgot her name...
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Peep my girl Ponytailz doing her thing. What isn't there to like about a girl like this? LOL
Call Me by Shihan The Poet...
I think this belongs to you
Her arms extend returning the stone she stole from my chest
Which used to pump passion?
No wonder she doesn't recognize me
She must not remember
Or she must want me to forget
Everyday I wondered what she's doing
But how can I love you so much when you take your love away from me
You know some people kill for the people they love
and some people just kill the love
I think that's you
Do you hear me?
I wish you knew how to make me not love you
Because missing you is like a little death
And each time I miss you a piece of me dies inside
But I can't put all this on you
So I put it on paper
I mean, it's not like we can run through the daisies and watch the credits roll
But I can still love you and love us and love the idea
I can't hold on
So I leave your life
But always know you can call me whenever you need to hear
“I Love You."
Understanding...
People think that intimacy is equated with sex and sexual acts; I’m not going to be Mr. I know everything but think about it. True intimacy comes from knowing your lover; one of the main reason why people cheat is because they think that they are being ignored and/or someone else pays attention to the details; the things that they like and appreciate above the superficiality of typical relationship knowledge. So here’s my advice for those of you that are adamant on hearing what I have to say; Men: don’t pride yourself in knowing things about your girl, take pride in knowing your girl. Know her to the point where you can anticipate her actions, reactions and even her thoughts. And no, that won’t make your relationship boring it will make it one of mutual understanding. Imagine this: you know how to talk to your girl even if it’s a topic that she gets defensive about . . . if you know her well enough you can have a discussion and not have an argument. They key is anticipation and insight. Be more than a lover; be a teacher. Women: you can not control a man’s actions and even if you succeeded with controlling enough so that you get caught up in an illusion it won’t last for long and you’ll be terribly surprised that he won’t do what you want. Understand that you can not want a strong man and a man that can be controlled. Can’t have it both ways so think about what you want when you’re making that choice to be in a relationship. Think about it long and hard. Both: don’t be afraid to show that you’re vulnerable; there can be no understanding without letting someone in so that they can gain the knowledge of your experiences.
Random Poem:
Have you ever wondered which hurts the most?Saying something and wishing you hadn't?Or saying nothing and wishing you had?I guess the most important things are the hardest things to say.Have you ever denied your feelings for someone because your fear of rejection was too hard to handle?We tell lies when we are afraid... afraid of what we don't know, afraid of what others will think,afraid of what will be found out about us.But every time we tell a lie,the thing we fear grows stronger.Life is all about risks and it requires you to jump.Don't be a person who has to look back and wonder what they would have done,or could have had.What would you do if every time you fell in love you had to say good-bye?What would you do if every time you wanted someone they would never be there?What would you do if you loved someone more than ever and you couldn't have them?People live, but people die.
Shihan - Sick and Tired