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Matt

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

I decided to disable adds, because I was tired of getting spammed and having random people add me. So, if you're interested in being my friend, then send me a message. And if I don't reply or add you, tough. Deal with it.
If you are under the Age of 18, unless I already know you,
I prolly don't want to. I'm too old, go away!
If you plan on sending me a message or an add for the reason of "You're Hot", don't. I want nothing to do with people who judge me based on appearence.
I got tired of my old About me so I decided to change it. Problem is I am bad at this. SO...forgive me if this isn't adequate. Okay, music is my life. I love and do lots of other things, but I can not imagine life without music. I play guitar, and am the lead guitarist for my band. We had a name, but someone else got to the rights first. Crap. For an idea of the music I like, check out the number of bands I have listed under Music. I was a student at Monmouth University. I love it there, and can't wait till I can go back. My birthday is July 7th.... making me a Cancer. And I am not only a typical cancer, I am THE definition of a cancer. I have strong passions, a strong will, and powerful emotions, all of which are my strengths as well as my weaknesses. I have several tattoos and one piercing (all shown in my album, except the piercing, which is my tongue), and I don't intend to stop there. Tattoos are so addictive, like potato chips... The only issue is having the extra cash to get what I want. I am a student of the martial arts styles of Kendo, Iaido/Kenjitsu, and Aikido. I am an optimist, but a realist at the same time. I see things and call things as they are, but I always try to find the good in everything and everyone. I am very opinionated, and will voice my views when I see fit. If that offends you, I am sorry, but I will not deffer my views to make way for yours. We all have the right to speak our mind, and yes, we all have the right to disagree as well. I love to learn about anything and everything. So instead of preaching and forcing your views and values, try to educate and bring understanding. There is nothing wrong with understanding and still disagreeing. We are all individuals and our differences are what make us unique and special. I try to learn from everything, and regret nothing. To regret means you have taken nothing away from what has happened. To learn from the past and mistakes is wise and worth your time. I can not stand liars. I don't freely give my trust. I have been hurt and betrayed too many times. I am willing to give my trust to whomever deserves it. I can get along with anyone, as long as you have an open mind, and an open heart. My suggestion would be to get to know me, I guarantee you will not be disappointed.

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My Interests



Computers / Internet, Ghost Hunting, Dining out, eBay, Gadgets / techie stuff, Gardening, Going out for coffee, Listening to music, Massage, My job, News and current events, Photography, Playing / singing music, Broadway, Science, Taking educational classes, Video / .. games, New Jersey, Tattoos, Concerts, People, Love, Beauty

I'd like to meet:

"To love is to feel, to feel is to live, and to live is to be free." ~Me

I am looking to find someone who is outgoing, outspoken, and has similar interests, and a similar personality. I am a very affectionate, emotional person, and someone with the same attributes would get along nicely with me. I want to build a friendship, one that will last.
What happens from there, I guess we will see ;-). I will give my AIM Screen Name Freely to anyone who is on my Friend List! If I don't give it to you right away, just ask me!

Music:

3 Doors Down, 40 Below Summer, A Perfect Circle, Adema, Aerosmith, AFI, Alice in Chains, Alien Ant Farm, Alter Bridge, Amorphis, Atomship, Audioslave, Audiovent, Black Market Hero, Black Sabbath, Blindside, Bobaflex, Bon Jovi, Boy Hits Car, Breaking Benjamin, Bush, Candiria, Chevelle, Children of Bodem, Christian Death, Clutch, Coal Chamber, Cold, Creed, Crossfade, Danzig, Dark New Day, Def Leppard, Depeche Mode, Dio, Disturbed, Dope, Doubledrive, Drain STH, Dream Theater, Dropbox, Drowning Pool, Evanescance, Evans Blue, Eve 6, Fear Factory, Finger Eleven, Five.Bolt.Main, Flaw, Flyleaf, Foo Fighters, From Autumn to Ashes, Fuel, George Thorogood, Godsmack, Gravity Kills, Greenday, Guns n' Roses, Hatebreed, Helmet, Hinder, Hoobastank, Human Waste Project, Iced Earth, Ill Niño, Incubus, Jimi Hendrix, Killswitch Engage, Kiss, Kittie, KMFDM, Korn, Lacuna Coil, Lamb of God, Leather Strip, Led Zepplin, Lennon Murphy, Lenny Kravitz, Life of Agony, Linkin Park, Live, Lo-pro, Lost Prophets, Man VS Clock, Marilyn Manson, Memento, Metallica, Monster Magnet, Mudvayne, Mushroomhead, Nickelback, Nine Inch Nails, Nirvana, No Address, Nothingface, One Less Reason, Orgy, Ozzy Osbourne, Pantera, Papa Roach, Pearl Jam, Pink Floyd, Powerman 5000, Puddle of Mudd, Rage Against the Machine, Rammstein, Red Hot Chili Peppers, R.E.M., Revelation Theory, Rob Zombie, Saliva, Seether, Sevendust, Shadows Fall, Shinedown, Slayer, Slipknot, Smashing Pumpkins, Smile Empty Soul, Soil, Soulfly, Sound Garden Stabbing Westward, Staind, Static-X, Steppenwolf, Stereomud, Stone Temple Pilots, Sublime, Submersed, Switchblade Symphony, System of a Down, Systematic, Tantric, Taproot, The Beatles, The Cure, The Offspring, The Ramones, Theory of a Deadman, Thornley, Three Days Grace, Tool, Trapt, Tripside, Type O Negative, Union Underground, Unloco, Vast, VNV Nation, White Zombie, Whitesnake,
More to come....

Movies:

The Crow, The Matrix Trilogy, Lord of the Rings Trilogy, Chicago, Fight Club, Back to the Future Trilogy, Clerks, Dogma, Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back, Mallrats, Princess Mononoke, Star Wars (all), Star Trek (all), Shrek 1 & 2, MST3k, Monty Python, Harry Potters, Rocky Horror Picture Show, Detroit Rock City, Stargate, Pink Floyd's The Wall, so many more...

Television:

Stargate SG-1, Stargate Atlantis, Battlestar Gallactica, Star Trek, Lexx, Farscape, Simpsons, Family Guy, Futurama, War at Home, American Dad, CSI, CSI:NY, CSI:Miami, Law and Order, Law and Order:SVU, Law and Order:CI, House, Bones, Boston Legal, Medium, NCIS, Killer Instinct, Criminal Minds, Ghost Whisperer, Ghost Hunters, Myth Busters, ER, Will and Grace, Beavis and Butthead, MST2k, Friends, Daria, (Old stuff...) MTV Oddities like Aeon Flux and the Head, Discovery Channel / TLC, South Park, Adult Swim, Clerks, Undergrads, Blue Gender, Inuyasha, Kikalider, Fooly Cooly, Big O, Cowboy Bebop...and yet so many more.

Books:

Anything Anne Rice, Flowers in the Attic, In the Forest of the Night, Demon in my View, J.R.R. Tolkein stuff (LotRs), The Odessey, The Illiad, anything Shakespeare, Jhonen Vasquez (I Feel Sick...I LOVE those. I Have a spooky doll... The thing what squeeks!),oh hell with it. I love to read things.

Heroes:

My Parents, my Grandparents, My Uncle Eric Carr - former drummer of KISS from 1980-1991 [R.I.P.], Dimebag Darrell Abbott [R.I.P.], Stephen Hawking, anybody who prospers in life while maintaining a dignified existance and not becoming a souless Enron Executive, myself....to be continued...

My Blog

My life right now.

Ok, here it all is. Everyone has been asking me how I am, what's new, where I've been and all that crap. And basically I've been avoiding the topic, and most people in general.The honest answer is and...
Posted by Matt on Wed, 23 Apr 2008 01:33:00 PST

Why I voted for Hillary Clinton.

This will sum up most of why I voted for Hillary. 1. Fuck drug companies.2. Fuck insurance companies.3. Fuck the Republican so called "Health-Plans" I am middle class. As are most of you. That means u...
Posted by Matt on Tue, 11 Mar 2008 12:05:00 PST

I’m gonna Delete people. I’m just sick of it...so read it.

Just so you know... as soon as I get a few minutes to myself to actually spend more than a second on here, I'm going to go through my list and start deleting people. Fact is, I just really don't care ...
Posted by Matt on Thu, 20 Sep 2007 10:36:00 PST

Still Alive

Hey everyone. I haven't posted in a while... so I figure I'd post something just to say I'm alive. I guess I'm trying to get the most out of my summer... of course inbetween the crap one has to do... ...
Posted by Matt on Mon, 20 Aug 2007 11:15:00 PST

Eternal Sunshine

I just got finished watching Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless mind... the second time. The first time was back in Spetember 2004.... Back then the movie was thought provoking... and kinda a mind fuck....
Posted by Matt on Tue, 13 Mar 2007 12:48:00 PST

Quickly saying...READ

I hate liars, fakes, and most of all, fucking hypocrits. Don't fucking preach to me about how honest and shit you are when you can't even fucking face up to whatever the fuck is bugging you. Thats hor...
Posted by Matt on Tue, 16 Jan 2007 10:25:00 PST

Bunch of Quizzes

Your Kissing Technique Is: Perfect Your kissing technique is amazing - and you know it.You have the confidence to make the first move.And you always seem to know what kissing style is going to wo...
Posted by Matt on Sat, 18 Nov 2006 10:40:00 PST

Mistakes

So, this whole week she'd been under the impression that I didn't want to speak to her anymore. I need to be more clear in the future, and more importantly, NOT HAVE IMPORTANT CONVERSATIONS WHEN SOMEO...
Posted by Matt on Fri, 27 Oct 2006 12:58:00 PST

Feel the need to blog...

Ok. First thing's first. I'm just venting. I'm not looking for sympathy, or making any point, or trying to get to anybody. I just need to type. And please don't reply saying how sorry you are, or that...
Posted by Matt on Wed, 25 Oct 2006 01:00:00 PST

Manalapan is going Nuts!

I told you all I thought Manalapan is going crazy.... The murder/suicide a lil while back, the hit and run, the plane crash, that standoff down the road from me, and now THIS:http://www.app.com/apps/p...
Posted by Matt on Mon, 09 Oct 2006 08:35:00 PST