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^__^ Ben ^__^

I am here for Dating, Serious Relationships, Friends and Networking

About Me

i possibly drink too much, i've done things i don't think are the best idea, i'm surrounded by people who love me and i, at times, don't think i deserve them... however, i'm happy with the man i am, and i won't change for anyone. i've lost 180+ pounds in the last 3 years, and I love myself. That's all that matters... I've been told that i'm an amazing person and that i intuit people well. the one peice of advice that i have for everyone is "love yourself. it doesn't matter what everyone else thinks."Unless you prove that you are worthy of my dislike, I love you.
AIM - avidartiste
Yahoo - gaymuzikman or amoureauxdemusique
You Have A Type B+ Personality

B+ You're a pro at going with the flow You love to kick back and take in everything life has to offer A total joy to be around, people crave your stability.While you're totally laid back, you can have bouts of hyperactivity. Get into a project you love, and you won't stop until it's done You're passionate - just selective about your passions Do You Have a Type A Personality?
Your Values Profile
Loyalty:
You value loyalty a fair amount.
You're loyal to your friends... to a point.
But if they cross you, you will reconsider your loyalties.
Staying true to others is important to you, but you also stay true to yourself.
Honesty:
You value honesty a fair amount.
You're honest when you can be, but you aren't a stickler for it.
If a little white lie will make a situation more comfortable, you'll go for it.
In the end, you mostly care about "situational integrity."
Generosity:
You value generosity highly.
So much so that you often put your own needs last.
There's nothing wrong with having a caring heart...
But you may want to rethink your "open wallet" policy.
Humility:
You value humility highly.
You have the self-confidence to be happy with who you are.
And you don't need to seek praise to make yourself feel better.
You're very modest, and you're keep the drama factor low.
Tolerance:
You value tolerance highly.
Not only do you enjoy the company of those very different from you...
You do all that you can to seek it out interesting and unique friends.
You think there are many truths in life, and you're open to many of them. The Five Factor Values Test
The Boy Next Door
Random Gentle Love Dreamer ( RGLDm )
Kind, yearning, playful, you are The Boy Next Door. You're looking for real Love, a lot like girls do. It might not be manly, but it's sweet.
We think the next three years will be very exciting and fruitful ones for you. Your spontaneous, creative side makes you a charming date, and we think you have a horny side just waiting to shine. Or glisten, rather. You enter new relationships unusually hopeful, and the first moments are especially glorious. If you've had some things not work out before, so what.
..tr height="20" Your exact opposite:
The 5-Night Stand

Deliberate Brutal Sex Master
..table On paper, most gay guys would name the Boy Next Door as their ideal mate. In the real world, however, you're often passed over for more dangerous or masculine men. You're the typical "nice guy:" without just a touch of cockiness, you're doomed with boys. A shoulder to cry on? Okay, sure. But never a penis to hold.
More than any other type, Boys Next Door evolve as they get older. As we said, many find true love, but some fail miserably in the search. These tarnished few grow up to be The Men Next Door, who are creepy as hell, offering backrubs to kids and what not.
ALWAYS AVOID : The Billy Goat
CONSIDER : The Gentleman, The Loverboy ..table
Link: The 32-Type Dating Test by OkCupid
My profile name: gaymuzikman

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

REAL people... People who are in my area. People who don't really care so much about what other people think. People who are passionate about something.

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My Blog

Ben’s next Show!!! Die Fledermaus

Hello Friends!!I am very, very excited to announce that I have been cast in the lead of Die Fledermaus. I would love for each and every one of you to come to the FREE Friends and Family performance. ...
Posted by ^__^ Ben ^__^ on Mon, 16 Jun 2008 11:36:00 PST

So... for my birthday, I get...

I get to work open to close by myself.  I love how these things work out.  Melissa's out of town and Kassie had a panic attack tonite, so she can't work tomorrow night... Fabulous... so anyo...
Posted by ^__^ Ben ^__^ on Fri, 11 Apr 2008 11:38:00 PST

The Lead...? Who’da Thunk It???

So yesterday, on a whim, I went to an audition of Die Fledermaus.  It’s a comic operetta... I haven’t sung opera since 2002 when we did opera scenes in college... I did the audition, then ...
Posted by ^__^ Ben ^__^ on Mon, 07 Apr 2008 01:25:00 PST

First Blog of 2008...

So... It's 2008. Hard to believe we're already 2 & 1/2 weeks into the new year... I have a good feeling about this year.  It definitely can't be as bad as last year was for me.  Whe...
Posted by ^__^ Ben ^__^ on Fri, 18 Jan 2008 09:22:00 PST

Blah Fucking Blah [/rant]

Ya know... I really hate the fact that when I think that I've actually caught up on bills and everything, something has to turn around and bite me in the ass.  I'm so sick of dealing with money i...
Posted by ^__^ Ben ^__^ on Fri, 11 Jan 2008 09:15:00 PST

Screwed over at work again...

Well... once again, I've been screwed over at this job.  I love it when I hire someone I think is going to be a great asset, which they are, but then they turn around and screw you over.  C...
Posted by ^__^ Ben ^__^ on Fri, 30 Nov 2007 04:16:00 PST

Life... Or something like it.

I need a place to call my home!  Actually... we need a place to call home.  Me & Brian, with Dino, Logan & Nala...  Thus we begin the perils of finding a living situation. ...
Posted by ^__^ Ben ^__^ on Thu, 04 Oct 2007 04:48:00 PST

Interesting...

So this past week I house/dog-sat at my parents... blah! It was kinda nice being out of harrisonburg, but it was still boring.  Part of this was the fact that I brought part of my laundry home to...
Posted by ^__^ Ben ^__^ on Sun, 12 Aug 2007 01:19:00 PST

This weekend

Wow-- That's all that I can say.  I was part of yet another wedding of my college friends.  Since graduation in 2003, I have attended, been invited to, or been part of over 10 weddings of my...
Posted by ^__^ Ben ^__^ on Mon, 16 Jul 2007 09:50:00 PST

Five Principles for Happiness in 2007

Five Principles for Happiness in 2007by David BachThe arrival of the new year marks a symbolic time for fresh starts. Many of us take it as an opportunity to set goals, contemplate decisions, and rene...
Posted by ^__^ Ben ^__^ on Wed, 03 Jan 2007 10:14:00 PST