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El Jefe

I am here for Friends and Networking

About Me

First I would like to say that I am a professional by day, and take it seriously. I work hard because it's my job. After work is another story. However, I DO NOT LIKE TO MIX MY PERSONAL LIFE WITH MY PROFESSIONAL LIFE. I politely ask, that my colleagues do not ask to be my friend here on MySpace. It's nothing against you, it's just that this is my page to say what I want, when I want, and how I want, and for it never to be involved with my work. I hope you understand.
I'm no longer using this page on a regular basis however, that does not mean that I will not respond. I only check this page about once a week. I think the novelty has worn off. Sorry Tom!.
I want to use this page, for the most part, to keep in contact with the friends that I have made, and close friends. For those who need to reach me, send me a text message, it's just easier that way..
I also think that some people think I'm online to hook up. I want to clear things up. I have boyfriend who I'm madly in love with. Hook-ups are out of the question. Please do not ask. I love you babe!I grew up for the most part in Northern, VA. I have my group of friends who I love and will never replace! We've all known each other for 10+ years and we've experienced it all. We've hated each other, and we've loved each other. We fight, we laugh. Most importantly, we support each other. I'd do anything for them! I'm a little over possessive when it comes to my friends! I know sometimes it's almost gotten my ass beat up, but, hey, I'd do anything to protect them. There truly is no better night out, when you have all your friends around smiling and having a good time.
I like to goof around, I like to play jokes. I like making my friends laugh. Sometimes I crack myself up, and I can't stop laughing. Strange but true. I like to eat out, go out for drinks, and I love to club. Clubbing is a release for me, and it's where I can be free. I love clubbing where there are beautiful people, great cocktails, and nothing but some wicked house tunes!
I like to flirt, just as every man does, but that doesn't mean I'm vein. For some reason people seem to think that. If I want to talk to you then I will, if not, then I won't. It's simple. People seem to place a negative judgment on my boyfriend and I before even speaking to us. To those people I say "grow up". Life isn't worth your drama and immature antics. I think it's your own insecurities that make you that way. It's a shame.
I've been through a lot in my life, and I know I still have a lot of learning to do. I'm thankful to have my boyfriend and friends to help through it all.I believe in hope, helping others, and trust.
I'm also someone that you don't want to piss off. I will say things when I'm pissed that I will mean, and will not regret saying, perhaps just how I said it. If I trust you, and you break that trust, then it's over. period. I've had friends in my life, that I thought the world of, but when I truly needed them, or they stabbed me in the back, I simply cut them off and will not ever give them the time of day, ever. Call me an jerk, but I think you can relate.
Alright everyone, if you think we can be friends, then hit me up!!! :-D I look forward to meeting new people!
All the best, Fidel
P.S. - Please do not request to add me if you are below the age of 22. Seriously.

My Interests

Music Video: BEAUTIFUL DAY (LIVE) (by U2)

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House Music, Traveling, and Friends.

I'd like to meet:

I like to meet all sorts of people, from different lifestyles, ethnicities, countries, just everyone. I'm very open minded, and more into meeting real people with real lives, not pretentious lives.

Music:

I can't get enough House Music. My top DJ is Sander Kleinenberg for his sexy house! Other Favs are Lotte and Deep Dish! I've also broadened my tastes and like others like Marilyn Manson, Kelis. U2 has got to be one of my newest Favorites. I can't believe I never listed to them in the past. U2 makes me feel so emotional and brings me into their words and melody. Thank you for that U2! I'm also loving Michael Buble. It's not often you find someone who loves life and is sends such a positive vibe. I don't really listen to too much country music, but if I'm drunk enough, who knows!

Movies:



Television:

Frasier, Sex & The City, Simpsons, Will & Grace, Nip Tuck

Books:

Dan Brown's "The Davinci Code"

Heroes:

I've been let down too many times to have a hero.

My Blog

Memorable Music Day/Nights

I have to first say that I'm taking this idea from Alicia.  It wouldn't be right if I never mention that.  Alicia, I hope it's cool.  I just wanted to share some of my most memorable mu...
Posted by El Jefe on Sun, 16 Sep 2007 01:55:00 PST

Adrian in Print

Hello Everyone,So, my boy had a photo shoot the other day, and you can find him in this weeks "Metro Weekly"  Here is s link to the page.  The link will only be good for a week, and it doesn...
Posted by El Jefe on Sat, 10 Feb 2007 05:10:00 PST

Sorry

Hey There everyone!!! Well, I just want to say sorry that I haven't been the best at responding to messages.  I recently started a new job and I'm unable to use MySpace while at work.  (whic...
Posted by El Jefe on Sat, 06 Jan 2007 07:56:00 PST

It's a shame

This is what my boyfriend wrote on our experience yesterday in Washington, D.C.  It's a shame that racism is still alive.  This guy was probably in his late 20's, early 30's.  It was sh...
Posted by El Jefe on Fri, 29 Dec 2006 06:19:00 PST

Last Friday

I just wanted to say thank you to everyone for all the great birthday wishes!!!  Everyone has been really sweet to me! Also, thank you to all who came to my birthday dinner!! I was really happy t...
Posted by El Jefe on Mon, 18 Dec 2006 06:25:00 PST

I'm the happiest man alive!

I truly am the the happiest man alive today!!!!  As most of you know, my boyfriend and I decided to move back to the states, to start our new life together.  I sadly left my boyfriend in Ger...
Posted by El Jefe on Thu, 14 Dec 2006 08:36:00 PST

Come one, come all!

Hey Everyone! Well, I don't know if you many of you knew this, but I do have any artsy side.  I have done some musical theater in my life, that I am extremely proud of.  It was a "fear of st...
Posted by El Jefe on Wed, 13 Dec 2006 06:23:00 PST

Feline Arrival

Well everyone, I'm so happy to say that our cats arrived safely!!! Adrian did a fantastic job with getting them taken care of! The people at Lufthansa were very sweet and very helpful! My main concern...
Posted by El Jefe on Tue, 12 Dec 2006 06:07:00 PST

Tick Tock Tick Tock

You know, what's the deal with people turning on their blinkers AFTER they already begin to change lanes?  Why even turn your freakin' blinker on then?  I mean really, you might as well just...
Posted by El Jefe on Mon, 11 Dec 2006 11:15:00 PST

Unthinkable

Well, for those who know me, you know that back in the day I was the athletic guy who always had to win, no matter what the sport.  I played on tons of teams, at all levels, some at the national ...
Posted by El Jefe on Sun, 19 Nov 2006 08:00:00 PST