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DESSYKA

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About Me

I'm the youngest of three kids...I come from a family of five, that turned into fourteen and soon to be fifteen. I have a handsome son, who of course looks just like his dad, minus the facial hair. Hopefully if the next baby is a girl, she will look like me! A girl would be nice so we have one of each, but really wouldn't mind another boy and satisfied with what God has in store for both Ed and I. My family always comes first. I love spending time with them, even though they can drive me nuts at times. Who ever knew that my sister and I would become the best of friends....when we were younger she could have killed me (not killed each other). She is just the best-simply stated! My brother has this way about him that makes you tell him what is bothering you, even if he really doesn't care. I hate talking to him and he gets me to the point where I get all emotional with tears, then I have to say "I love you" at the end of the conversation. He is a great brother and wouldn't trade him in for anything....maybe another sister-j/k! I'm a pretty easy going person...try to live the simple life (according to my standards, don't ask my hubby). I love to laugh and have a good time. Some of my friends call me Martha Stewart, Jr. because I do a lot of create-your-own. It's just fun and "sometimes" cheaper. They love when I come around for the holidays...everything is made from the heart. I'm into scrapbooking, making invitations, party favors....name it I've eitehr done it or can attempt to (mainly do baby stuff-baby showers, birth announcments, birthdays, christenings/dedications, but open to anything really). Too bad I can't say the same about cooking, but I can bake just about anything (Death By Chocolate anyone?)-I just go to my parents house for that and totally believe in eating out, but would much rather have a home cooked meal from my dad. I love taking pictures, especially of Isaiah with his Dad, especially those candid moments. Funny how you start to carry your camera with you everywhere and not wanting to miss a single moment. I should just attach a camera to him...lol! and last but not least-never make someone a priority when they make you an option!

My Interests

Before I was a Mom I never tripped over toys or forgot words to lullaby. I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous. I never thought about immunizations. Before I was a Mom - I had never been puked on, pooped on chewed on peed on. I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts. I slept all night.Before I was a Mom-I never held down a screaming child so doctors could do tests or give shots. I never looked into teary eyes and cried. I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin. I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep. Before I was a Mom-I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put them down. I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt. I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much. I never knew that I could love someone so much. I never knew I would love being a Mom. Before I was a Mom-I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body. I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby. I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child. I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so important and happy. Before I was a Mom-I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay. I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache, the wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom. I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much before I was a Mom.

I'd like to meet:

My maker and creator and the fetus growing inside me!

Music:

Whatever sounds good at the moment

Movies:

Anything that can make me laugh

Television:

Foodnetwork or TLC

Books:

The books Isaiah picks out for me to read to him

Heroes:

GOD

My Blog

Pregnancy

People are just too funny!  They have a funny way of asking if your expecting...just come out and ask.  Please don't stare:)  LOL!  Yes, I had leftovers from Zay that I just couldn...
Posted by DESSYKA on Thu, 20 Sep 2007 05:04:00 PST

Ever wonder...

Have you ever wondered how much people are alike?  Weird, isn't it?  People you least expect to be like you....are just the same!  Crazy...i tell you!  Day after day I learn so man...
Posted by DESSYKA on Sat, 22 Sep 2007 04:00:00 PST

Isaiah's turning 2! Oh-no!

Oh man...my baby is turning 2!  Where did the time go?  Too fast, too fast!  He went potty in the toilet for the first time last night!  I was the happiest mommy in the world ...
Posted by DESSYKA on Tue, 05 Dec 2006 12:26:00 PST