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A Friend of Mine

If Your Bed Explodes You'll Never Make It

About Me

A Friend Of Mine. Four words. Three people. Two ears (each). One destiny.
A Friend Of Mine use guitars, bass, pedals, laptop, keyboard, drums, sampler and two lead vocals. They have been doing this since they were in shortpants, but recording/performing under this name started in October, 2005. First EP came out 2007. It is cheap and critically acclaimed.
Facts for the casual reader... Our first gig was at a friend's 21st, Oct 05. There was a Boxwars theme. Low on material, we did "Planet Caravan". Celebrity cokehead Neil Wedd stood up at our third gig and bagged the crap out of us. We were loud, apparently. We did a stint with screamodelic jam band Harmonilehre. We recorded ten hours of jamming, and played alongside Damo Suzuki (once in Can), who is every bit the legend he is said to be. We picked out of a hat to determine the order we went on stage. Great fun. Most gigs involve technical difficulties and bleeding, though both in small measure. Our shortest gig was 2 minutes, in a carpark at Monash Uni, where a goon screeched up in a car and said the Dean would fire everybody if we played another note. We decided to stop. We often wear clothes that were not intended to be worn by people of our stature/age/gender. Our first decent support was the Tote's NYE 06 Lock In, with several reputable musical entertainers. We like crude props, and emblazening crude slogans on ourselves and our clothing. This helps distract you from the music. We have never, ever lost the "drink your rider first" game. We have never made it known to the other bands that such a game exists. Davd often throws up before a gig, because apparently he can't burp. Chris and I learned to do that when we were babies. Mid-2007, we released our joyously-received EP, with a joyously received residency at the Tote which, if you're Little Red, will send you rocketing to stardom, but if you're not, it probably won't. Around this time Chris started getting some on the side, as Shooting At Unarmed Men's drummer. The year ended on a high as we were accused of theft by another band. Our friend Lloyd is going to play guitar with us now, helping diversify our sound. We're just about to record our full-length album. It's brilliant, I assure you.
BOOKINGS: contact our "management" on 0414 609 862 or band (at) afriendofmine.com.au (or through this very site)
Debut EP "If Your Head Explodes You'll Never Make It" $10 digipak version available online and at all shows.
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"A full and fierce debut EP from the ambitious songwriting team that is A Friend of Mine. Heavily informed by a late-period Radiohead, the boys also cite Mogwai, Joy Division, Nine Inch Nails and Neutral Milk Hotel as influences and bear the marks of all these bands. Rich, dark and deeply creative, they move from glitch-based dreamscapes to murky ballads to industrial gothica in an album length collection of oblique but powerful tunes. Very, very interesting."
-Beat Magazine, Single Of The Week
"A Friend Of Mine played the sort of music you might bulldoze a neighbourhood to: rolling waves of brooding guitar grounded by frenetic, precise drumwork... their variation in intensity and unpretentious character made them a band worth catching. Take Tool and splice their musical genome with that of jazz legends The Necks and you've got a rough idea."
-Inpress Magazine, Live at the Greyhound Review
"The music industry is plagued with perils and pitfalls that compromise artists' ability to evolve from amateur garage band to commercially attractive proposition. Judging by the title of its debut EP, local band A Friend of Mine has already grasped a salient (if statistically unlikely) lesson about life in the music industry. If Your Head Explodes You'll Never Make It is a mix of atmospheric rock moments, samples and emotive pleadings which resists temptation to dive into a well furnished musical pidgeon hole. Hopefully A Friend of Mine will not only continue to progress musically, but continue to raise public consciousness of danger of exploding heads."
-Beat Magazine 1078

My Interests

Music:

Member Since: 10/7/2005
Band Website: afriendofmine.com.au
Band Members: Chris - drums, sampler, yelling
Davd - bass, vocals, scapes, programming
Patrick - guitar, vocals, programming, keys

Influences: The Cooper Temple Clause, Radiohead, Aereogramme, Nine Inch Nails, The Faint, Joy Division, My Bloody Valentine, Boris, Liars, Black Sabbath, Aphex Twin, Nick Drake, Nirvana, The Prodigy, Velvet Underground, Sonic Youth, Neil Young, The Fall, Wolf Eyes, Baseball, Arab Strap, Jesus and Mary Chain, Neutral Milk Hotel, Wire, Tool, Primal Scream, Queen...
...Beatles, Modest Mouse, Boredoms, Gang of Four, Arcade Fire, David Bowie, Oceansize, Isis, Mogwai, A Silver Mt. Zion, Godspeed You! Black Emperor, Guided By Voices, Autolux, My Disco, Tom Waits, Brian Eno, TV on the Radio, mclusky/Shooting/Jonballs, Vaselines, Parliament, Tangerine Dream, Red House Painters, Ignatius Pop & the Stooges, !!!, Pavement

Sounds Like: "It's like a cross between Nirvana and Joy Division, New Order and Helmet, Evermore and Placebo, Cog and the Nation Blue, Tool and the Necks, Arcade Fire and Brian Eno, Invertigo, Liars, Queen, Joy Division and 60s psychedelia, you're the new Nirvana, nice harmonies and i tell you what, your drummer goes off, you guys are like a time machine back to the early 90s but I mean that in a good way because you sound like [a whole bunch of grunge bands we've never heard], and you look like the Zit Remedy from Degrassi High [whoever the fuck they are], it kind of reminds me of Bright Eyes, kinda emo but not in a bad way, now you boys are very good but it's a bit gothic and you need to write some lighter stuff, like the Eagles." - Everyone who has ever described our music to us, put together
Record Label: None
Type of Label: None

My Blog

the crazy world of AFOM

Hi there folks, it's been nearly 2 months since the last blog post, so here is the scoop: Had a few riotous gigs over the last few months.  Fun fun fun.  And, coming up... 24th April: Anzac ...
Posted by A Friend of Mine on Mon, 14 Apr 2008 08:00:00 PST

Heroin Sheik is coming

yo!it's single time. yes, a single, by us, will be recorded in the next month, and it twill be released in some way/shape/form, at some stage in god's magnificent plan.the song is called "Heroin Shei...
Posted by A Friend of Mine on Wed, 20 Feb 2008 03:24:00 PST

fasterlouder.com.au review

A portion of the "A Strange Brew @ the EBC" review on fasterlouder.com.au (i can't link to the full article because their site is effing up like bigtime right now)"Next up on the bill was A Friend of ...
Posted by A Friend of Mine on Wed, 30 Jan 2008 04:42:00 PST

chiming in

hey! it's been a while since we've posted anything on here so here's something. we are more alive than dead.  working on new songs, and quite an arsenal is taking shape.  more on that w...
Posted by A Friend of Mine on Tue, 08 Jan 2008 05:21:00 PST

all worldly possessions must go!

hey we are selling a lot of stuff on ebay... http://search.ebay.com.au/_W0QQsassZbocnish  by "all worldly possessions" i really mean about a quarter because obviously we'll need beds and fridges ...
Posted by A Friend of Mine on Mon, 19 Nov 2007 03:18:00 PST

Tea Shits

some seriously freaking awesome t-shirts have been made with the help of some of our lovingest friends.  in two varieties: non-sweatshop and opp-shop.  they'll be available at gigs.  ju...
Posted by A Friend of Mine on Tue, 16 Oct 2007 04:58:00 PST

freakin

i think it's the one called "cultural healing", the thing about some indigenous community where they are attempting some sort of "make our young people not go wayward" program.  it is vaguel...
Posted by A Friend of Mine on Sat, 22 Sep 2007 11:33:00 PST

Stores

"They told me you just can't beat Melbourne for shopping, and assured me that Melbourne is up there with the big boys."- Ken James, celebrity columnist Our debut EP is now available at the follow...
Posted by A Friend of Mine on Sun, 08 Jul 2007 06:28:00 PST

a small amount of news

hi folks.- chris is now drumming for shooting at unarmed men which is fresh.  plans for a double-tour on the brew.- so many new songs in the pipeline that there is no chance most of them will eve...
Posted by A Friend of Mine on Sun, 12 Aug 2007 06:54:00 PST

EP: OUT NOW. SHOWS: IN JUNE. YOU: SO THERE.

Good evening.We now have in our possession 500 copies of the EP (which we named "IF YOUR HEAD EXPLODES YOU'LL NEVER MAKE IT" for some reason). As you can see on this very profile, the artwork is amaz...
Posted by A Friend of Mine on Sat, 02 Jun 2007 07:06:00 PST