Phil

im phil and im from mt. laurel new jersey. I was born in La Jolla San Diego, and ended up in new jersey ha, but I'm not complainin. I laugh at people who think they have everything figured out in life, because chances are they have no idea what they are talking about, its true. Never let someone elses "views" of things and what is "right" in thier eyes pursuade your own thoughts. Im big on being your own person, if you let other people influence your opinion, you might never get the chance to figure out right from wrong, whats good for you and whats not, or figuring out things in life the way they should be figured out, on your own. Chances are the things people think they have figured out, result in the appearance of that persons weakness in their own life. Dont cheat yourself. I tend to be an extremely deep thinker, it can be annoying sometimes, and may have gotten me in trouble a few times, but when you use it for what it should be used for, and not the everyday nonsense people worry about each day like a relationships, jobs, friends, or whatever it may be, you find it can be 100 more times useful and in the end, it will flesh out all the little things that on your own you might put too much emphasis towards, only to become aggrevated and give up on it. Other than that, i like to relax and be lazy in the summer and get down the shore as much as i can, surf when i can. the summer is also subject to some drunk city and shore nights. i snowboard in the winter, if u dont snowboard, you should. I dont have a g/f, not putting too much into that until something happens on its own, if you force it, your probably only kiddin yourself in the end. If a person cant accept your efforts, they aren't worth your time. In the end you come out on top, kinda the optimistic yet true way of looking at it. Sometimes its better to go out giving your all, this way you have no regrets on your actions looking back, and in turn shows alot about the other person. Its always better to go down swinging. I guess thats all you need to know, if u wanna know more then you can ask me yourself...... Home | Browse | Search | Invite | Film | Mail | Blog | Favorites | Forum | Groups | Events | Videos | Music | Comedy | Classifieds