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Heather

Phenomenal Woman...thats me !!!!

About Me

I live for moments that take my breath away...The sound of my childrens laughter, laughing so hard that it hurts w/ my friends, dancing so long that ur body aches the next morning, listening to my MP3 player wherevever I go, watching a sunrise or a sunset, making love on a rainy morning, the smell of fresh cut grass, a first snow fall, the sound and the smell of the ocean, the feel of the sun on my body and the scent of my coconut oil slicked skin,the breeze off the ocean water, big breakfasts on Saturday morning w/ the babies, A piping hot cup O'java reading the Sunday paper,and the roar of the crowd @ my kids Soccer & Football games or when I step out onto a stage~No one falls in love by choice it is by ~ CHANCE No one stays in love by chance it is by ~ WORK No one falls out of love by chance it is by ~CHOICE"I was born of the sign of water, and it's there that I feel my best"~Little River band BUT I AM aquarius and destined for greatness.Sometimes I trip and fall but I know where I stand if ur thinking of changing my direction! I am a proud parent of 4 amazing kids ranging in ages: (10,12,14,16). In between Soccer,Football,drama club, car pools, homework, grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning laundry from hell..I still manage to be a cool kick a** mom (polls will vary from time to time.)I am still a big fan of glitter and fringe and look fierce in both! Aside from being extremely adorable I am strong, confidant,independant, hard headed, but good hearted. I have had the pleasure of being drapped with an assortment of outstanding, unusual, unique, a simply fabulous network of friends. I am also proud to say that they happen to be some of the most "naturally" talented people on the planet. I am drawn to people who intrigue me whether it be intellectually, emotionally, or professionally. I am someone who thrives on being in my comfort zone, I do not do well when I step outside of that box. I've been known to be a bit overly dramatic at times, I tend to turn it up a few notches on occasion. I am a typical 80's kid and a Rock n Roll junkie. I grew up in NYC and now reside in South Jersey suburbia. I have a very positive outlook as I walk through this life and I believe only YOU hold the key to the quality of life. I also feel that if your not living live on the edge your not living life at all! I've learned that once you learn to completely love yourself and are content with yourself, everything else is gravy baby~~ It's better not to settle, but to surround yourself with positive "significant" things and people in your world to make it a better place. As I approach middleage-dom I still feel act like I am 17, although I don't know if thats a good thing or a bad thing.

My Interests


I love to be entertained. Theater moves me, and really talented people inspire me.It's something I've just always been involved in since I was a child. I love seeing a production and being able to say I've left with something. Natural talent is what really gets me. I've seen alot of classicly trained A-holes and can honestly say I'd rather watch paint dry. Freddie Mercury was one of my all time favorite front men because no one could even compare. I miss you Fred :( Nik is one of my favorite entertainers because he is so theatrical and totally bad a**


I'd like to meet:

All the remaining members of Queen. I'd love Freddie to meet me at the pearly gates when I get there.Nikki Sixx from Motley Crue because I am still bitter over not mothering his children. David Coverdale of Whitesnake because "I was gonna be an actress..I was gonna be a star I was gonna shake my ass on the hood of his car.


Music:

I have quite an array of musical assortment..I love everything from classic R' n R', to alternative, to R n B, to pop. Nikki Sixx from Motley Crue gives me fever..ok enough said! Queen was my first musical love affair and happens to be the first concert I ever went to when I was a kid, so they have become a part of what I worship in life. Freddie Mercury lives and reigns in my heart. I've yet to come across anyone who can hold a candle to him. Currently I am in in an Evanescence..(Amy is such a Goddess!!) Pappa Roach, Buck Cherry, Soul Asylum, Breaking Benjamin Zone Long Live all the Rock n' Roll Junkies!

Movies:

Braveheart, Legends of the fall, The Notebook, The Godfather(s) , Scarface...Anything Gansta... I always root for the bad guys!! I love good quality stand up. Dennis Leary & Dane Cook are my favs at the moment. Neil Simmons The Goodbye girl with Richard Dryefus NOT the dogsh*t newer version, Top Gun~still the coolest movie ever made. Anything with Keanu Reeves gives me hives. Charlize Theron & Brad Pitt are my top picks of the decade as far as being stunning to look at as well as good actors.

Television:

Dennis Leary is my hero. Rescue Me is a great show...when it's on. I got both his stand ups "No Cure for cancer" and Lock and Load for Christmas and it kills me everytime I watch it. Now that the L word are back up and running on HBO and Showtime don't even bother trying to call me after 9pm on a Sunday night!I like to occasionaly tune into reality tv more than anything epic which glues you to the tv week after week, I can't commit to that. **Rock star** is the best show ever! I wish it was on every day ~ Dave Navarro is the modern day Vampire Le Stat aka the Rock n' Roll vampire he's just a beautiful beautiful mortal or is he?!?

Books:

My most fav of this year is Nikki Sixx's Herion Diaries, it was morbidly great. Vampire Le Stat, Memoirs of a Geisha, & Angelas Ashes are also some of my all time favs. I've spent many hours in an out of the complete works of Shakespere and any scripts that are worth sinking my teeth into.Maya Angelou is my favorite person on the planet in the lyterary world. I love how profound all of her work is. Here is my favorite Maya Angelou poem. I think it's...Phenomenal~Pretty women may wonder where my secret lies.... I'm not cute or built to suit a fashion models size But when I start to tell them, they think I'm telling lies I say, It's the reach of my arms, the span of my hips, the stride of my step, the curl of my lips, I'm a woman, Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, thats me.I walk into a room just as cool as you please, and to a man, the fellows stand, or fall down on their knees. Then they swarm around me, a hive of honey bees. I say, It's the fire in my eyes, and the flash of my teeth, the swing in my waist, and the joy in my feet, I'm a woman, phenomenally. Phenomenal woman, thats me.Men themselves have wondered what they see in me. They try so much, but they can't touch my inner mystery. When I try to show them, they say they still can't see. I say, It's the arch of my back, the sun of my smile, the ride of my breasts, the grace of my style. I'm a woman phenomenally. Phenomal woman, thats me.Now you understand just why my head's not bowed. I don't shout or jump about or have to talk real loud. When you see me passing, it ought to make you proud. I say, It's the click of my heels, the bend of my hair, the palm of my hand, the need for my care. Cause I'm a woman, Phenomenally. Phenomenal woman,thats me.

Heroes:

My children happen to be my biggest accomplishment and the heroes in my life. They are all outstanding and are called my "4 seasons" being that each of them were born in a season. Melanie and Kurt are my heroes because they inspire me everyday of my life. I couldn't have asked for two better best friends then the both of them. There is nothing better than having someone who really gets you!! I love you I love you I love!!!!Always have ~Always will. Josh I love you, you are my superstar and right up there with Freddie and Nik for me! Let nothing come between the genuiness of a true friendship!! Oh and Dani Campbell she's my new super hero for 2008!!

My Blog

What Andy Rooney thinks about women over 40...

60 Minutes Correspondent Andy Rooney (CBS)As I grow in age, I value women over 40 most of all. Here are just a few reasons why: A woman over 40 will never wake you in the middle of the night and ask, ...
Posted by Heather on Mon, 11 Feb 2008 09:38:00 PST

Favorite blog of 2007!!!

This is hands down the funniest, most relatable , favorite blog of 2007 and it's from my fierce little sister Shara Jill from P~ town still struggling through single life god love her!! Knock Kno...
Posted by Heather on Tue, 05 Feb 2008 08:49:00 PST

Redefining urself @ 40....

So this is the part of my life when I can say "wow I've lived half of my life~Now what?" That is of course, if I am lucky enough to live to the ripe old age of 80. If they are quality years, sure I'll...
Posted by Heather on Tue, 05 Feb 2008 08:17:00 PST

Need A Sixx Fixx??

Sixx was born Frank Carlton Serafina Feranna Jr. on December 11, 1958 in San Jose, California. He was raised by his single mother, Deana Haight, and her abusive boyfriend, after his father and namesa...
Posted by Heather on Mon, 14 Jan 2008 07:16:00 PST

Super Tuesday Feb 5, 2008!!

The following is a summary of states that will be voting for who will run in November on Febuary 5th.As of February 2007, eight states were scheduled to hold primary or caucus elections on Super Tuesd...
Posted by Heather on Wed, 09 Jan 2008 11:06:00 PST

Stop putting bandaids on the problem!

Some may view Hillary Clinton's emotional testimony in regard to the caucus outcome in Iowa as weak, but many of us can appreciate the true, genuine "human" side which comes through making her al...
Posted by Heather on Tue, 08 Jan 2008 07:57:00 PST

Rock the vote!

Regardless of how you stand in your political realm, whether it be Republican, Democrate, or independant~~ get out and vote!! Be a part of the change we need in this country and help make it happen. I...
Posted by Heather on Tue, 08 Jan 2008 06:47:00 PST