I am a lifestyle switch, BDSM educator, professional dominant and "Sacred Intimate" with many years of experience in a wide array of BDSM lifestyle and "scene play" activities. Yes, I am a very "kinky girl" and proud of it!
I am also a very complex woman that enjoys a fabulously wide array of other interests both in and out of "the Scene". I am fascinated by the delicious balance of Yin and Yang energies that make the Universe such an amazing place to inhabit and explore. As I learn more about Taoist practices, I am discovering that I keenly interested and becoming more attuned to how these complimentary yet opposing forces play out between myself and others, especially in sexual relationships.
This may help to explain my love of the Hindu and Indian Dieties on this page. Shiva represents to me, that "eternal masculine consciousness" that can be present and undisturbed in the face of feminine chaos. He is sexy in his deliberate calm demeanor, focussed and creative, intellectual yet powerful and virile.
Just as the feminine nature is to shift and move with her emotions, his concorts, the many faces of the Goddess vary with the legends. I see parts of all of them with in me.
Kali - fierce, powerful and at times wrathful and cruel. She is the dark feminine Goddess of destruction. Parvati - who so adored him that she devoted herself to proving her love and thereby being permitted to serve him. Shakti - sensual and loving, well known for her association with all things sexual. There are many other faces of the Goddess of course, and if you are lucky, you shall meet them all in your lifetime and each one will serve you well in all her own way.
My special interests and talents (both as a top and as a bottom) include sensual sadism, especially the skilled use of single tails, canes, needles, geni / nipple torture and other delightfully painful activities.
I love ecstatic suffering. Willingly surrendering your / myself to feed the sadistic demons that dwell with in a trusted partner, to explore the darkest places that live in each of us with out fear and shame, to lustfully and lovingly embrace your monsters to me is one of the greatest gifts two people can offer one another.
I am also an avid bondage enthusiast (again top & bottom)and while I do LOVE tightly confining leather gear nothing compares to rope for me! Ohhh I just can't get enough of incredibly detailed decorative rope work, tight confining bands of hemp on flesh especially japanese shibari style, suspension and wicked predicament bondages.
I have one very special friend in my life that has taught me more about the joys of surrendering to another in rope in the last year, than I had ever imagined before. Thank you "Mac" and I love to be "high" in your hemp.
Shibaricon is my favrotite event of the year and I look forward to sharing rope space with my fellows enthusiasts every Memorial Day weekend. Check them out: Shibaricon
Here is a sample of one of my favorite ties and my own first efforts at erotic photography:
I have a house full of extremely well equipped playrooms and probably a hell of a lot more equipment than I actually have room for some days but that sure doesn't keep me away from shopping!! (ha ha I LOVE to shop but then that is a very feminine trait isn't it?)
This photo is of one of my favorite rooms that I call "My Temple Space"
