Zahava az-Zahra

Thank you for being part of my life.....ARE YOU A REASON, A SEASON, OR A LIFETIME? People always come into your life for a reason, a season and a lifetime. When you figure out which it is, you know exactly what to do. *******************************************************When someone is in your life for a REASON, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed outwardly or inwardly. They have come to assist you through a difficulty, or to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally, or even spiritually. They may seem like a godsend to you, and they are. They are there for a reason, you need them to be. Then, without any wrong doing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, Sometimes they just walk away. Sometimes they act up or out and force you to take a stand. What we must realize is that our need has been met, our desire fulfilled; their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and it is now time to move on. ***********************************************************W hen people come into your life for a SEASON, it is because your turn has come to share, grow, or learn. They may bring you an experience of peace or make you laugh. They may teach you something you have never done. They usually give you an unbelievable amount of joy. Believe it! It is real! But, only for a season. And like Spring turns to Summer and Summer to Fall, the season eventually ends. ***********************************************************L IFETIME, relationships teach you a lifetime of lessons; those things you must build upon in order to have a solid emotional foundation. Your job is to accept the lesson, love the person/people (anyway);, and put what you have learned to use in all other relationships and areas in your life. It is said that love is blind but friendship is clairvoyant. ***********************************************************Â © BRIAN ANDREW "DREW" CHALKER Used with permission of the author And there IS a story behind this. I am waiting to hear the story.

My score on The LONG Scientific Personality Test :

ISFP - the Composer
(You scored 45% I to E, 52% N to S, 42% F to T, and 52% J to P!)

Your type is best described by the single word "composer", which belongs to the larger group, experiencers. You are very in touch with the physical world, and have an eye for detail. You are likely to be very artistic in some form or another. You don't wish to lead at all. Your attitude is very much "live and let live" to the point that others may have accused you of having no opinions or ambitions. You share your personality type with 10% of the population. As a romantic partner, you are nuturing and supportive, often putting your partner's needs before your own. You struggle when you feel anger or resentment, because the last thing you want to do is engage in confrontation. You need patience, support, and encouragement to discuss problems in constructive ways (as opposed to not at all.) You want a deep and intimate connection with your partner. You feel most appreciated when your partner is grateful for your thoughtfulness and willingness to help. You most want your partner to reciprocate with spontaneous thoughtful acts to show you how important you are to them. Your group summary: experiencers (SP) Your Type Summary: ISFP

Link: The LONG Scientific Personality Test

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Your result for The Quick & Painless ENNEAGRAM Test...

7 - the Adventurer

you chose AX - your Enneagram type is SEVEN (aka "The Enthusiast").

"I am happy and open to new things"
Adventurers are energetic, lively, and optimistic. They want to contribute to the world.

How to Get Along with Me

Give me companionship, affection, and freedom.Engage with me in stimulating conversation and laughter.Appreciate my grand visions and listen to my stories.Don't try to change my style. Accept me the way I am.Be responsible for youself. I dislike clingy or needy people.Don't tell me what to do.

What I Like About Being a SEVEN

being optimistic and not letting life's troubles get me downbeing spontaneous and free-spiritedbeing generous and trying to make the world a better placehaving the guts to take risks and to try exciting adventureshaving such varied interests and abilities

What's Hard About Being a SEVEN

not having enough time to do all the things I want

not completing things I start

not being able to profit from the benefits that come from specializing; not making a commitment to a career

having a tendency to be ungrounded; getting lost in plans or fantasies

The Enneagram Made Easy
Discover the 9 Types of People
Harper SanFrancisco, 1994, 161 pagesyou wanna know MORE?
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Your result for The Five Love Languages Test...

Quality Time

Quality time is more than mere proximity. It’s about focusing all your energy on your mate. A husband watching sports while talking to his wife is NOT quality time. Unless all of your attention is focused on your mate, even an intimate dinner for two can come and go without a minute of quality time being shared.

Quality conversation is very important in a healthy relationship. It involves sharing experiences, thoughts, feelings and desires in a friendly, uninterrupted context. A good mate will not only listen, but offer advice and respond to assure their mate they are truly listening. Many mates don’t expect you to solve their problems. They need a sympathetic listener.

An important aspect of quality conversation is self-revelation. In order for you to communicate with your mate, you must also be in tune with your inner emotions. It is only when you understand your emotions and inner feelings will you then be able to share quality conversation, and quality time with your mate.

Quality activities are a very important part of quality time. Many mates feel most loved when they spend physical time together, doing activities that they love to do. Spending time together will bring a couple closer, and, in the years to come, will fill up a memory bank that you can reminisce about in the future. Whether it’s sitting on the couch and having a brief conversation or playing together in a tennis league, quality time is a love language that is shared by many. Setting aside focused time with your mate will ensure a happy marriage.

Note: This description came from www.fivelovelanguages.com

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