Lola

I'd like to meet:

nataliedee. com

Music:

Pretty much all of it.

Occasional cowbell player.

Movies:

I've seen this movie at least a hundred times!

Television:

Books:

Mostly Dr. Seuss, Clifford the Big Red Dog, Arthur, etc. My four-year old loves to read stories.
LOVE
I define love thus: The will to extend one's self for the purpose of nurturing one's own or another's spiritual growth.
EVIL
"There really are people and institutions made up of people, who respond with hatred in the presence of goodness and would destroy the good insofar as it is in their power to do so. They do this not with conscious malice but blindly, lacking awareness of their own evil---indeed, seeking to avoid any such awareness. As has been described of the devil in religious literature, they hate the light and instinctively will do anything to avoid it, including attempting to extinguish it. They will destroy the light in their own children and in all other beings subject to their power.
Evil people hate the light because it reveals themselves to themselves. They hate goodness because it reveals their badness; they hate love because it reveals their laziness. They will destroy the light, the goodness, the love in order to avoid the pain of such self-awareness. My second conclusion, then, is that evil is laziness carried to its ultimate, extraordinary extreme. As I have defined it, love is the antithesis of laziness. Ordinary laziness is a passive failure to love. Some ordinarily lazy people may not lift a finger to extend themselves unless they are compelled to do so. Their being is a manifestation of non love; still, they are not evil. Truly evil people, on the other hand, actively rather than passively avoid extending themselves. They will take any action in their power to protect their own laziness, to preserve the integrity of their sick self. Rather than nurturing others, they will actually destroy others in this cause. If necessary, they will even kill to escape the pain of their own spiritual growth. As the integrity of their sick self is threatened by the spiritual health of those around them, they will seek by all manner of means to crush and demolish the spiritual health that may exist near them. I define evil, then, as the exercise of political power---that is, the imposition of ones will upon others by overt or covert coercion---in order to avoid extending one’s self for the purpose of nurturing spiritual growth. Ordinary laziness is non love; evil is anti love."
--M. Scott Peck, from "The Road Less Traveled"