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Tom

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About Me

I like trying to understand things, and I like things that I can't understand. I make my living growing and cutting trees, but consider myself an environmentalist (a lot moreso than some of the folks that give me hell about cutting trees). I keep a baseball glove in the tool-box in case my nephew, or anybody else wants to throw. I like early mornings. I like the smell of wood smoke and the sound of dry oak popping in the fireplace. I like the sound of a turkey gobble just before daybreak. I like listening to a four-year-old tell a story. I like people who smile and laugh easily and often. Depending on your point of view I have a horrible or wonderful accent. I admire people who aren't very self-conscious, because I think I'm a little too much. I like to talk to people who lead entirely different lives than me. I like people who ask questions and listen to the answer. I like to hear somebody bitch if they're creative with it. I think I'm a pretty good listener. I can't sit still long unless I've got a book, or am up a tree. I'm kind of anal about being on time myself, but don't mind waiting on somebody else. I'm lousy around the stove and OK at the grill. I am continually pissed that I don't retain more of what I'm reading, but I've got a head full of song lyrics, movie quotes and Andy Griffith trivia. I like e-mails that end with -m-.

My Interests

Music, mostly listening, but I play just enough to entertain myself. Hunting, fishing, just being outside, astronomy - I don't really know anything about it (I can usually find Orion, and on a really good night Polaris) but it interests the hell out of me, raquetball, history. How stuff works. I've recently come to the conclusion that I must have ADD (when I was little they just called it BAD), I've got 2 banjos and a guitar laying around the house I haven't seriously picked up in several months, and I want a mandolin; half a dozen books with dog-eared pages where I stopped reading to attend to something else. In short, I'm familar with alot, and expert at nothing.

I'd like to meet:

Bela Fleck - for a free lesson, John Prine - to drink a a beer and write a song with. Tom Kelly to sit in front of a fire sipping bourbon and talking about Cherrybark Oak and turkeys. People with a good sense of humor and the absurd. But not so cynical that they can't still enjoy life. People that can suddenly become fascinated by something they've walked past a hundred times without giving a thought to, or at least don't mind people who do. People who can fix traffic tickets for me (I'm actually getting better on that one lately. ***1/15/06 UPDATE: 81 in a 65 on I-85). People who like language (even though I don't use it particulary well). Anybody that likes being outside just for being outside.

Music:

Bela Fleck,with or without the Flecktones (jazz, bluegrass, funk, rock, some latin and far east rhythms, what more do you need? Ok maybe some lyrics would be nice, but thats what Prine's for) , Victor Wooten, Uncle Tupelo, Blues Traveler, Keb Mo, Blue Dogs, New Grass Revival, Sam Bush, Robert Earl Keene, Son Volt, Strength in Numbers, Hank Williiams, Ralph Stanley, Earl Scruggs, John Prine, Lyle Lovett, Jerry Douglas, Michelle Shocked, Branford Marsalis, Hank Williams, Jr., Johnny Cash, Waylon Jennings, Merle Haggard, The Bottle Rockets, Darius Rucker, The Allman Brothers, Doc Watson, Lynrd Skynrd, Charlie Parker, Jewel, Van Morrison, Wilco, Tony Rice, Dreadful Snakes, Roy (Future Man) Wooten, Emmy Lou Harris, Mark O'Connor, Irish/Scottish/Celtic Music - paritculary the fiddle tunes and jigs - for anybody around Lower NC or Upper SC there's a great program on FM 88.7. WNCW on Sunday afternoons, Spin Doctors, Charlie Daniels, The Marshall Tucker Band, Robert Johnson, Drink Small (live), Widespread Panic, Cowboy Mouth, John Mellencamp, Steve Earle

Movies:

Jerimiah Johnson,The Outlaw Josey Whales, The Long Riders, Shawshank Redemption, Chasing Amy, Braveheart, Fight Club, Rounders, A Beautiful Mind, Gladiator, The Sting, Butch Cassidy and the Sundance Kid, High Fidelity, The Negotiator, Pulp Fiction, Basic (pretty much anything where Samuel L. Jackson gets pissed off),Phenomenon, Serendipity, Rob Roy, Saving Private Ryan, The Sixth Sense, the first Die Hard, Blazing Saddles, Waterboy, About Last Night, Rooster Cogburn, Good Will Hunting, Field of Dreams, Bull Durham, Glory

Television:

The History Channel, The Discovery Channel, The Weather Channel, Austin City Limits, Lonesome Pine Specials (don't think it comes on anymore), Monty Python, My Name is Earl, Football,

Books:

A Sand County Almanac, The Tenth Legion, Better on a Rising Tide, Physics for the Rest of Us, The Road to Yorktown, The Education of Little Tree, Treasure Island, The Woods and Wild Things I Remember. I like commentary writers, and would subscribe to Sports Illustrated just for Steve Rushin's weekly musings. If you ask me I'll say I don't like novels much, which isn't exactly true; what I don't like is the way a good one can take over my life until I've finished it.

Heroes:

My folks, Pat Tilman - gave up a multi-million dollar NFL contract to join the army with his brother, Aldo Leopold - see A Sand County Almanac in books - came up with the idea of a land ethic that pops out of my subconscious alot while I'm working.

My Blog

The end of the love affair

I've definitely fallen out of love, in fact I don't think its an exaggeration to say I hate her. Yet I find myself reaching for her at all hours of the day and night. In church even! No, it's not some...
Posted by Tom on Sat, 25 Mar 2006 02:35:00 PST

Weird hair day in Charleston

I had no intention of writing about this because it seemed so trivial, but it has popped, uninvited, into mind my mind so often the last two weeks, and made me smile every time; that I thought I'd put...
Posted by Tom on Fri, 17 Feb 2006 08:31:00 PST

Apricot Brandy and talking in the dark

If the alarm's screaming for me to drag my feet from under a warm blanket and hit the cold pine floor before 4 AM, its gotta be duck season. I've been hunting with the same few guys for as long as I c...
Posted by Tom on Mon, 09 Jan 2006 05:34:00 PST

Hitchhikers and Resolutions

Among my many detrimental habits, none of which I resolved to give up, the one that is most curious to me is picking up hitchhikers. This thought occured to me Sunday morning as I left the Waffle Hous...
Posted by Tom on Tue, 03 Jan 2006 07:30:00 PST