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amy

Music is the time that is not on our side

About Me

Pretty shy and interior, and often misunderstood for that, so I'm constantly working on it (sometimes resentfully so). I think people are at their most truthful when they are thrown off and don't immediately fight that; there's nothing like the camraderie of a bunch of open-minded, open-hearted people undergoing new experiences together. I love learning and would like networking more if more people approached the latter as the former...I guess this is where my personal responsibility to embody my ideals comes in. Prefer a great deal of alone time to work on projects of the prose, essay, (um...dissertation), and music writing sort. You'll often find me getting on my high horse about empathy: if everyone embraced this just a little bit more in their actions, we would have better self-esteem, better relationships, more accountability in social theory, and better government. "Adult" responsibilities don't have to revolve around the shoving of vulnerability into a closet, only to be trotted out at reunions, funerals, and the privacy of one's bedroom (if even then). I especially admire the bravery of those who see their visions through, whose worlds remain steadfastly passionate and awe-stricken.

My Interests

I'd like to meet:

In another life: Buckminster Fuller, Michel Foucault, Paul Ricoeur, Hans-Georg Gadamer, Dominic Caputo (my great-great grandfather), Amy Thomson (my aunt's first-born daughter), Emily Dickinson, Victor Turner, Bill Hicks. In this one: Tori Amos, Paul Williams, Jessica Harper (10/3/05, West Hollywood Book Fair!!!!), Peter Gabriel (it may happen!), Rufus Wainwright (for real...not at a Border's in-store signing!), Grace Llewellyn, Pema Chodron, Enrique Dussel, Miranda July, Catherine Breillat, Sofia Coppolla, Pedro Almodovar, Jamie Kennedy, Sarah Polley, Bjork, Elizabeth Dodson Gray, Natalie Goldberg, Donna Haraway, Michael Taussig, George Lipsitz, SARK, John Cameron Mitchell, Paul Giamatti (since I saw him in My Best Friend's Wedding...a TRUE fan!!!), Matt Damon, Hal Hartley, Michael C. Hall

Music:

The Beatles, Wilco, Tori Amos, Rufus Wainwright, Neil Finn, Elliot Smith, Liz Phair (1st album), The Clash, Pixies, Prince, Beck, Bjork, R.E.M., Elvis Costello, Fiona Apple, Le Mystère des Voix Bulgares, Kid Cholera, Dru Lupkey, Keith and The Complications, M.I.A., Melissa Morales, Garifuna music, Serge Gainsbourg, Shakira, Oslo, Jeff Buckley, Velvet Underground, Peter Gabriel, Peaches, U2, Simon and Garfunkel, SuperDevoiche, Iddi Saaka, Tears For Fears, Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan, Yeah Yeah Yeahs, Radiohead, Low, Massive Attack, DJ Shadow, Milton Nascimento, Iarla Ó Lionáird, PJ Harvey, Derrick Spiva Jr., The Arcade Fire, The Jesus Lizard, Anthony McCann, Tzvetanka Varimezova, Kate Bush, Joy Division, Split Enz, Spiritualized, Michael Andrews, VOCO, C Sharp, Jon Brion, The Bad Plus

Movies:

Phantom of the Paradise, The Shawshank Redemption, Henry Fool, Singles, Say Anything, High Fidelity, 2001: A Space Odyssey, Memento, Sideways, Better Off Dead, Breaking the Waves, Quiz Show, Guinevere, Lost in Translation, A Night at the Opera, Grease, Talk To Her, Me and You and Everyone We Know, The English Patient, Stuck On You, Good Will Hunting, Harold and Maude, Harold and Kumar Go to White Castle, Garden State, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Rushmore, Dogville, American Beauty, Amelie, Romance, House of Sand and Fog, Orlando, Hedwig and the Angry Inch, Max Dugan Returns, The Ruling Class, Brokeback Mountain, Rosemary's Baby, Dogma, Happy Gilmore, Deathtrap, Grace Of My Heart

Television:

Rhoda, Will and Grace, Six Feet Under, Sex and the City, Dave Chappelle Show, Charlie Rose, Good Neighbours, Dexter

Books:

Another Roadside Attraction (Tom Robbins), A Heartbreaking Work of Staggering Genius (Dave Eggers), Jitterbug Perfume (Robbins), Time and Narrative (Paul Ricoeur), Stranger in a Strange Land (Robert Heinlein), Truth and Method (Hans-Georg Gadamer), Blubber (Judy Blume), A Short History of the Movies (Gerald Mast), The Teenage Liberation Handbook (Grace Llewellyn), Writing Down the Bones (Natalie Goldberg), When Things Fall Apart (Pema Chodron), Green Paradise Lost (Elizabeth Dodson Gray), The Two Milpas of Chan Kom (Alicia Re Cruz), The Time Traveler's Wife (Audrey Niffenegger)

My Blog

To know and keep true love...

My friend recently posted this excerpt (by an author I love!) on the blog for his infinitely recommendable website (www.craftinggentleness.org).  Hope it is helpful in some way... "No matter ho...
Posted by amy on Mon, 05 Mar 2007 04:47:00 PST

women in trouble

So much work left to do toward empowerment in this country. People watch rapt as fame addicts revise their bodies according to the latest trends ("how far will they go?"). Bourgeois liberals hunker do...
Posted by amy on Sun, 11 Feb 2007 06:32:00 PST

fakery as a way of life

I have a g-mail account, so I have to contend with those sidelinks that respond to e-mail content (amusing results, disturbing implications).  For one of my recent e-mails, a link read "Be A Fasc...
Posted by amy on Fri, 15 Sep 2006 08:52:00 PST

On leaving

(I just came across the following blurb that I wrote about this time 9 years ago...) Leaving a person for any length of time represents a break in a configuration...the cadence of an established tona...
Posted by amy on Sat, 08 Jul 2006 11:41:00 PST

the western philosophical tradition

The reason why renowned western philosophers were able to spend so much time and detail constructing their theories, publishing volume after volume, rests upon the denial of the luxuries of time and s...
Posted by amy on Tue, 17 Jan 2006 05:37:00 PST