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.::Just Being Lil::.

I Keep That "S" on Ma Chest....

About Me



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My Interests

GOD, MUSIC, WRITING, POETRY, SHORT STORIES, AFRICAN LITERATURE, DANCE, FASHION, DESIGN, HOME & INTERIOR DESIGN, COOKING, EVENT COORDINATION, TELEVISION, MOVIES, FILM.... THE LIST GOES ON.

I'd like to meet:

About me... Not sure what to say, because sometimes I think I have me figured out, and then I realize that I really don't. I was born and raised in New York to parents from Ghana, West Africa. I am proud that I am able to embrace both ethnicities, and I feel extremely privileged about it. Honesty and sincerity are so very important to me; I do my very best to practice and live both DAILY. I am a very sensitive, hard working, and passionate woman. Also a divorced single mother of a teenaged son, Christian. He is my saving grace and the love of my life. I TRULY love God, and my walk with him is a continuous struggle. I don't understand why and how life can be so cruel and challenging even when you strive your best to live right and be sincere... I don't get it. I am passionate about writing, music, film, and television. I LOVE literature, and if it were a perfect world, I would finish up my PhD, and start making my films. I am a writer, I have started a novel (STRADDLIN',) completed two books of short stories - one African (AWAITING FATE AND OTHER TALKING TEXTS,) and one African-American (THAT'S WHAT'S UP AND OTHER STORIES.) I am also about to publish a book of poetry entitled, RAIN LOVE POEMS & PORTRAITS. I believe that it is an amazing piece of work and certain that it will touch many lives. Music seems to also be a very big part of my life – it is woven in and out of the fabric of my existence, and every mile stone that I have encountered. I used to be a college professor of Literature & English for close to six years - this was probably one of the most fulfilling journies of my life. I am also the CEO of Princess Productions & Consulting, a small company that hopes to make it's mark in the production world soon... I am a dreamer, and although I have not been lucky in love, I still believe strongly in it - I WILL NEVER GIVE UP ON LOVE. Finally, I want to keep writing and I hope to make films and TV shows one day soon. Working for BET over the last several years has inspired my love for TV & film. I love people, but tend to be quiet at times because I am a deep thinker. My hope is that life will get better, and that my latter will be GREATER than my past. I will keep striving, holding on to God, and keep working really, really hard – that’s about all I can do – God has the rest :)

OTHER POETS, WRITERS, PRODUCERS, AND INDIVIDUALS THAT ARE PASSIONATE ABOUT LIFE AND THE ARTS - I'D LOVE TO MEET TO MEET YOU!HAVE A VOICE AND BE HEARD - REGISTER AND PLEASE GET OUT & VOTE!!!HERE'S TO CHANGE IN '08...

Music:

R&B, GOSPEL, HIP HOP, OLDIES, NEO SOUL, POP, AND SOME HIGHLIFEPHOTOS FROM MY UPCOMING BOOK, RAIN LOVE POEMS & PORTRAITS


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Movies:

DREAM GIRLS, TSOTSI, WHY DID I GET MARRIED, ALL OF TYLER PERRY, WAITING TO EXHALE, HOW STELLA GOT HER GROOVE BACK, THE DEVIL WEARS PRADA, BEST MAN, BROWN SUGAR, SOUL FOOD, LOVE JONES,GHANA & NIGERIAN FILMS...

Television:

DESPERATE HOUSEWIVES, BROTHERS & SISTERS, UGLY BETTY, GREY'S ANATOMY, BIGGEST LOSER, BET AWARDS SHOW, PYSCH, MONK, THE GAME, KEYSHIA COLE, ETC...

Books:

RAIN LOVE POEMS & PORTRAITS (Lilian Blankson,)STRADDLIN' (Lilian Blankson,) THAT'S WHAT'S UP AND OTHER STORIES (Lilian Blankson,) AWAITING FATE & OTHER TALKING TEXTS (Lilian Blankson,)THE COLDEST WINTER EVER (Sister Souljah,)ALL OF:ERIC JEROME DICKEY, TERRY MCMILLAN, EDWIDGE DANTICAT, MARIAMA BA, BUCHI EMECHETA, FLORA NAWAPA, AMA ATA AIDOO

Heroes:

JESUS CHRIST - MY SAVIOR, MY PARENTS, MY SON, CHRISTIAN AND MY COUSIN/ANGEL/BROTHER NENE OFUATEY-KODJOE (4/26/69 - 3/27/05 - RIP FOREVER.)

My Blog

A Poem Honoring Me By My Beautiful Friend Gene...

This poem was written in honor of me, by my beautiful My Space Friend, Gene.  Please check out his page and read his poems - he wrote over ONE THOUSAND last year making him in my eyes, short of A...
Posted by .::Just Being Lil::. on Sat, 01 Mar 2008 08:04:00 PST

BE INSPIRED...

BE INSPIRED... I am borrowing the term, "Be Inspired," from BET's Black History Month campaign.  I was honored to write and co-produce all the historical mini-biographies that will appear o...
Posted by .::Just Being Lil::. on Sat, 09 Feb 2008 09:29:00 PST

For the Ladies - If A Man Wants You...

REPOST FROM A GREAT FRIEND!!! IF A MAN WANTS YOU If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior. Allow...
Posted by .::Just Being Lil::. on Sun, 09 Dec 2007 10:32:00 PST

Poem - SHINE

Shine ... Months of suffocating in anguish  refuge, deliberately unattainable - and each time he would pass me by, I was taunted by the memory of his infidelity. Being a convenience was not initially...
Posted by .::Just Being Lil::. on Thu, 29 Nov 2007 03:04:00 PST

Poem - INGREDIENTS

Ingredients... After years of searching I have not found him  the brotha who is man enough to allow me to be a woman knowing that although I can take care of me, I will still depend on him to take ca...
Posted by .::Just Being Lil::. on Thu, 29 Nov 2007 01:19:00 PST

Poem - SONG

Song... Permit me to love you  iron out creases from past disappointments  delete every seductress that has betrayed trust from the memory bank of your yearning heart. Allow me to kiss away fears, d...
Posted by .::Just Being Lil::. on Thu, 29 Nov 2007 01:17:00 PST

Poem - STORM

Storm... Raindrops sputter from the heavens - beating the ground in misery like the tepid tears gliding steadily down my bosom  stinging as they trace their way to a dreary surface below. Clouds dar...
Posted by .::Just Being Lil::. on Thu, 29 Nov 2007 01:14:00 PST

Poem - CLING

Cling... The days go by as steadily as the clock on the mantel ticks, and passionately I try to forget him  erasing longing and lingering episodes of our meaningful moments together. Memories and l...
Posted by .::Just Being Lil::. on Thu, 29 Nov 2007 01:08:00 PST

Poem... CHRIS

Chris... birth.   Helpless cries announce his arrival two months too soon  shortly after noon - life line binding his neck and legs barely enclosed in two palms. A true African warrior predes...
Posted by .::Just Being Lil::. on Thu, 29 Nov 2007 01:05:00 PST