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Paradise lives in my mind. I take it everywhere I go.

About Me

I AM TOO BLESSED TO BE STRESSED
"I wake up everyday now with the feelings of contentment and the knowledge that I am loved no matter what I have done in the past and no matter what mistakes I will make in the future."-Mrs. Ford"And even if you have done harm to me or said something bad about me, I hope you have a wonderful day, and hope for nothing but the best for you."-Pete Leydon Holly"Don't try to be different. Just be good. To be good is different enough."-Arthur Freed"The ability to let that which does not matter, truly slide."-Fight Club---------------------------------------------------------..
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..---------------------------------------------------------"When I lay my head on the pillow at night I can say I was a decent person today. That's when I feel beautiful."-Drew Barrymore"Thousands of candles can be lighted from a single candle, and the life of the candle will not be shortened. Happiness never decreases by being shared."-Buddha"Out beyond ideas of wrong doing and right doing, there is a field. I'll meet you there."-Rumi“Let thy food be thy medicine and thy medicine be thy food.”-Hippocrates, The Father of Modern Medicine (460-377 B.C.)Some of you might have the desire to become the Buddha of the age, Maitreya, radiating love throughout the world. Instead, just be an earthworm who knows only two words... Let go, let go, let go."Come, come, whoever you are. Wonderer, worshipper, lover of leaving. It doesn't matter. Ours is not a caravan of despair. Come, even if you have broken your vow a thousand times. Come, yet again, come, come."-Rumi"What I hope the most is that you understand, what I mean when I tell you that even though I do not know you and even though I may never meet you, laugh with you, cry with you, or kiss you, I love you. With all my heart, I love you."-V for Vendetta"Love is life. All, everything that I understand, I understand only because I love. Everything is, everything exists, only because I love. Everything is united by it alone. Love is God, and to die means that I, a particle of love, shall return to the general and eternal source."-Leo Tolstoy"Habit is stronger than reason."-George Santayana"You don't need no reason or a three piece suit, to argue the truth."-Brett Dennen"And who ever said that life is suffering, I think that they had their finger on the pulse of joy. Isn't the power of transcendence, the greatest one that we can employ?"-Ani DiFranco"There are only two ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle.-Albert Einstein"All beings tremble before violence. All fear death. All love life."-Buddha"Hating people is like burning down your own house to get rid of a rat."-H. E. Fosdick"Like the ants have nothing to do but dig all day, I have nothing to do but do what I want and be kind and remain nevertheless uninfluenced by imaginary judgments and pray for the light."-J.K."Being Vegan isn't about being perfect or pure, it's about reducing suffering."-Vegan Outreach"If I had nothing, I'd give you half."-Susan Newsome"In the end, does it really matter? ... We are only symbols and signposts. What matters is compassion, kindness, taking ourselves less seriously, and waking up to the gift of life in each passing moment."-The Way of the Peaceful Warrior"Peace is not something you wish for; it's something you make, something you do, something you are, something you give away."-Robert Fulghum"Smile... Because you can."-Christian Davis"When I do good, I feel good, when I do bad, I feel bad, and that is my religion."-Abraham Lincoln"And I don't always feel lucky, but I'm smart enough to try, because humility has buoyancy, and above us only sky."-Ani DiFranco"Love is my religion."-Dalai Lama"The only thing worth holding onto is each other."-Katherine HepburneDESIDERATA
Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence.
As far as possible, without surrender, be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly, and listen to others, even the dull and ignorant; they, too have their story. Avoid loud and aggressive persons; they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans. Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing fortunes of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism. Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass. Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond a wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself. You are a child of the universe; no less than the trees and the stars, you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore, be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labors and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life, keep peace with your soul. With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be careful. Strive to be happy.

-Max Ehrmann
1872-1945

---------------------------------------------------------Promise yourself:To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet. To make all your friends feel that there is something of value in them. To look at the sunny side of everything and make your optimism come true. To think only the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best. To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own. To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future. To wear a cheerful countenance at all times and give every living creature you meet a smile. To give so much time to the improvement of yourself that you have no time to criticize others. To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit presence of trouble.-C.D. Larson---------------------------------------------------------

My Interests

World Peace. Inner Peace. Peace of Mind. Human Liberation. Animal Liberation.Charlie Kaufman: There was this time in high school. I was watching you out the library window. You were talking to Sarah Marsh.Donald Kaufman: Oh, God. I was so in love with her.Charlie Kaufman: I know. And you were flirting with her. And she was really sweet to you.Donald Kaufman: I remember that.Charlie Kaufman: Then, when you walked away, she started making fun of you with Kim Canetti. It was like they were making fun of *me*. You didn't know at all. You seemed so happy.Donald Kaufman: I knew. I heard them.Charlie Kaufman: How come you looked so happy?Donald Kaufman: I loved Sarah, Charles. It was mine, that love. I owned it. Even Sarah didn't have the right to take it away. I can love whoever I want.Charlie Kaufman: She thought you were pathetic.Donald Kaufman: That was her business, not mine. -- You are what you love, not what loves you. That's what I decided a long time ago."To tell you the truth, it's really none of my business what you think of me."-Jasmin Free"I will not follow because you tell me to and I will not agree with things that I don't believe and I demand the right to raise my voice in protest and I will tell you exactly what I see."-Rachael Brady"What's so radical about loving the earth? What's so radical about knowing your worth? What's so radical about wanting a better day, a better way?"-Rachael BradyLifeDeathUnreasonable HappinessEnthusiasmThe Hidden Gifts of AdversityThe OceanBeing Right Here Right NowPositive ImagingExpanding Self WorthOvercoming AddictionsForgivenessComplete HonestyRaw VeganismSustainable LivingHealing--- --- Unconditional Love SpiritualitySexualityReciprocityLetting GoWaking UpIHaveLearnedSo much from GodThat I can no longerCall MyselfA Christian, a Hindu, a Muslim,A Buddhist, a Jew.The Truth has shared so much of ItselfWith meThat I can no longer call myselfA man, a woman, an angelOr even pureSoul.Love hasBefriended [ME] so completelyIt has turned to ashAnd freedMeOf every concept and imageMy mind has ever known.-HafiBy the power and the truth of this practice,May all beings have happiness, and the causes of happiness.May all be free from sorrow, and the causes of sorrow.May all never be separated from the sacred happinesswhich is sorrowless.And may all live in equanimity,without too much attachment and too much aversion,And live believing in the equality of all that lives.May all beings be filled with joy and peace.May all beings everywhere,The strong and the weak,The great and the small,The mean and the powerful,The short and the long,the subtle and the gross:May all beings everywhere,Seen and unseen,Dwelling far off or nearby,Being or waiting to become:May all be filled with lasting joy.Let no one deceive another,Let no one anywhere despise another,Let no one out of anger or resentmentWish suffering on anyone at all.Just as a mother with her own lifeProtects her child, her only child, from harm,So within yourself let growA boundless love for all creatures.Let your love flow outward through the universe,To its height, its depth, its broad extent,A limitless love, without hatred or enmity.Then as you stand or walk,Sit or lie down,As long as you are awake,Strive for this with a one-pointed mind;Your life will bring heaven to earth.-BuddhaFear less, hope more;Eat less, chew more;Whine less, breathe more;Talk less, say more;Love more, and all good things will be yours.-Swedish Proverb"I never saw a wild thing sorry for itself. A small bird will drop frozen dead from a bough... without ever having felt sorry for itself." -D.H. Lawrence

I'd like to meet:

---------------------------------------------------------To learn about the picture below, click here.Please note: I am not on this website to get any dates, or in fact, to find any other sort of romantic relationship. I am very in love with a wonderful man who also happens to be my husband. However, I am very much a social butterfly, and do enjoy stimulating conversation with many. I put a privacy setting on my profile, not because I don't want to be your friend, but because I only wish to be friends with people who are interested enough to send me a message. So, if it strikes your fancy, message me!--------------------------------------------------------- okay, but seriously :)---------------------------------------------------------F ree spirits. People who are looking to evolve. People who aren't afraid of non-sexual intimacy, people who love life, those who seek meaning and personal growth, dreamers, truth seekers, spiritual people, peaceful warriors, hippies, revolutionaries, radicals, people who live within their means, healers, lovers... :)You. People who care. Let's do lunch and fix some shit!Someone who believes that the earth and its inhabitants are more beautiful than we could ever truly understand.------------------------------------------------- --------Click Here to Visit:
---------------------------------------------------------Let me tell you about the best thing in my life. His name is Jander and I am so excited that in less than a year I will be his wife. The following video is on my profile because of him.Jay, you are my love, and my light.

Music:

What do you like? Introduce me to something new.Ani DiFranco, Rachael Brady, Ben Folds, Ben Lee, Jars of Clay, Bjork, Amy Steinberg, Christian Davis, Lifehouse, Weaksauce, Journey, Tori Amos, Tracy Chapmin, Tim McGraw, Dixie Chicks, James Blunt...

Movies:

--------------------------------------------------------- Independent media in a time of war.

---------------------------------------------------------Prepared to be scared? This will make you think...America: Freedom to Fascism
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The Documentary "Earthlings"

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Click here to see a larger screen.----------------------------------------------------- ----What's your favorite movie? Watch it with me.I really enjoy mostly documentaries. I like watching something that will open my eyes and shift me out of my comfort zone (in a positive way). I enjoy watching things that will help me become a more educated, aware and compassionate person.To name a few: Sicko, An Inconvenient Truth, McLibel, America: from Freedom to Facism... I also occasionally watch an actual movie. Some of my favorites are: Into the Wild, Stranger than Fiction, Fight Club, Powder, True Romance, Broke Down Palace, Death to Smoochy, What About Bob, American History X...

Television:

TV rots your brain. We have forgotten how to communicate."TV is the modern day Roman colosseum, as human devastation is mass entertainment..."-Ani DiFranco

Books:

---------------------------------------------------------I have found a new obsession. Books on CD! Try it, it's great. Especially if you drive a lot and don't have a lot of free time. I have come to terms with the fact that I will have a constantly growing and multiplying list of books I need to read that will never get smaller! A few of my favorites are: Japanese Foods that Heal, Healing Teas, Healthy Teas, The Tea Companion, The Way of the Peaceful Warrior, The Four Agreements, A New Earth, An Open Heart, The Journey of Socrates, The Catcher in the Rye, Love Thyself: Messages from the Water, Cunt, The Vagina Monologues...

Heroes:

You. People who are just themselves. You are good enough. Everyone is good enough.His name was Thich Quang Duc. Let us not forget him.---------------------------------------------------------My Aunt Sarah.Thank you always Auntie Sarah for expanding my heart and adding so much beauty and peace to my life. Thank you for making the world shinier. You will always be a part of me.--------------------------------------------------------- My husband.He is constantly inspiring me and opening my eyes to a love that I had only previously dreamed of. He makes me want to be a better person. He also deals with me on my worst days and encourages me to have my best days :). He's everything I've ever wanted.
Mrs. Joyful Gray's DETAILS
Status: Happily married :)
Here for: To keep in touch with old friends and to expand my tribe :)
Education: I read.
Body Type: 5'6"/ My body is a temple.
Orientation: "I've got no criteria, for sex or race, I just want to hear your voice, I just want to see your face." -Ani DiFranco
Heritage: Swedish & Irish.
Religion: "When I do good, I feel good, and when I do bad, I feel bad, and that, is my religion."
-Abraham Lincoln"My religion is very simple. My religion is kindness."
-Dalai Lama
Sign: Virgo
Children: We plan to adopt :)
Occupation: Devoted wife and determined citizen of the world.P.S. I sell tea.
Income: I live within my means (imagine that).

My Blog

dear uncle ron,

i just wanted to tell you that i hope that you’re doing well and that you aren’t hurting anymore.  i do wish that i had been able to tell you that i love you one last time, though.&nb...
Posted by P joyful girl P on Fri, 14 Mar 2008 08:55:00 PST

my hemp wedding dress!!

jander and i were on the news today!  they did a clip on the making of my hemp wedding dress :).  i’m so excited!!  just go to the link below and when you get there, click on the ...
Posted by P joyful girl P on Fri, 25 Jan 2008 07:55:00 PST

livestock eat better than many of the worlds poor.

There are fields in Africa full of grain with starving children nearby who need the grain but can’t have it because it’s shipped to the US to overfeed our cattle so Americans can have the ...
Posted by P joyful girl P on Mon, 14 Jan 2008 07:10:00 PST

one starfish at a time :)

The Starfish Story Original Story by: Loren Eisley   One day a man was walking along the beach when he noticed a boy picking something up and gently throwing it into the ocean.  Approachin...
Posted by P joyful girl P on Thu, 10 Jan 2008 08:24:00 PST

i <3 anne lamott

Ever read something that blows you away? That's what this did for me. I hope you like it as much as I do.-Joyful-------------------------------------------------- ----------------------------The Carp...
Posted by P joyful girl P on Wed, 19 Dec 2007 10:37:00 PST

* I LOVE YOU * I’M SORRY * I LOVE YOU * I’M SORRY * I LOVE YOU * I’M SORRY * I LOVE YOU

This is a re-blogging from an amazing woman I found on myspace.  Her name is Sadie and you can find out more about her here.This moved me....    This morning I read "urban deva's" blog...
Posted by P joyful girl P on Tue, 20 Nov 2007 01:59:00 PST

this is to have succeeded

"To laugh often and much;To win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children;To earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends;To appreciate beauty...
Posted by P joyful girl P on Fri, 21 Sep 2007 06:19:00 PST

no wonder our perception of beauty is distorted

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Posted by P joyful girl P on Wed, 01 Aug 2007 01:54:00 PST

an unexpected journey to kindred spirit

So Jander and I went on a way past due vacation last week. We went to Sunset Beach, North Carolina for his annual family reunion (the first one I've been to).But before I tell you about our trip, I w...
Posted by P joyful girl P on Fri, 06 Jul 2007 08:53:00 PST

he's gonna make an honest woman outta me ;-)

So here's my HUGE news...Most importantly, I'm so very in love. And... I'm engaged! To the most amazing person I have ever known. Jander Scott Gray. Yes, I'm going to be Autumn Gray :). We haven't set...
Posted by P joyful girl P on Thu, 22 Mar 2007 11:16:00 PST