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Shelly

I Could Disappear Forever and No One Would Even Notice. I May As Well Not Even Exist At This School.

About Me

I'm a 30 year old chubber who is goofy in love with her hubby. I recently became a mom and I'm blown away by the paradigm shift that has brought about in me as a person and in my life as a whole. Nothing can ever prepare you for what it feels like to love someone that completely.Outwardly, I can be quite a bitch. But once you know me, you might figure out that I'm a bleeding heart and ultra sympathetic. I'm highly emotional and passionate, which I think sometimes makes me a tough person to love. But, they're also the reason why the people who do love me REALLY love me.Despite earning my bachelor's degree in PR/Journalism at good ole Western Michigan University, then working for six years in the advertising industry, I now spend my days as a medical receptionist for six cardiothoracic and vascular surgeons. It's a busy office and I'm often times quite stressed, but it's the most rewarding job I've had thus far. In the year and a half that I've worked there I've seen things that have broken my heart (mostly our cancer patients) and things that have warmed my spirts (the little old couples who are still desperately in love after so many years.I'm a conundrum in many ways... a dreamer and a realist, a lover and a fighter, sometimes fair then highly judgemental, efficient and a procrastinator, messy but not dirty, organized and chaotic, goal oriented and living for the moment. Sun and rain, fire and ice -- a little crazy, but it's nice.

My Interests

Music, movies, reading. Recently, I've become more interested in television again after spending some time home with my newborn son. He slept a lot and I spent a lot of time watching crappy TV which I grew to love.Call me a dork if you must, but I also scrapbook, sing karaoke, and have a new-found love of playing Bingo - online and in the smoke-filled bingo halls around town. There is no greater joy to a gambler than being stared down by a leather faced, chain smoking granny when you get to raise your hand and yell bingo.I love to travel, although I haven't done much of it.I'm a cooking novice, but hope that one day I'll have the kitchen and some time to really do some ass-kicking to the tastebuds of people in my life. I'm a chubby chick who loves to eat, so learning to cook well would be a huge bonus. Baking is also high on my list of things I like to do in the kitchen.Some of my quirky interests include: window shopping, planning parties that never happen, financial planning, figuring out things that involve math, and list making.

I'd like to meet:

People who have something to offer in the way of inspiration. I don't expect a muse or a prophet, but I love to sponge up to new people and draw from their stories, experiences and interests.My relationships in the past few years have all changed dramatically and I now call very few people "friend". This makes me sad, but when I think back on people I miss I realize they all inspired me in some way. Either to be a better person or maybe just showing me some cool shit along the way.

Music:

I used to spend a lot of time trying new music and artists on for size. Then I met a boy (who later became my husband) who eats, sleeps and breathes music and that part of me went away a little.I still love to listen to music, but it's more of a passive interest these days.My collection includes all sorts of wacky shit, but to summarize I'd say I'm a big sucker for singer/songwriters like John Mayer & Howie Day. I don't like many female artists, but Tori Amos flips my switch.I like country music, but I can't name many of the artists... I just like to sing some of the songs.80s rock is a big fave and no matter how you slice it, I'll always love Bon Jovi.I'll never turn down a chance to see Mustard Plug (ska) or Richard Marx live.Depeche Mode, The Cure & REM are still large parts of my collection and I don't ever see that changing.I was a GIANT New Kids on the Block fan and I still own and proudly display all of their CDs. Even though I didn't marry Donnie Wahlberg like I planned, I'm still secretly hoping for a big reunion.Oldies ARE goodies and Elvis Presley, depsite his downfalls, was an incredibly talented performer and had a real love an appreciation for music.

Movies:

I could spend a year writing a list of all the movies I love. I'm the type that will watch the same movie 30 times and never be bored with it. Some of the tops that come to mind right now and are worth mentioning are: The Breakfast Club - which I discovered I can still quote! So, I Married an Axe Murder, Dragnet, The Outsiders, EdTV, Rounders, The Kevin Smith movies, Uncle Buck, American History X, Seven, Titanic, Up Close & Personal, Armageddon (which STILL makes me sob).

Television:

If you haven't taken the time to watch Studio 60 on The Sunset Strip do it IMMEDIATELY. It's brilliant... the best thing on TV in years as far as I'm concerned.I never watched Sex and the City when it was on, but borrowed the series from a friend last year. Watched it all the way through and LOVED, LOVED, LOVED it.I own most of the seasons of Friends.On the Food Network, I can't get enough of Rachel Ray (30 Minute Meals & $40 A Day), Paula Dean or Emeril Live.The Family Guy is HI-LARIOUS and I still really dig the Simpsons after all these years.Red Wing hockey is always entertaining.I'm not ashamed to admit that I watched a LOT of The Real Housewives of Orange County on Bravo this season. Rich people fascinate me.

Books:

I still have my collection of The Babysitter Club & Sweet Valley High books from my younger days. I hope to one day have a daughter who will cherish them as much as I did. I spent a lot of time reading as an older kid/younger teen and have gotten away from it as I got older.Currently, I'm not reading anything, but I do have two Janet Evanovich books that need my attention.I've read all of John Grisham's books and find those very entertaining.I couldn't even get started on The stupid Divinci Code.... it bored me to tears.Catcher in the Rye & Where the Sidewalk Ends are still some of my faves after all these years.I also have a lot of cookbooks that I leaf through on a regular basis and subscribe to several magazines including 3 different parenting magazines, Oprah, Budget Living, Domino, Rachel Ray's magazine and Woman's Day.

Heroes:

My mom.

My Blog

It’s hard work trying to be a good parent

Even as I type that, I realize how ridiculous it is that I should have expected anything different, really.  In truth, our jobs as parents are quite possibly the most important thing we'll ever d...
Posted by Shelly on Tue, 01 Jan 2008 09:11:00 PST

And the survey says

1) Using FOOD names, spell out your name:Sausage  Heath(bar) Eggs  Lettuce  Legume Yellow(Squash)2) What song makes you cry?Right now, Moments by Emerson Drive :(3) What do you like to ...
Posted by Shelly on Tue, 27 Nov 2007 07:40:00 PST

Scrapbook League

So I went ahead and joined a scrapbook league. A scrapbook league? What the heck is THAT? It's like a bowling league, but instead of bowling for points, you make scrapbook pages. You're on teams of fo...
Posted by Shelly on Tue, 11 Sep 2007 03:52:00 PST

If you know anything about the legal system, I could use direction

I've been a mess of emotion for the past 24 hours since hearing this story and I'm hoping to do something about it. If anyone knows a damn thing about the legal system, can you give me some advice abo...
Posted by Shelly on Mon, 09 Jul 2007 07:18:00 PST

This one does NOT go to 11

This is supposed to be 12 people, but I only have ten. So I'm modifying it... lame Go to your page and list the last ten people who have commented you. If someone has commented twice, skip to the next...
Posted by Shelly on Wed, 04 Jul 2007 05:51:00 PST

First Response

Okay this is called "FIRST REACTIONS QUIZ". You have to type the 1ST thing that comes to mind whenever you hear these 35 things. You can't think and go back and change your answers. Copy and Paste, th...
Posted by Shelly on Sun, 24 Jun 2007 11:56:00 PST

Update Time

A few things to update.... Today my nephew turned one! We attended the birthday party and it was a ton of fun. Zakk played in the pool, ran through the sprinkler, took a spin on the birthday boy's new...
Posted by Shelly on Sun, 03 Jun 2007 04:14:00 PST

My First Born

my 1st baby Here you go mommies - a different kind of survey for a change - it's all about your first born!1. WAS YOUR FIRST PREGNANCY PLANNED?Yes. Only took two planned "tries" and we hit paydirt.2. ...
Posted by Shelly on Sat, 05 May 2007 08:33:00 PST

The A-Z of me... not you

[A] - AVAILABLE:  Not even close, Bud. [B] - BIRTHDAY: September 9th... I'm a Virgo.[C] - CRUSHING?: On my son, Zakk. He's a doll.[D] - DRINK YOU LAST HAD: I'm having Diet Coke & a High Life ...
Posted by Shelly on Sat, 05 May 2007 08:07:00 PST

In the words of Troy Dyer... "I had a shitty week"

And yes, it's only Wednesday. Mom went to the hospital Monday at about noon with chest pain that wouldn't go away and stay away despite several doses of nitro. They did all sorts of tests and monitore...
Posted by Shelly on Thu, 03 May 2007 06:51:00 PST