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Heather

I am here for Friends

About Me

I am an idealist, sincere, quirky...I am a single mom whose son is my sun. I am ready to move on and finally know true love.I am reserved, yet spunky and playful. An idealist who believes in standing for my values - that if it's worth believing in, it's worth living. And my two biggest values are vegetarianism/animal rights and that sex and nudity belong in the privacy of intimacy between two committed lovers, not on the screen or page. I believe monogamy begins with the thought and is not limitted merely to the sensation of touch. I believe in our society nudity is something I wish to preserve as unique and sensual between myself and my lover alone, not to be shared with strangers in print. Yet I am not religious, although I do follow a personal concept of spirituality. I am told the only person I could date is a blind one - so does this site come in braille?I am an avid reader, like to hike, bike, ride motorcyles whenever I get the chance; swimming, horseback riding, amusement parks, bungee jumping, turn based RPG strategy games (FFT)...I am focused on the substantial aspects of life - family, a small group of good, true friends, owning responsibility for my decisions and actions as well as survival and life in general.And finally, to make my match all the harder, I made the mistake of trying to make it work with my son's dad one time too many and will have another wee one in the relatively near future as a consequence.

My Interests

reading, hiking, horseback riding, RPG tactical games. Mostly everything is interesting, but often just for spurts.

I'd like to meet:

Friends: close circle of friends. I'd also like to reacquaint myself with old friends.Lover: Ideally I'd like to meet that person, man or woman, who lives by the same beliefs I hold sacred regarding vegetarianism and sex/nudity. I'd love for the person to be compassionate and thoughtful but not over sensitive; responsible and reliable; honest and sincere; able to receive as well as give; comfortable with sensual play with me; gentle and attentive to children; follows constructive, positive discipline for children and would never spank; and tidy. But, I don't know that such a person exists. And frankly, right now I need to have my physical needs met. I believe that to focus on one aspect of the self is to be fragmented, and that therefore the whole will suffer. And I truly feel this. So I don't know if I could even have a purely physical relationship, but at this point I am also interested in meeting someone to whom I could be attracted, who would be purely monogamous and willing and able to prove that he/she is STD free. Someone who wouldn't dream of leaving me unfinished.

Music:

Beck, Lauryn Hill, Patrick Dawes "Birds & the Bees", Triplets of Belleville Rendezvous, Blossom Dearie, KCRW style

Movies:

KPax, The Mighty, anything Pixar - and yes, Harry Potter

Television:

Turn off your TV!!!

Books:

Orson Scott Card "Ender Series", "The PoisonWood Bible"