When you plant lettuce, if it does not grow well, you don't blame the lettuce. You look for reasons it is not doing well. It may need fertilizer, or more water, or less sun. You never blame the lettuce. Yet if we have problems with our friends or family, we blame the other person. But if we know how to take care of them, they will grow well, like the lettuce. Blaming has no positive effect at all, nor does trying to persuade using reason and argument. That is my experience. No blame, no reasoning, no argument, just understanding. If you understand, and you show that you understand, you can love, and the situation will change
"This is the beginning of a new day. You have been given this day to use as you will. You can waste it or use it for good. What you do today is important because you are exchanging a day of your life for it. When tomorrow comes, this day will be gone forever; in its place is something that you have left behind...let it be something good."
I love blondes (has to be bleached to the most extreme extent) with french manicures, fake tans, fake tits, expensive designer bags, you get the point, so im a bit superficial.... I really dont care about your personality (the quieter the better) as long as you make a good accessory walking around with me by my side while i run errands, go to the mall, etc. I also lie, a lot, mostly to girls, so what? big fuckin deal man.....have a pleasant day!
Oh I forgot, I also have wayyyyyy too many fakers but can you blame them GOD! I cant! look at my pecs! they're sickkkkkkkkkkkkk... p.s. everything I write on myspace is completely 100% honest and real and I take myspace VERY seriously.
so about me. ive learned disapointment is ment to happen for a reason. its makes you stronger, and if your true about something, it makes you go harder and more intimitly for it then you have ever before. i dont quit, i cant use the word i quit. i push myself, and make sure if i have a goal or ambition that it will be accomplished or i will die before i can finish it. people that doubt me or say i cant, i love and wish they we say it to me everyday because once its done, it give me more motivation to go do what they say cant be done. im starting college after a year off, to because a personal trainer/fitness coach, and train athletes. im going for athletic training and exercise science, and minoring in business, so i can own and operate my own business after im done. i workout everyday, no matter the time, the way i feel, if i didnt sleep or whats going on, because when i get there and start to work. every other thought goes away and its only me and makes me feel like no matter what nothing matters and i can overcome anything. i also snowboard, wakeboard, surf, play almost every sport, love cuddle sesssions, having someone i care about around me. i like having good friends, good people that have goals and ambitions and want to end up somewhere in life. thats who i like to surround myself with. if you dont have hope and dreams and are not going after them, your not someone i want to associate with. im always down to do anything, from laying on a rug talking about life and dreams and whatever else there is to talk about, to spur of the moment trips or random adventures to do anything. i do everything i do for me, but i also do alot for the people i surround myself with, because if your someone i care about and choose to have close to me, you mean enough to me for me to not mind doing anything for you. i figured out that after meeting someone that showed me alot, that never again will i settle for anything wether a job, my life, or a girl. im super easy to get along with, and just easy in general because i like everything, i do everything, im down for anything, and i love to make people happy. thats enough rambling and shit, so if you wanna know anything about me or just talk or whatgeva it be. get at me- haggard0101---aim, [email protected], [email protected].
