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ElaineMB

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About Me

I am Elaine. Many people know who I am, but very few know me. I have many layers, each deeper than the next.

I am passionate, loving, and easily hurt. I look for nothing but the good in others, but tend to focus on the bad in myself. I am a true perfectionist in every aspect of the word. I expect nothing short of perfection in myself and I am harder on me than anyone ever could be. I am the mother of the most perfect little boy I know. He is the best thing I have ever done and my utter pride and joy. my life is fully directed by what I feel is best for him.
My top 5 Natural Talents:
Strategic: People strong in the Strategic theme create alternative ways to proceed. Faced with any given scenario, they can quickly spot the relevant patterns and issues.


Individualization: People strong in the Individualization theme are intrigued with the unique qualities of each person. They have a gift for figuring out how people who are different can work together productively.
Achiever: People strong in the Achiever theme have a great deal of stamina and work hard. They take great satisfaction from being busy and productive.
Restorative: People strong in the Restorative theme are adept at dealing with problems. They are good at figuring out what is wrong and resolving it.
Competition: People strong in the Competition theme measure their progress against the performance of others. They strive to win first place and revel in contests.

My Interests

Interests....knowing people-who they are, who they can be, what makes them the individual they are...life, love, laughter-the L-words I work to understand.

I'd like to meet:

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Music:

Music:

I love all kinds! Love dancing to techno... I also enjoy pop, R&B, Hip Hop, Rap, Rock, Top 40, Metal (some), Country (some), Rock...everything really. Main music on my Ipod right now is Nelly Furtado, Timbaland's Shock Value, Maroon 5, Colbie Collait, Casting Crowns, ATB, DMB, Skillet, Taylor Swift, Leona Lewis, GOB, and Lincoln Park!
Here is the best description I have ever seen about trance, from Deepsky: Electronic music is the pulse of life. Evocative of all genres, yet guided by a set of dynamics and instrumentation very much its own, it shouts, whispers, pounds and breathes emotion on a level that can only be reached via the hyper-imaginative manipulation of synthesizer and drum. To maximize all levels of the sonic and emotional spectrum--to tug at the heart, challenge the mind, and inspire the body--is a feat not easily achieved in a cut and paste world fueled by instant gratification and reactionary creativity, and successfully perpetuating such magic over time poses even greater challenges. Techno:
.Tiesto
.Paul Van Dyk
.ATB
.Robert Miles
.Sylva
.Darude
.anything from Ministry of Sound
.Marc et Claud
.Iio
.Amber
.Gigi
.Alice Deejay
.Armin van Buuren
.4 Strings
.Groove Coverage
.Foggy
.Okenfold
.Mauro Picotto
.DJ Sammy
.Encore

Movies:

I love Movies!!! wow, to say which ones would be crazy cause I know I would leave tons off...but here is a taste of my varied likes: Movies:
Lord of the Rings(s)
Harry Potter(s)
Pirates(s)
Eragon
Resident Evil(s)
James Bond(s)
God Father(s)
Star War(s)
Troy
Gladiator
A Few Good Men
Pride and Prejudice
Eternal Sunshine of a Spotless Mind
Deathproof
Planet Terror
Sunlight
XMen
Equalibrium
Matrix(s)
Flags of Our Fathers
The Patriot
Fight Club
Legends of the Fall
The Sound of Music
Pearl Harbor
The Notebook
A Walk to Remember
Pitch Black
Riddick
Wrong Turn
Rose Matter
The Stand
Momento
The Departed
Braveheart
Blade(s)
Back to the Future(s)
The Last Samurai
Kingdom of Heaven
Triston and Isolde
Touristas
Children of Men
DeJa Vu
Notting Hill
Saving Private Ryan
Fight Club
Waiting
10 Things I Hate About You
I Know What You Did
Friday the 13th(s)
CandyMan(s)
Dawn of the Dead
The Stand
MILLIONS MORE!!!

Television:

Thanks to TV Links I finally have something to add here! I LOVE HEROES!!!!

Books:

Harry Potter(s), Lord of the Rings, Pride and Prejudice, Eragon, Davinci Code, Angels and Demons, Dante's Inferno, The Iliad/Odyssey, A Wrinkle in Time, anything by the King, or Koontz, Nicholas Sparks, The Message Bible, Purpose Driven Life, hmmm...I know there is a ton more, I will revisit this one
1 Corinthians 13
Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.
Love never fails. But where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. For we know in part and we prophesy in part,but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. When I was a child, I talked like a child, I thought like a child, I reasoned like a child. When I became a man, I put childish ways behind me. Now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. Now I know in part; then I shall know fully, even as I am fully known.
And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love.

Heroes:

God, My husband, my son, My grandmother and grandfather, father, Maryanne and Paul, Dr. Marshall...the people that have shaped my life and helped me become the fighter that I am..

My Blog

Contact List

Do you ever have one of those days where you are really low, and could use a friend to talk/cry to? I do more and more often it seems....and what really intensifies that is when I flip open my phone a...
Posted by ElaineMB on Tue, 11 Mar 2008 05:00:00 PST

Gender Wars

In my opinion the extreme aspects of women's liberation is what fvcked up society and marriages in general....My view: Relationships require one person to be naturally more "submissive" and one to be ...
Posted by ElaineMB on Fri, 22 Feb 2008 10:55:00 PST

Too Intense

I follow the progressionof a friendship obsessionfrom beginning to endthe demise of a friendlike trees in the windI mold with my fingersa heart not for takingan impression that lingersbut the seeds I ...
Posted by ElaineMB on Tue, 15 Jan 2008 12:25:00 PST

Internal Conflict

hot outsidefreezing withinchurning knotsburnig cold freezes sweat pre-beadI feel their twitchwanting to formdesiring releasethe body's conflict reflecting the heartheart of blood and oxygen, void of e...
Posted by ElaineMB on Thu, 10 Jan 2008 08:25:00 PST

Spiders

Spiders beside herI'm not scared awayhere with the spiderss'where I shall stayshe wants to runI want to playdance with the spidersspilling her wheyyou goI'll staystayand playthough I'm wondering what ...
Posted by ElaineMB on Thu, 10 Jan 2008 07:40:00 PST

New Years Resolution Time

1. Get in the best shape of my life2. Quit smoking for good3. Get financially stable4. Return to school5. Kiss6. Wean off Effexor7. Learn more about photography8. Smile more, stress less9. Make real l...
Posted by ElaineMB on Sun, 30 Dec 2007 09:40:00 PST

1 sentence

if perfection is a misconception, relying solely on perception, then why demand an interjection to interrupt the projection of the perceived perfection
Posted by ElaineMB on Thu, 20 Dec 2007 10:03:00 PST

Acceptance

And acceptance is the answer to all my problems today. When I am disturbed, it is because I find some person, place, thing, or situation - some fact of my life - unacceptable to me, and I can find no ...
Posted by ElaineMB on Tue, 30 Oct 2007 02:15:00 PST

Name

NameAnd even though the moment passed me byI still can't turn away'Cause all the dreams you never thought you'd loseGot tossed along the wayAnd letters that you never meant to sendGet lost or thrown a...
Posted by ElaineMB on Sun, 28 Oct 2007 04:35:00 PST

schöner Unfall

wait for it
Posted by ElaineMB on Fri, 26 Oct 2007 07:44:00 PST