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About Me

I consider myself pretty in shape and try to take care of myself physically and mentally. I don't smoke, don't do drugs, and don't really drink. My face is practically red and my eyes bloodshot after just TWO drinks. As you can see my dear friend, I have a high tolerance for alcohol. :) I'm a very giving person and devote a portion of my time volunteering to help others as well as those that I care for. Sometimes I may sacrifice my own happiness so long as I'm able to make others happy. Call it a character flaw. I'm somewhat cute (so I've been told, but it's a matter of preference), intelligent, funny, laid back, and at times sarcastic. Physically, I'm 31, 5'6 145 and Asian, if that matters at all (I hope it doesn't). I'm still not out and still coming to terms with dealing with it. Feel like I'm divulging my innermost thoughts in the expanse of this limited forum... Honestly I've never been in a serious relationship. I'm a private person. That kinda explains why I'm a torso and faceless. I hope you can respect that for now. I'm willing to take that leap, but want someone there to catch me if I fall flat on my butt. But I hope you don't judge me solely on that... I'm a tad soft-spoken and initially shy, but open up as I am more comfortable with those I'm around. Believe it or not I don't really curse either. There are better ways of insulting someone without a F*** as every other word. Cool if I could just find a friend to talk with and hang. I love to play tennis and ski, so if you do either it's a big plus. I also a huge music fan. Dig all types of music except really hard rap and heavy metal. Too hard on the ears. Pretty much like mellow music and stuff with a message. A big Coldplay fan. Not sure what it will lead to, but a friendship if anything is wanted. After the events of 9/11, the continuing war in Iraq and it's mindless killings, and the recent fires in California, one can't help but reflect on life and how anything can happen. My school of thought is to simply live life as if each day were the last....since anything can and will happen without a moment's hesitation. No regrets, no worries. No day but to day to make our mark on the unlimited possibilities that confront us each and every day.

My Interests

Skiing, tennis, river rafting, movies, theatre/live concerts, music

I'd like to meet:

Looking for friends (male or female) to hang out with and kick back with. Especially dig guys or gals with a great outlook on life and a funny personality. You don't have to be the life of the party, but just be a spark. Like to meet as friends and see how it goes.... If it does lead to something more, then I'm looking for an intelligent, passionate, athletic guy with a great sense of humor to hang out with. We would be able to complement each other. I'd be the ying to your yang (as corny as that may sound). Someone who is understanding of my faults and accepts them. I'm not perfect and don't expect perfection. Someone who's open to new adventures, whether it be traveling or some other sort of new experience. Just expect honesty, trust, and a committed friendship. Friendship is the foundation of relationships and I'd like someone who's not only my best friend, but also the love of my life. I understand that the physicality of a relationship is important, but that's not the sole basis on which one starts. Ideally you would be around my age or older, but age is only a number as they say. I try to stay be pretty active and expect the same. No couch potatoes please. Someone who will spark my imagination and a great activities partner (ie tennis, gym, musicals, movies, etc). Just be pretty fit and a great body to match. Please be a non-smoker with a zest for life. I'm normally atracted to white or latin guys with very fit bodies and clean-cut, boy next door look. I stay in shape and expect the same, if nothing else. Well, I'm just trying to be honest now. Seems kinda shallow, but I guess a physical attraction is important. However, it's only part of the whole... You can be great looking with an awesome body, but if we can't communicate then what's the point. So, above all let's be able to talk freely and relish those comfortable silences without any sense of awkwardness.

Music:

Alternative (Coldplay, U2, Five For Fighting), Top 40, Classical, Rock, Pop

Movies:

The Lord of the Rings, Minority Report, October Sky, Matrix, X-Men, The Count of Monte Cristo (1999), Amelie

Books:

Lord of the Rings, The Catcher in the Rye, To Kill a Mockingbird, Les Miserables

My Blog

Reflections...

Im not sure why Im even writing this. A letter to myself; an ode of self-reflection of a time I wish I could forget. Its my eternal sunrise of the spotless mind. Not as if anyone will read this ...
Posted by Wm on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Cannonball

Still a little bit of your taste in my mouth Still a little bit of you laced with my doubt Still a little hard to say what's going on Still a little bit of your ghost your witness Still a little...
Posted by Wm on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Hands Down

Breathe in for luck, breathe in so deep This air is blessed, you share with me This night is wild, so calm and dull These hearts they race from self-control Your legs are smooth as they graze mine...
Posted by Wm on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST

Lonelily

I gave me away I could have knocked off the evening But a lonelily landed my waltz in her hands In a way I felt you were leaving me I was sure I wouldn't find you at home And you let me down Cou...
Posted by Wm on Mon, 01 Jan 1900 12:00:00 PST