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SOFT N TENDER

JUST WANNA BE ME!!!!

About Me

I AM A TOTALLY WITTY, DOWN TO EARTH PERSON WHO BELIEVES IN LIVING EACH DAY TO THE FULLEST AND LETTING TOMORROW TAKE CARE OF ITSELF. I AM NONJUDGMENTAL AND I DO NOT WORRY ABOUT THINGS IN WHICH I HAVE NO CONTROL. I DO NOT LET WHAT PEOPLE MAY THINK OR SAY ABOUT ME BOTHER ME BECAUSE I HAVE LEARNED THAT YOU CANNOT PLEASE EVERYONE AND SHOULD ONLY WORRY ABOUT PLEASING TWO PEOPLE, GOD AND YOURSELF. I LOVE TO LAUGH AND CAN BE A CLOWN AT TIMES. I AM LOVING, GENTLE AND SHY, BUT I DO HAVE A TEMPER. IF I FEEL THAT I HAVE BEEN DONE WRONG, THEN YOU HAVE MADE AN ENEMY FOR LIFE. I CAN LOVE YOU BUT I CAN LEARN TO HATE YOU MORE.
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My Interests

COOKING, SINGING, DANCING, LISTENING TO MUSIC, READING, WRITING POETRY, WATCHING MOVIES, HANGING AND CHILLING WITH MY FAMILY AND FRIENDS AND GOING OUT TO THE CLUB.

I'd like to meet:

THERE ARE LOTS OF PEOPLE THAT I WOULD LIKE TO MEET, BUT IF I HAD TO CHOOSE IT WOULD BE DR. MARTIN LUTHER KING, JR. I WOULD ALSO LIKE TO ENCOUNTER IN MY LIFE THE PERSON THAT WILL NOT BE INTIMIDATED BY A STRONG WOMAN AND WHO CAN MAKE ME HAPPY, BY JUST BEING TRUE TO THEIRSELF. I WOULD LIKE A PERSON WHO IS CONTENT AND HAPPY IN BEING WHO THEY ARE AND NOT WHO OTHERS WOULD LIKE THEM TO BE. YOU SHOULD NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT PLEASING ANYONE BUT YOURSELF.
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Music:

I LOVE ALL TYPES OF MUSIC, BUT I AM PARTIAL TO OLD SCHOOL R&B. ARTISTS I LIKE ARE... MARVIN GAYE, THE TEMPTATIONS, GLADYS KNIGHT AND THE PIPS, THE MANHATTANS, PATTI LABELLE, LUTHER VANDROSS, THE COMMODORES, THE STYLISTICS, THE O'JAYS, T.I., 50 CENT, USHER, TLC, DESTINY'S CHILD, MONICA, XSCAPE, CHINGY, NELLY, JAY-Z, NAS, KELIS, YOUNG JEEZY, D4L, ETC.

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Movies:

I AM A MOVIE FANATIC, BUT I LOVE HORROR AND COMEDIES. ALL FRIDAYS, BARBERSHOP 1&2, ANYTHING WITH CHRIS TUCKER, LIGHT IT UP, THE COLOR PURPLE, THE MAINTENANCE MAN, ALL MEDEA PLAYS OR MOVIES, BAD BOYS, ETC.
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Television:

I AM NOT MUCH OF A TELEVISION VIEWER, BUT WHEN I DO WATCH IT IS BET, MTV, LIFETIME, UPN, WB, FOX NEWS, TLC, OXYGEN, DISCOVERY CHANNEL AND THE HEALTH CHANNEL.
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Books:

I LOVE ALL AFRICAN AMERICAN AUTHORS, ESPECIALLY ZANE, ERIC J. DICKEY, MICHAEL BAISDEN, TD JAKES, IYANLA VANZANT, E LYNN HARRIS, BRENDA THOMAS, PERRY ELLIS "SILKY SATIN"BROWN AND MANY OTHERS.

Heroes:

THERE ARE TWO VERY IMPORTANT HEROES IN MY LIFE... MY MOTHER AND MY LATE GRANDMOTHER... THEY TAUGHT WHAT IT IS TO BEING A STRONG, LOVING BLACK WOMAN. THEY TAUGHT ME THE TRUE MEANING TO BELIEVING NONE OF WHAT YOU HEAR AND HALF OF WHAT U SEE, BECAUSE YOUR EYES CAN FOOL YOU SOMETIMES. THEY TAUGHT ME THAT EVERYONE DESERVES A CHANCE AND THAT TO BE NONJUDGMENTAL OF PEOPLE. MY MOTHER TAUGHT TO TRULY VALUE AND LOVE MY BLACK MEN AND THAT IN ORDER TO GET RESPECT, YOU MUST LEARN TO GIVE RESPECT. SHE ALSO TAUGHT ME THAT NO ONE CAN DISRESPECT YOU UNLESS YOU ALLOW THEM TO . SHE TAUGHT ME TO LOVE ME FOR WHO I AM AND TO ACCEPT MYSELF FOR WHAT I CAN BRING TO SOMEONE.
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My Blog

MIND, BODY AND SOUL

WHAT DOES IT MEAN TO LOVE SOMEONE FREELY? DO WE  REALLY LOVE FREELY OR DO WE  PLACE RESTRICTIONS ON OUR EMOTIONS? IN ORDER TO LOVE SOMEONE FREELY,  YOU FIRST MUST LOVE YOURSELF.&nb...
Posted by SOFT N TENDER on Sat, 12 Aug 2006 11:59:00 PST

INNOCENCE LOST

The song S-E-X by Lyfe Jennings speaks on so much truth and honesty. I know that he says it is generated towardthe younger girls, but it is something all women have experienced at least once in t...
Posted by SOFT N TENDER on Sat, 12 Aug 2006 04:54:00 PST

SO AMAZING

People enter our lives for a purpose adn for what somwtimes we do not know. I do know that we should accept them , enjoy them, and take them for whatever it is they have to offer for however...
Posted by SOFT N TENDER on Sat, 12 Aug 2006 04:37:00 PST

You Have No Control

Life is a difficult siuation at times. We search and search, but never find what we seek. Why? It is because the things that really matter and mean the most to us are already right before our very eye...
Posted by SOFT N TENDER on Fri, 11 Aug 2006 02:09:00 PST

" I LOST ME"

I knew all along, but refused to see; I felt that you were playing with me. My mind told me to go, my heart told me to stay. When alll along, I sholud have turned away!  I trusted you, told you ...
Posted by SOFT N TENDER on Fri, 11 Aug 2006 07:56:00 PST

INGREDIENTS N FACTORS FOR A RELATIONSHIP

YOU SHOULD LOOK AT A RELATIONSHIP AS AN INVESTMENT.  YOU SHOULD PUT JUST AS MUCH EFFORT INTO MAKING YOUR RELATIONSHIP WORK AS YOU DO ANYTHING EVERYTHING ELSE IN YOUR LIFE.   WHY DO...
Posted by SOFT N TENDER on Wed, 09 Aug 2006 10:04:00 PST

BLESSED

I SAT TODAY AND I LOOKED AT MY LIFE AND IT WAS THEN THAT I REALIZED THAT I AM TRULY BLESSED. AS IT HAS BEEN STATED MANY TIMES BEFORE NOW...."TOO BLESSED TO BE STRESSED". I HAVE MY LIFE,...
Posted by SOFT N TENDER on Sun, 30 Jul 2006 02:59:00 PST

"NO NEED TO BE DEFINED"

UR PROBABLY SAYING WHAT IS THIS, BUT I WAS DWELLING ON A CONVERSATION THAT MY GIRLS AND I HAD LAST NIGHT WHILE EATING AFTER LEAVING THE CLUB LAST NIGHT. IT BOTHERS ME TO NO END WHEN I HEAR ANOTHER WOM...
Posted by SOFT N TENDER on Sun, 30 Jul 2006 02:38:00 PST

"LOVERS N FRIENDS"

I"M GETTING READY 2 TREAD N2 SUM TREACHEROUS TERRITORY AND WATERS NOW, BUT THIS IS SOMETHING THAT HAS BEEN ON MY MIND 4 QUITE SOME TIME. PSYCHOLOGISTS, COUNSELORS, FRIENDS N NUMEROUS PEOPLED STATE THA...
Posted by SOFT N TENDER on Sun, 30 Jul 2006 01:26:00 PST

MISTAKES

                             MISTAKES If you don't make mistakes, you're...
Posted by SOFT N TENDER on Sat, 29 Jul 2006 05:39:00 PST