Life is Beautiful! (just stop for a second & take a LOOK around you .. you'll see it too...Capture it!).. it's incredible what a cell phone w/a camera can do .. check it..
A young woman went to her mother and told her about her life and how things were so hard for her. She did not know how she was going to make it and wanted to give up. She was tired of fighting and struggling. It seemed as though just as one problem was solved, a new one arose.Her mother took her to the kitchen. She filled three pots with water and placed each on a high fire. Soon the pots came to a boil.In the first, she placed carrots, in the second she placed eggs, and in the last she placed ground coffee beans. She let them sit and boil, without saying a word.In about twenty minutes she turned off the burners. She fished the carrots out and placed them in a bowl. She pulled the eggs out and placed them in a bowl. Then she ladled the coffee out and placed it in a bowl.Turning to her daughter, she asked, "Tell me what you see."Carrots, eggs, and coffee," she replied.Her mother brought her closer and asked her to feel the carrots. She did, and noted that they were soft.The mother then asked the daughter to take an egg and break it. After pulling off the shell, she observed the hard boiled egg.Finally, the mother asked the daughter to sip the coffee.The daughter smiled as she tasted its rich aroma.The daughter then asked, "What does it mean, mother?"Her mother explained that each of these objects had faced the sameadversity: boiling water. Each reacted differently.~~~ The CARROT went in strong, hard, and unrelenting. However, after being subjected to the boiling water, it softened and became weak.~~~The EGG had been fragile. Its thin outer shell had protected its liquid interior, but after sitting through the boiling water, its inside became hardened.~~~The ground COFFEE BEANS were unique, however. After they were in the boiling water, they had changed the water.Which are you?" she asked her daughter."When adversity knocks on your door, how do you respond? Are you a carrot, an egg or a coffee bean?"~~~Think of this: Which am I?** Am I the CARROT that seems strong, but with pain and adversity do I wilt and become soft and lose my strength?**Am I the EGG that starts with a malleable heart, but changes with the heat? Did I have a fluid spirit, ...but after a death, a breakup, a financial hardship or some other trial, have I become hardened and stiff?Does my shell look the same, but on the inside am I bitter and tough with a stiff spirit and a hardened heart?***Or am I like the COFFEE BEAN? The bean actually changes the hot water, the very circumstance that brings the pain. When the water gets hot, it releases the fragrance and flavor. If you are like the bean, when things are at their worst, you get better and change the situation around you.When the hour is the darkest and trials are their greatest, do you elevate yourself to another level? How do you handle adversity?Are you a CARROT, an EGG or a COFFEE BEAN?Get Your Own! | View SlideshowGet Your Own! | View Slideshow**** THE SLIDE SHOW SEEN BELOW IS COMPLIMENTS OF MISS. LARAE ... "QUEEN LARAE" IF YOU NASTAYYYY!! *****************
Jane of ALL trades: Bartender, Make-Up Artist (specialize in Eyebrows), Stylist (i LOVE fashion & know how to make U look yo BEST ;^), Graphic Design (biz cards, resumes, logos, etc.. ) *******~~~ I love anything related to: DANCING!! Computers (learning new Software), the Arts, Music (playing classical instruments), Technology (gadgets), Animals, Health/Nutrition (did i mention DANCING?), outdoor activities (swimming, running, hiking, biking, roller blading, etc.), indoor activities (bowling, air hockey, batting cages), reading .. u name it, i'm game (most likely ;^D) ... ~~~
I'd like to meet:
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Music:
~ ~ ~ As U heard .. I LOVE IT ALL!!!(pretty much) ~ ~ ~
OLD SCHOOL anything (Hip Hop, R&B, Rap, etc ...) -
80's Music (from DISCO/FREESTYLE, NEW WAVE, ALTERNATIVE, DANCE, POP, etc...) -
R & B (old & new) -
NEO SOUL -
Hip Hop (old & new) -
ROCK (ALTERNATIVE, GLAM, CLASSIC, etc...) -
lil Heavy Metal -
EMO -
BRIT POP -
GRUNGE -
SKA -
PUNK (Punk Pop)-
ROCK EN ESPANOL -
CUBAN -
SALSA -
CUMBIAS -
MERENGUE -
PUNTA -
REGGAE -
REGGAETON -
ELECTRO-ROCK/POP -
ELECTRONICA (mainstream/underground/radio)-
DANCE/CLUB (mainstream/underground/radio)
DEEP HOUSE (especially Chicago Style :) -
CLASSICAL/INSTRUMENTAL -
WORLD -
JAZZ (smooth & classic) -
COUNTRY (yes, a lil) -
OLDIES -
BLUES -
Movies:
DRAMA -
ROMANCE -
COMEDY -
CLASSICS (BLACK & WHITE) -
INDIE -
INSPIRATIONAL/MOTIVATIONAL -
BIOGRAPHIES/..ARIES -
SUSPENSE THRILLERS -
HORROR -
TRUE STORIES
Television:
Don't have much time to watch TV cuz i'm all about the hussle but when i do there's a vast range i can get into .... Comedy/Drama (Sex & the City, Will & Grace, Friends, Girlfriends) - Drama (The Practice, Law & Order, 3rd Watch, NYPD Blues) - Reality TV (America's Next Top Model, Fear Factor, The Bachlor/Bachlorette, MTV - Punkd, Cribs, Sweet 16-pretty much most of their shows) - Old School (Threes Companies, etc...shows popular in the 80's - tooooo many to think of) & (Back when i had cable - Style Channel, E Entertainment, History Channel, Health Channel, VH1-videos all day)
Books:
American Tragedy - The Jungle - Grapes of Wrath - Conversations with God - Catcher in The Rye - (too many to list ... )
Heroes:
my grandma, ... & all those who've given (continue to give) their lives for this country. ~~~~~~~~~ ****** ~~~~~~~~When things go wrong as they sometimes will, When the road youre trudging seems all up hill, When the funds are low and the debts are high, And you want to smile but you have to sigh, When care is pressing you down a bit, Rest, If you must, but dont you quit. Life is queer with its twists and turns, As everyone of us sometimes learns, And many a failure turns about, When he might have won had he stuck it out; Don't give up though the pace seems slow- You may succeed with another blow. Success is failure turned inside out The silver tint of the clouds of doubt. And you never can tell how close you are, It may be near when it seems so far; So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit- Its when things seem worst that you must not quit.