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About Me

Me? Positive, funny, real without it going wrong, ambitious, down for mostly whatever, laid back and mellow, all around, I'm a jack of all trades."I believe in the brotherhood of man, all men, but I don’t believe in brotherhood with anybody who doesn’t want brotherhood with me. I believe in treating people right, but I’m not going to waste my time trying to treat somebody right who doesn’t know how to return the treatment." -MALCOLM X
deep and random questions. (Finally one for adults)
A completly random list of questions ranging from simple to deep
Whats your name?: Ben Lando Clarrisian
Age?: 24
Hometown?: Baltimore/ Bodymore/ Harm City
Current town you live in?: See above
How many differnt places have you lived?: South Carolina, Virginia, Georgia, and Maryland
Your heritage?: Mostly black, even though I do have some other ethnicities mixed in
Height?: 6"1'
Weight?: 205-210
Do you own your home or rent?: Rent
What kinda of car do you have?: 96 Pontiac Sunfire
Whats you religion?: Non-Practicing Baptist
Why?: Fo various reasons
Are your parents still together?: Nope, divorced
How long have/were they married?: Don't know
How many brothers and sisters do you have?: 3 brothers, 2 alive
Any kids of your own?: HELL NO!
Plan on having any more?: See above
Are you close to your family?: Yes
Who do you feel the closest too?: Syandene
Any crazy relatives?: Oh yeah
Whats the most important thing your family has taught you?: Value them, even when they get on your last nerves, (SYANDENE!)
What bill do you hate paying the most?: Rent
How often do you clean your house?: Once a week
So what do you do for a living?: Classified, I am employed though
And how long have you been at your current job?: 5 months
Do you like it there?: It's cool
Whats the best thing about your job?: The copious amounts of *bleep* that comes through
The worst?: The irate costumers
Do you have any friends outside of work?: Yes
Speaking of friends which one do you talk to the most?: Christena
Could you tell this person anything and everything?: No
Whats your favorite bar?: Don't drink on the regular
Does your town have more bars or churches?: Bars
Favorite thing to drink?: Flavor-Aid (I'se a ghetto negro!)
Beer or wine?: Wine
Would you rather spend an evening at home or out on the town?: Both
Do you smoke?: NO
What about drink?: Occasionally
Feelings on drugs?: CRACK IS WACK
So whats the best gift you've ever recieved?: A lightsaber for my 23rd B-Day, (THANKS BROTHER DEAR!)
Whats the most important thing in your life?: My sanity and my family
Do the simple things really mean the most?: Yes
Whats your average grocery bill like?: about 25-40 bucks
Whats been your favorite age so far?: The one Im at right now
Whats your goals in life?: To have my own business
Are you a hard worker?: Yes
How do you feel about handouts?: They're cool, but don't pity me
Are you too stubborn to ask for help?: Yes
Ever get behind on bills?: Yes
How do you celebrate the holidays?: Yes
Pro choice or Pro life?: Both
Any tattoos?: No, I want one though
If so what are they?:
Any Peircings?: No
If so where are they?:
Do you think looks matter?: Yes
What about money?: Yes
What kind of things do you look for in a partner?: Character, Integrity, Substance, An Open Mind, Intelligence
Do you believe in soul mates?: Kinda sorta
Love at first sight?: Yeah
How do you feel about one night stands?: I'm down
What are your turn ons in the bedroom?: Not online! Call me!
Turn offs?: Ignorance, Disrespect for your body, Stupidity, Lazyness, Snottiness, etc.
What is the worst thing a guy/girl can do too completely turn you off.: Act like I'm not a human being who deserves an answer
How do you feel about one night stands?: Didn't you just ask me that?
How important is sex to you?: It's moderately important
Do you think sex is better when your in love?: Kinda sorta
If your partner wasn't able to have sex any more, would you stay with them?: I think so, depends on how attached I am to that person
Do you look for someone who i shoter than you or taller?: Shorter
Does a mans "size" really matter?: I'm a dude, I don't a *bleep* about it. I get mines and give hers.
Do you believe it's possible to remain faithful to one person forever?: Yes
What are oyur feelings on threesomes?: I'm down, but ONLY WITH ANOTHER GIRL!
Would you ever "share" your partner with someone else?: A woman, that is attracted to her and that my girl is comfortable with. I'm trying to avoid 'She Hate Me'
How jelouse are you?: Not to much
Which is better trust or love?: Both
Do you want a partner that takes control or lets you have it?: Switches back and forth
What is more difficult: Looking into someones eyes and shareing your: Neither
feelings or looking in someones eyes while their sharing theirs?: Neither
You will die in three minutes...Last call?: Dion
Someone you love dies and you could give them back one hour of their life: Yes
by giving up a year of yours....would you do it?: Yes
Are you old fashioned?: Kinda sorta
Why are you this way?: I have an old soul
Is it harder to tell someone you love them or that you dont love them back?: I don't have a problem with that
When was the last time you told someone how you REALLY feel?: A couple of weeks ago
Would you tell the truth even if it ment losing everything?: Yeah
If you could change one person who would it be and why?: He knows who he is, and why
Is it better to ahve loved and lost or never have loved at all?: The former
Would you ever take in a freinds children to raise if the yasked you too?: Yeah
Whats the best advice you've ever recieved?: Dunno
The wost advice?: Dunno
Who do you admire the most?: Dion and Marya's marriage
What makes life worth while?: Being happy that your alive
Should you judge someone based on their past?: I try not to, but it does play a factor in how I see them
What would be the hardest thing for you to give up?: My soldiers and their transportation vessel
Finish the sentance:
I am:: bringing Sexy Back! YEAH!
I wish for:: love and happiness
I deserve:: the above
I need:: I dunno
If you only had three months to live
Would you tell anybody or everyone?: Yes
Would you be afraid?: No
How would you want to spend your remaining days?: With loved ones
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My Interests

Where to start? Reading, hanging out, writing, poetry, romance, wooing the ladies, anime, music (R&B and hip-hop, but open to new things), working out, eating, shopping, doing the mo' better, the History Channel, video games, traveling, movies, doing new things, etc.JULY WILL BE MY FAVORIYE MONTH THIS SUMMER...BATMAN IS THE SHIT...

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I'd like to meet:

I'm not really looking for no girlfriend right now, just strictly friends, (AND I DO MEAN JUST FRIENDS, NO "FRIENDS WITH BENEFITS or F*@K BUDDIES, AND NO, I'M NOT BURNING WITH THE CLAPS OR ANY OTHER BULLISH AN OVER-PARANOID MIND THINKS UP, SO SPARE ME THE IGNORANT THEORIES). If you still wanna get to know a man who has his priorities in order, feel free to say hi and leave a few words if you're interested in knowing more. As long as you're slim or average, (HEY, IF SOMETHING DOES JUMP OFF, A BROTHA GOTTA BE ATTRACTED TO YOU, I'M JUST BEING HONEST), have some character, good substance, and a healthy dose of integrity, then we can be kosher. Oh yeah, race isn't a issue, and open-minded.
MyHotCommentsI'd also like to meet Jamie Foxx, Nas, Sidney Piontier, Denzel Washington, Scarlett Johannsen, Joy Bryant, Vivian Green, Jessiac Alba, Wesley Snipes..."Sometimes I feel discriminated against, but it does not make me angry. It merely astonishes me. How can anyone deny themselves the pleasure of my company? It's beyond me." -ZORA NEALE HURSTON

Music:

I'm currently listening to...Slick Rick, Run D.M.C., DMX, Nas, Jay-Z, Kool G Rap, Big Daddy Kane, Maroon 5, Mos Def, Talib Kweli, John Legend, Common, De La Soul, Nuaghty By Nature, Christina Aguilera, Monica, Brandy, Brand Nubian, Van Hunt, MF Doom, Jill Scott, Alicia Keys, Angie Stone, Game, Al Green, Brian McKnight, Rashaan Patterson, Raheem DeVuaghn, The Roots, Biz Markie, Maxwell, Royce da 5'9", Eminem, En Vogue, SWV, Jackson 5, Quincy Jones, and the list goes on and on...

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Movies:

The Prestige, Cars, Casino Royale, Blood Diamond, The Aviator, The Good, The Bad, and The Ugly, Training Day, Star Wars 3, Batman 1 & 2, Batman Begins, Kill Bill Vols 1 & 2, Blade Trilogy, Original Star Wars Trilogy, Ice Age 1 & 2, The Incredibles, and once again the list goes on and on...
Your Birthdate: April 7
Born on the 7th day of month gives you a tendency to be something of a perfectionist and makes you more individualistic in many ways.
Your mind is good at deep mental analysis and complicated reasoning.
You are very psychic and sensitive, and you should usually follow your hunches.

You may not take orders too well, so you may want to work alone or in a situation where you can be the boss.
This birthday gives a tendency to be somewhat self-centered and a little stubborn. What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

Television:

Toonami, Adult Swim, Anime Unleashed, The Simpsons, Family Guy, The History Channel, The Food Network, the Sci-Fi channel, vh1 and vh1 Soul, rap city, The Wire, OZ (occasionally), Chappelle's Show, South Park, Monk, Smallville, vh1Soul, MTV2Jams...

Books:

Anything by Eric Jerome Dickey, Denene Millner and Nick Chiles, and Zane. Flyy Girl, A Do Right Man, Just Say No!, The Coldest Winter Ever (of course), Soul On Ice, The Autobiography of Malcolm X, Unforgiveable Blackness: THe Rise and Fall of Jack Johnson, etc...

Heroes:

My mother, Malcolm X, Martin Luther King Jr., Qiuncy Jones, Sidney Pionter, Ozzie Davis, Ruby Dee, Huey Newman, Eldridge Cleaver, Afeni Shakur, Sen. Barack Obama, Franklin Douglass, Emmitt Till, Betty Shabazz, Jack Johnson, W.E.B. DuBois, Medgar Evans, Bill Cosby, Mario Van Peebles, anybody in my music collection etc...

My Blog

’07 Wrap-Up! (c) Skillz pt.1

Y'all know time it is. It's time for yours truly to go and do his 2007 wrap-up blog. Now, let's get it started with the subject matter, "WRAP IT UP '07! AFTER MESSING WITH THOSE WALBROO...
Posted by The Coolest One on Tue, 01 Jan 2008 05:57:00 PST

Lifa @ College

Well, I've officially been at school for a month now...It's trickier than I expected. I have 6 classes, spread out through the week, all in the morning and sometimes early afternoon. I'm going to a c...
Posted by The Coolest One on Mon, 01 Oct 2007 07:06:00 PST

2 months since my last blog...

In school now, I start on the 27...still trying to move out of my apartment...car stolen, waiting to get another one...orientation on last Thursday let me that I will definitely be distracted in class...
Posted by The Coolest One on Mon, 13 Aug 2007 08:49:00 PST

New summer, new job...

Well, once again, after 6 months with my former employer at JHU, I'm starting a new job. Where, you might ask? Out at BWI, doing top secret missions to protect our country! My orientation is today and...
Posted by The Coolest One on Sun, 10 Jun 2007 02:55:00 PST

Just some poetry that I'm feeling right now...

IF I WERE TO FALL IN LOVE by Tafari2If I were to fall in love, It would have to be with you. Your eyes, your smile, The way you laugh, The things you say and do. Take me to the places, My heart never ...
Posted by The Coolest One on Wed, 04 Apr 2007 11:38:00 PST

In memory of Dominic Land, my brother

Today marks the would be birthday of my oldest brother, Dominic Lee Land. He would have been thirty this. Dominic was taken from us on April 12, 1996, bringing to a end of a faceted of happiness, rebe...
Posted by The Coolest One on Thu, 01 Feb 2007 07:27:00 PST

My books and other literary aspirations of mines...

As you can see, I changed my username to reflect my goals. As a child, and to this day, I was always fascinated by the imaginary and sometimes life-changing worlds that existed within the pages of a n...
Posted by The Coolest One on Mon, 08 Jan 2007 01:21:00 PST

'06 Wrap-Up! (c) Skillz

Well folks, the year of 2006 is fittin to wrap up. And with the coming year, I hope that '07 will turn out mucho better...(case in point, TRANSFORMERS THE MOVIE!) Anyhew, allow me to commence with the...
Posted by The Coolest One on Mon, 25 Dec 2006 10:15:00 PST

APARTMENT..."YES" (c) Fred FredBurger

I got my apartment! Unfortunately, this means I'll without internet for awhile until I can get service installed on me little laptop... SO BE ON THE LOOKOUT ME RETURNING TO MYSPACE!
Posted by The Coolest One on Wed, 16 Aug 2006 07:37:00 PST

new blog, pt 2

I got approved for an apartment, now I'm just working crazy overtime to raise enough monay to put down for the security deposit and get the blasted keys. Pray that somebody else doesn't get it before ...
Posted by The Coolest One on Mon, 24 Jul 2006 09:44:00 PST