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in the rough

Shit. I was born walkin' like this. I walked outta my momma's vagina like this... mm hmm.

About Me

I'm not a player, I just *crush* a lot... Wait. No, I don't.. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
Tu n'es rien d'autre que ta vie. . . .
Eh bien, continuous. . . .
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Random, no?
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I AM THE PROTECTOR OF JUSTICE; MY VISION NEVER BLURRED BY COWARDICE, MY SOUL NEVER CHAINED. LIFE WITHOUT HONOR IS LIFE IN VAIN. I AM THE DOG
You can find me studying at UNCC or working at the bank. But please, don't really try to come 'n find me. That would be scary.
Right now, it's all about life. I may be unsure about some things, but I'm open to learning and exploring. I do know that no matter where I study, who I love, or where my path leads, I am cool with myself first, so it's all good. All good....
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"practically perfect people never permit sentiment to muddle their thinking." -Mary Poppins
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I am not concerned so much with being understood, rather I seek to understand....everything I can. I'm pretty straightforward, and avoid beating about the bush whenever possible. Bluntness does not equal rudeness. It is just furthering the concept of honesty, when performed with exactness and feeling.
No. I don't think you're crazy. I really just look like that. I can't see myself, so I don't know why people keep asking me why I look at them the way that I do.
So, I've been sucked into this myspace crap, (Thanks Mi, silly bitch- this is all your doing). But needless to say, it fills the gaps I have between all my thousands of phone calls and parties and dates and stuff.
I love my family and friends, and I also really like being generous (yes, I like to give). I love sake, the smell of freshly cut grass, dancing, anime, my gorgeous golden retreiver pup, sushi, trees & grass, boys (strike that. I like men), music, real people (those that choose sincerity over trivial drama bullshit), being outside, laughter, Margaret Cho, boots, books, movies, random comments, desserts, chinese pastries, any good food, things that smell nice, warm sweaters, jeans, smiles, my medicine ball..... ok, enough about me.....
You Have a Phlegmatic Temperament
Mild mannered and laid back, you take life at a slow pace.
You are very consistent - both in emotions and actions.
You tend to absorb set backs easily. You are cool and collected.
It is difficult to offend you. You can remain composed and unemotional.
You are a great friend and lover. You don't demand much of others.
While you are quiet, you have a subtle wit that your friends know well.
At your worst, you are lazy and unwilling to work at anything.
You often get stuck in a rut, without aspirations or dreams.
You can get too dependent on others, setting yourself up for abandonment. What Temperment Are You?

My Interests

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INCREASE THE PEACE
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I was involved in an awesome undertaking with some very talented and dedicated people. Check out The House Between !*
LIFE! Learning. Beautiful people. Paper. Dancing. Eating. Napping. Grown folks. Dancers. Sex. Houses. Origami. Paper lanterns. Fabric. Tea. Words with meaning. Music. Leg Warmers and Socks. Knitting and crocheting. Jack Daniels. Walking. Disneyland. Sake. Landscaping. Sharpees. Pictures. Patron. Quirky quotes...
Also, I am an independent beauty consultant for Mary Kay. To browse, get information, schedule an appointment, or purchase products, get my contact info by visiting my Mary Kay site .
Bah! Fuck what you think! I don't give a rats ass about what you think of me. I'm cool with me, but you don't have to be. No drama, please. I am not- I repeat- NOT that drama mamma.
I like the virtual fools site. and also this blog on film and TV .

I'd like to meet:

Margaret Cho & and Ellen DeGeneres and people I can get comfy with. Oh. and Angelina Jolie. People who adopt children (and dogs! and do what they can to help others) are right up there. They deserve some admiration. Also, someone to take me to the zoo. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Facebook me!

Music:

There is just so much music that I like. Funk, 80s & 90s. Anything that makes me dance is great. I like to dance until I'm dripping with sweat.. aaw,yeah! Michael, Sade, Prince, Dilated peoples, Chris Botti, Sophie Milman, Al Jarreau and of course Lenny. Songs I can relate to are a plus. I like the chill beats, too. Jungle. D&B. Hip Hop- minus most of the radio crap.

Movies:

LABRYNTH, Big, My Fair Lady, V for Vendetta, Freaky Friday, ET, Thank you for Smoking, Forrest Gump,Indiana Jones, Sound of Music, King & I, Big Fish, 40 year old virgin, Phantom of the opera, Breakfast at Tiffany's, Star Wars, Big Daddy, Roman Holiday, Gigi, Chicago... there are so many, all different genres.Harry Potter of Course! and... anything with Angie in it.

Television:

The House Between. Smallville, House. That's about it. HGTV is cool. I'll watch the GSN at work on my lunchbreak or the Food network. Yeah. I don't really watch all that much tv. Who has the time? I miss watching anime......

Books:

Harry Potter, Dan Brown's stuff (angels and demons, deception point, the DaVinci Code...), the Shopaholics (all of em), Bridget Jones' Diary (both of em), Stephen R. Covey, What should I do with my life, Sue Monk Kidd {the secret life of bees, the mermaid chair}, I have Chosen to Stay and Fight, How to talk to Anyone, Memoirs of a geisha, a Million little pieces, John Grisham, Maya Angelou, The Millionaire Woman Next Door, The devil Wears Prada, Mitch Albom, Toni Morrison, Alice Walker, Can you keep a secret, John Steinbeck, A tale of two cities, The locket, the undomestic goddess, she's come undone, midnight in the garden of good and evil...... I just like to read. A lot.

Heroes:

I don't need rescuing. Really.

My Blog

unrequited? I'll get by.

unrequited it may be (sigh), but I'll get by with a little help from my friends. I am going away for the remainder of the week/end. I'll be back Sunday night. I've got a costume for Tuesday but nowher...
Posted by in the rough on Thu, 26 Oct 2006 06:13:00 PST

taking it slow

So, I'm trying to slow down. I have been rushing through so many things in my life, and I'm not sure what I was hurrying towards. I see I may have just skipped right over some key areas of the ti...
Posted by in the rough on Sun, 22 Oct 2006 01:52:00 PST

just some shit

you beat me so gently down,  I'm so high and I can't turn away my jeans are wet but my mouth is dry i refuse to let you see me cry this time I hang around alone with you hoping, waiting you see m...
Posted by in the rough on Sun, 22 Oct 2006 10:08:00 PST

I wanna try something different

I've realized that I've spent too much time looking for myself.You can't do that with your life, and so many of us think that's our purpose right now. No, the purpose of this point in your life (well,...
Posted by in the rough on Sat, 23 Sep 2006 07:43:00 PST

the more I date, the more I love my dog

How could you not love my dog, though? Obi is the greatest pup in the entire universe!! On a serious note... I guess I set myself up for this one, kinda. Fine. I accept that. But I thought I was deali...
Posted by in the rough on Thu, 14 Sep 2006 07:19:00 PST

strange to me. waste of words to you. (don't bother reading this)

  I don't have to work on the 9th. I dunno what I'm gonna do with myself! That means I can go out Friday night, sleep in on Saturday, or wake up and walk my dog or something. Geez. this is so unu...
Posted by in the rough on Tue, 29 Aug 2006 12:48:00 PST

can I get comfy?

I'm not looking for love, just a little company. I'm not lonely or anything, but I'm thinking maybe I'm too damn picky, 'cuz it shouldn't be that hard to find folks you like to spend time with (who wa...
Posted by in the rough on Thu, 24 Aug 2006 09:21:00 PST

1000 views!!

Today marks the 1000th view of my blog! How cool is that?!! And speaking of cool.... last weekend, Fantasci V. Now that was cool. Not only did I get to hang with great friends, I also got to see some ...
Posted by in the rough on Tue, 01 Aug 2006 12:53:00 PST

who knew?

This last week was an awesome experience. I lived with an inspiring and engaging group of people- 13 of us under one roof- well, two roofs if you count the house at the end of.... Maurice Street (I'm ...
Posted by in the rough on Tue, 13 Jun 2006 08:43:00 PST

bootcamp

all right y'all- Wish me luck! This week will be strenuous, but fun- (hopefully!) I'll let you know all the details so you can check out the show when I'm done. I don't know much yet, but when I do I'...
Posted by in the rough on Sat, 03 Jun 2006 08:05:00 PST