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Aaron

aaron_stark

About Me

I fight, but not because I have pent up aggression or my mother didn't love me. To be quite truthful, I have two loving parents, and I had never been in a fist fight prior to entering the cage. However, in retrospect, there were some people I should have punched, but such is life. As far as I know, I'm the only member of Mensa that is a/an MMA fighter. If you are the other one(s), drop me a message...

DESIDERATA

Go placidly amid the noise and haste, and remember what peace there may be in silence. As far as possible without surrender be on good terms with all persons. Speak your truth quietly and clearly; and listen to others, even the dull and ignorant; they too have their story.

Avoid loud and aggressive persons, they are vexations to the spirit. If you compare yourself with others, you may become vain and bitter; for always there will be greater and lesser persons than yourself. Enjoy your achievements as well as your plans.

Keep interested in your own career, however humble; it is a real possession in the changing future of time. Exercise caution in your business affairs; for the world is full of trickery. But let this not blind you to what virtue there is; many persons strive for high ideals; and everywhere life is full of heroism.

Be yourself. Especially, do not feign affection. Neither be cynical about love; for in the face of all aridity and disenchantment it is perennial as the grass.

Take kindly the counsel of the years, gracefully surrendering the things of youth. Nurture strength of spirit to shield you in sudden misfortune. But do not distress yourself with imaginings. Many fears are born of fatigue and loneliness. Beyond wholesome discipline, be gentle with yourself.

You are a child of the universe, no less than the trees and the stars; you have a right to be here. And whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should.

Therefore be at peace with God, whatever you conceive Him to be, and whatever your labours and aspirations, in the noisy confusion of life keep peace with your soul.

With all its sham, drudgery and broken dreams, it is still a beautiful world. Be cheerful. Strive to be happy.

My Interests

fighting, pinot noir, winemaking (I worked harvest 2005 at Beaux Freres and at Soter Vineyards for the 2006 harvest and made five barrels of pinot noir myself from Momtazi Vineyard fruit for the 2007 harvest), playing the guitar, violent video games, history and some other things that I can't think of right now.

Music:

I enjoy most anything from rap to old country, but if you need specifics, here's what I can think of right now: Beth Orton, Big Daddy Kane, John Prine, Johnny Cash, Aimee Mann, Waylon Jennings, Harvey Danger, Run-D.M.C., Elton John, Cheap Trick, My Chemical Romance, Gary Jules, Ice-T, Drive By Truckers, Andrea Bocelli, David Gray, Freedy Johnson, The Lightning Seeds, David Allan Coe, Bob Dylan, Fergie, Wyclef Jean, Big Head Todd, Eric B. and Rakim, Public Enemy, Tom Waits, Godsmack, KMFDM, Rob Zombie, Alice In Chains, Rollins Band (in its previous incarnation with Sim Cain, Chris Haskett, Melvin Gibbs and Theo Van Rock), Nat King Cole, Adam Hood, Nick Cage, Liz Phair, Nine Inch Nails, Dr. Dre, The Gluey Brothers, Patti Smith, Michael Penn, Marvin Gaye, Blondie, Shakespear's Sister Filter, The Commodores, Fats Waller, Slick Rick, Jerry Jeff Walker, Kid Rock, 50 Cent, Eminem, Nirvana, L.L. Cool J, Stereo MCs, Natalie Merchant, 10,000 Maniacs, Black Crowes, Lynard Skynard, Iris DeMent, B.B. King, Duran Duran, Eve 6, Sophie B. Hawkins, Tool, Staind, G.G. Allin and The Murder Junkies (okay, so I'm not much of a fan, but it sounds so hardcore!), The Subdudes, Everlast, Dori Hartley, Everclear, Evanescence, Thin Lizzy, Kenny Wayne Shepherd, Steve Goodman, Korn, Fatboy Slim, Rage Against The Machine, Fugazi, Mazzy Star, Nas, Notorious B.I.G., Death Cab For Cutie, Snoop Dogg, Patsy Cline, Leonard Cohen, Bjork, Jane's Addiction, Jane Arden, Lou Reed, The Velvet Underground, Cowboy Junkies, Concrete Blonde, Howie Day, Chris Isaak, Ednaswap, The Cars, Billy Idol, MC 900ft. Jesus, AC/DC, The Beastie Boys, Geto Boys, Led Zeppelin, Jimi Hendrix, Credence Clearwater Revival, Pink Floyd, Fleetwood Mac, Annie Lennox, Laura Gibson, Bruce Springsteen, The Soggy Bottom Boys, Guns N' Roses, Lighthouse Family, Black Flag, EPMD, Prince, Robbie Williams, Digible Planets, Lucinda Williams, Bruce Hornsby, The Rolling Stones, Tori Amos, Letters to Cleo, The Ramones, Willie Nelson, Tonic, STP, Tom Petty, Shelby Lynne, A Tribe Called Quest, Anthrax, Digital Underground, Patty Griffin, Peter Gabriel, NWA, Moby, Lenny Kravitz, Ice Cube, Gang Starr, Green Day, Kool Moe Dee, Elvis Costello, Dead Milkmen, Eels, Porno For Pyros, Cool Beans, Loretta Lynn, De La Soul, Counting Crows, Hole, Butthole Surfers, Biz Markie, Ani Difranco, Tupac, James Taylor, Ozzy, Black Sabbath, Faith No More, Body Count, A Tribe Called Quest, Roy Orbison, Pearl Jam, Anna Nallick, Temple of The Dog, Bob Marley, David Bowie Iggy Pop, and The Stooges, Red Hot Chilli Peppers, Susanna Hoffs, Regina Spektor, MGMT, The Greenskeepers, Marilyn Manson, The Beatles, Janis Joplin, Talking Heads, Devo, The Clash, Weezer, 4 Non Blondes, Cake, The Breeders, MC Lyte, Boogie Down Productions, Kool and The Gang, Al Green, Scarface, Roxanne Shante, Chemical Brothers, Jim Croce, Paul Simon, Carole King, Cyndi Lauper, Johnny Clegg and Savuka, The Smashing Pumpkins, Violent Femmes, Depeche Mode, Saliva, Primus, Black Sheep, Seal, Stetsasonic, Huttie Ledbetter, DMX.....I'm still thinking

Movies:

Two Girls One Cup, Dr. Strangelove, Amadeus, The Unforgiven, Sweet and Low Down, In The Company of Men, Pulp Fiction, Raising Arizona, Fargo, Blue Velvet, Beautiful Girls, Apocalypse Now, The Godfather I and II, The Usual Suspects, Full Metal Jacket, Moonstruck, Oh Brother, Where Art Thou?, Rushmore, Firecracker, When Harry Met Sally (I'm less than a man at times), etc.

Television:

Ow!, My Balls!, Penn & Teller: Bullshit!, Discovery, A&E and The History Channel, Curb Your Enthusiasm

Books:

Cosmos, Slaugterhouse Five, The Rape of Nanking, Small Arms of the 21st Century, The Rise and Fall of The Third Reich, Freakonomics, God Is Not Great, Under The Banner of Heaven, A Brief History of Nearly Everything, In The Heart of The Sea, Blink and My War Gone By, I Miss It So, Over The Influence, Good Wine Guide, Pinot Noir of North America and most any wine book by Robert M. Parker Jr.

Heroes:

Thomas Paine, James Randi, Rollin Schimmel

My Blog

A Dearest Friend Gone

A very dear friend of mine died Saturday.  I just got word Sunday morning.  While it is commonplace for people to say that so and so was "full of life," this would be far from hyperbole...
Posted by Aaron on Mon, 22 May 2006 10:44:00 PST