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TJ

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About Me


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-I'm a down to earth pretty easy going guy. I'm not offended easily and have a great varied sense of humor. I use to love to go out all the time but now I'd prefer to stay in. Don't get me wrong, I still like to go do stuff sometimes but certainly not every night. I really get into intimacy and closeness. I'm not very blunt but I AM very honest. I hate confrontation but the truth is important and I'll bring it up as non-confrontationally as I can. I can sometimes get my feelings hurt easily if someone is thoughtless but as long as I am allowed to address my emotions then it all blows over and really isn't a big deal at all. Isn't that how it should be? :)--I went to OU for a year and a half on a full academic scholarship, majoring first in Drama and then in Philosophy. Drama just demanded too much of my life. I love acting but not enough to give up my friends, my health, and all my other interests. I came home a couple years ago to help my parents with the house, moved into Tulsa with my brother for a little bit, back out to my parents, and now I've just recently moved into Tulsa. Working a very nice job and have my own place. INCREDIBLY Excited...--I have dreams, desires, and ambitions but I also feel, what's the rush? All those things are like a train ride that never ends...well until death...so why rush the train? For a few more dollars a day? To be one step above our neighbor? Is that really a big deal? To me a bigger deal is finding someone to share the ride with. That would, personally, make me a lot more happy than a few more dollars. Don't get me wrong, being self supportive is great and definitely worth a lot. But work isn't life and life shouldn't be work.--When I care about someone, I go out of my way to make them feel wanted and cared for. I worry if they have bad day and I smile if they have a good one.-ALL ORIGINAL PHOTOGRAPHY ON PROFILE PAGE BY CHUCK SMITH
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My Interests

I'd like to meet:

Friend-wise, I'm looking for fun people who aren't too over the top and have a good sense of humor. Don't have to be a genius but intelligent enough to be able to carry on decent conversations. :) Someone who doesn't get offended too easily is a must.Relationship wise, the things above would be nice...also I'd like a down to earth guy who doesn't let things get him too much. I understand being down in the dumps just don't let it control your life, you know? :) I did too much of that early in my life. People say looks aren't important but I have to be attracted to you, but people's personalities affect the way they look to me so much so I guess with me it's beauty matters but beauty isn't skin deep. Honesty is a must...as is somewhat decent communication skills. If something is bothering you, tell me, don't let it fester until you can't stand it. I want someone caring and thoughtful, someone who likes the occasional call in the morning to say I hope you have a good day. :)I can't handle judgmental people. Having opinions is one thing, and personally well respected, but jumping to conclusions or exclusions based off less than a complete understanding of the situation just doesn't fly with me.
My dating personality profile:

Liberal - Politics matters to me, and I'm not afraid to share my left-leaning views. I would never be caught voting for a conservative candidate.
Big-Hearted - I am a kind and caring person. My warmth is inviting, and my heart is a wellspring of love.
Practical - I am a down-to-earth individual who is not impressed with material excess. I care about the stuff of life that really matters. My date match profile:

Big-Hearted - I want someone compassionate, someone gentle and kind. A loving, nurturing person will fill that hole in my life.
Adventurous - I am looking for someone who is willing to try new things and experience life to its fullest. I need a companion who encourages me to take risks and do exciting things.
Practical - I am drawn to people who are sensible and smart. Flashy, materialistic people turn me off. I appreciate the simpler side of living.
My Top Ten Traits

1. Liberal
2. Big-Hearted
3. Practical
4. Adventurous
5. Romantic
6. Shy
7. Sensual
8. Funny
9. Wealthy/Ambitious
10. Athletic
My Top Ten Match Traits

1. Big-Hearted
2. Adventurous
3. Practical
4. Outgoing
5. Wealthy/Ambitious
6. Romantic
7. Intellectual
8. Funny
9. Sensual
10. Traditional

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My Seduction Style: Fantasy Lover
You know that ideal love that each of us dreams of from childhood? That's me!
Not because I posess all of the ideal characteristics, but because I am a savvy shape shifter.
I have the uncanny ability to detect someone's particular fantasy... and make it me.

I inspire each person to be an idealist and passionate, and I make each moment memorable
Even a simple coffee date with me can be the most romantic moment of someone's life
By giving my date exactly what he or she desires, I quickly become the ideal lover.

My abilities to make dreams come true is so strong, that I am often the love of many people's lives.
My ex's (and even people you have simply met or been friends with) long to be yours.
No doubt I am the one others have dreamed of... my biggest challenge is finding *my* dream lover. What Kind of Seducer Are You?
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My Blog

Self-Torture...And Not the Fun Kind....

So does anyone else read blogs that they shouldn't??  Because I do...I have a certain someone's profile bookmarked(not on my friend's list but actually bookmarked) and perodically I check to see ...
Posted by on Mon, 19 Jun 2006 17:55:00 GMT

Assuming...

They always say that assuming makes an ass out of Ume...but who the hell is this Ume and why the hell does she care what I assume?
Posted by on Fri, 26 May 2006 20:21:00 GMT

It's Days Like This...

It's days like this that make me hate you because your gone....
Posted by on Thu, 02 Mar 2006 15:12:00 GMT

That's It!!

I need a man who will make love to Blue October!!  I was just listening to a song, well actually I think it is some Justin solo work but the sound is so similar, and I just decided  that tha...
Posted by on Sun, 19 Feb 2006 05:47:00 GMT

Mortal Enemies...

So everyone...I have mortal enemies now. But half of them don't even know me and the other half don't know me that well...yet they are my mortal enemies.  They are a clicky group full of clicks ...
Posted by on Sat, 18 Feb 2006 08:54:00 GMT

No Obituary Today

Hey all...I wrote this poem awhile back and thought I'd share it...It sounds like I'm really depressed but I was in a totally good mood when I wrote it...it's just how I feel about snow melting. :)&nb...
Posted by on Mon, 30 Jan 2006 03:35:00 GMT

10 Things My Boyfriend Can Expect From Me(...Without Having To Ask)

10. To listen and respect his differing opinions as he does mine... 9. To continually give myself to him more each day... 8. To never consider cheating on him with anyone for any reason... 7. To no...
Posted by on Wed, 25 Jan 2006 21:07:00 GMT

10 Things My Boyfriend Should Do (...Without Being Told...)

10. Not judge my insecurities as I'm working on them the best I can... 9. Appreciate the fact that I remember the smallest details of their life... 8. Romance and seduce me... 7. Give me massages.....
Posted by on Wed, 25 Jan 2006 05:39:00 GMT

"Moved" or "I Need a Fag Hag!"

So I just finished moving into my brother's place!  I'm finally IN Tulsa, instead of 40 minutes outside of the city.  It should make having a social life much easier.  The next step is ...
Posted by on Thu, 19 Jan 2006 03:57:00 GMT

Not Always So Austere...

Well, I was talking with someone earlier and we got onto the topic of my blog.  He informed me that a couple posts ago I sounded angry and that overall my blog persona seemed a little too serious...
Posted by on Sun, 15 Jan 2006 00:08:00 GMT