I am an avalanche and a butterfly... constantly morphing and in motion. I love life and people. I love hard and long but don't trust easily. I am fiercely independent yet in love with love. I am full of color and passion and electricity. I am actually not a loud person but have a huge energy that is sweeping and magnetic. The darkness in me is deep and very dark but the light is blinding. I am a mass of complimentary contradictions. I have a dry twisted sense of humor and a loud easy laugh. I will fight to the death for what I believe in and fiercely defend those I love . I have a fierce temper and a lot of fire but I know how to soothe and be still. I am getting comfortable in silence but I adore a good conversation or debate. If you are a person in my life I love you and probably always will.
I would like to meet: Life changers. Revolutionaries, poets, artists, kindred spirits and writers. Anyone who can make me laugh, get swept up in the moment, has character, principles and integrity. Lovers of fun and lovers of life. In fact lovers of any kind. People who laugh loud and easy and can be silly... people who are not afraid of life and can roll with the punches. Those who are and have been wounded and who have gained strength from their wounds. Fighters, survivors and heroes of any kind and dancers... anyone who LOVES to move. Anyone considered outside the box, system or anything really... those who are "different". People who can handle and thrive off MY energy and the whirlwind that that can bring... Oh and anyone who has returned from the dead.
Earth Wind and Fire, The Pixies (Frank Black is a freaking genius), Steely Dan, The Grateful Dead, Ryan Adams, Marianne Faithful (Is a poet goddess sorceress) Gogol Bordello, The Dresden Dolls, ANYTHING by David Byrne and/or the Talking Heads, Old Old Old School Hip Hop, Joni Mitchell, The Smiths, The Doors, Jeff Buckley (If you don't love "SO REAL" we cannot be friends), The Grouch, Method Man, Gift of Gab (Lifesavas), Common, David Grey, Nina Simone (saw her in concert before she died), Janis Joplin, Grace Slick, Neil Young, Edith Piaf, Simon and Garfunkel, John Lennon, The Beatles, The Rolling Stones, Led Zeppelin, The Shins, The Buena Vista Social Club, The Cure, Johnny Cash, Depeche Mode, Otis Redding, Coldplay, Radiohead, Bonnie Rait, John Prine, Dean Martin (my dead husband!) Beethoven and George Winston.
The Warriors, State of Grace,Harold and Maude, Henry and June, Pan's Labyrinth, The Goonies, Mame, National Lampoons Christmas Vacation, The Thin Red Line, Almost Famous, Elizabethtown, SAY ANYTHING, Saturday Night Fever, Annie Hall, Walk The Line, Good Will Hunting, Everything is Illuminated, Dead Man, Garden State, The Last Kiss, Amelie, A Very Long Engagement, I Heart Huckabees, Closer, Anchorman, Donnie Darko, The Graduate, Before Sunrise, Before Sunset, Gross Pointe Blank, French Kiss, When Harry Met Sally, Sliding Doors, Best in Show, The Abyss, Scarface,The Boondock Saints, Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind, Enchanted April, Heat, Intelligent standup comedy, Arsenic and Old Lace, Indiscreet, Baraaka, What's Up Doc, Road to Perdition, High Fidelity, Godfathers 1 and 2, Serpico, Lady Sings the Blues, Girls Just Wanna Have Fun, Lost Boys and The Philadelphia Story...
I have pretty much lost interest in television... when I can sit long enough to watch it (usually in the morning while having my coffee) I'll watch anything I deem funny enough to make me laugh or distract me temporarily from boredom. Morning shows I am highly vulnerable to as my brain cells are not equipped until about noon to function at normal levels.
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My mother who is inspirational and incredibly strong. My son who is the love of my life and a hero in ways he will never even know. Myself. My siblings who I could not get through this life without. They are all pieces of my soul and give me strength and keep me laughing when I want to give up. My Stepfather, who saved all our lives by loving my mother enough to marry her with 2 small kids and a baby on the way and who is an incredible healer. Justin who loves me beyond all reason and who is my best friend.