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Stacey

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About Me

Born: 1965 in Sylva, North Carolina. I grew up in Cullowhee, NC. At 7 years old I began dancing, and at 12 years old I auditioned for and was accepted to North Carolina School of the Arts where I majored in Ballet. Prior to my "trip" and many falls through NCSA, ballet was all I lived for...nothing else compared. In fact, I LOVED ballet until I attended NCSA. Long story short, things didn't work out for me there, so after 3 years of hard under-appreciated work, it was back to Cullowhee for me. Despite all the trial and tribulation, those 3 years were some of the best of my young life socially. I learned invaluable lessons about people, art and life in general at a very young and impressionable time. I left there hardened and without naivete. Back in Cullowhee, I finshed high school and attended Western Carolina University where I majored in theater. During the summers, I worked as a dancer at Unto these Hills Outdoor Drama in Cherokee, NC. I still had the desire to dance, so I auditioned again for NCSA, and was accepted, only this time I majored in Modern Dance. The demanding curriculum, and the pressure to be perfect was too much for me and my hardened and distrustful nature, so I withdrew and moved to Chapel Hill for a while. I then moved to Asheville, NC, where I attended UNC-A and majored in Photojornalism. During this time, I also worked as a custom black & white photo technician, a profession I stuck with for 15 years. I moved to Bloomington, Indiana with my now ex-husband where I immediately got a job at a professional photo lab and portrait studio. Currently, I am remarried to a super guy, have 1 son (the love of my life), and I'm a Title~One reading teacher. I work with 1st and 2nd graders.

My Interests

Peace on Earth...really, is it too much to ask?? **Obama~~Matthews** *******2012*******"Old School"I LOVE dMb!! A daily dose is necessary for my heart, soul and sanity.I miss LeRoi... "The Last Stop"Ok, so I love dMb. Also, I love to read, and I read constantly. During the day, I read with my students, and I cannot fall asleep without a few chapters from the book of the week. I read so much that I have to buy books at Goodwill, yard sales or flea markets, otherwise, I would be broke. Wait a minute...I am broke!! Why not use the library, you might wonder? Well, I like to keep the books I read. I have a lot of floor to ceiling bookshelves. I hate to admit it, because I don't even understand this obsession, but I love Vintage Barbies, especially the MOD-70's era dolls. I can't explain it. I just love Barbie.I take in homeless animals whenever I can. If they come to me, they stay...it's that simple. Currently, I provide a loving home for 2 dogs and 4 cats. They all came to me for a reason. One of my cats, "Lucky" showed up on my picnic table with a gunshot wound while I was at work one day. I have a vet-friend who removed the injured leg and neutered him for free because I was willing to give him a home. He is the best cat ever. He has never ventured beyond the fenced part of our property since he showed up. My Min Pin, I found on the side of the road in a box that read "Please help me." In the box was a bowl of food, a bowl of water and a blanket. He had escaped the confines of the box, and it took us 3 hours to coax him out of the woods. I would have stayed there all night if necessary. I live in a rural area, and I didn't want him to become coyote food. He finally gave in, and he is a great little dog...Maximus Dogimus or "Max". Also, I love hummingbirds. It seems like the same families come back every year. They consume about 4 quarts of sugar-water every 2 days. If I slack on the food, they swoop at me. They trust me so, and the cats never bother them. They have a very peaceful relationship. The cats enjoy watching them, but to my knowledge they have never killed one.Other interests include traditional black and white photography and working in a darkroom, though I don't get to do it so much anymore. Also, I love to watch dancers dance, and I don't mean "Dancing with the Stars." I love classical ballet and the choreography of Martha Graham, Paul Taylor, Alvin Ailey and Twyla Tharpe. Martha Graham My soul craves peace and quiet. I treasure my time alone. I love to daydream, and I loathe cell phones. The only thing I dislike more than cell phones is war...I just don't get it. No matter how I try to wrap my brain around it, it just doesn't make sense. Nothing justifies war. That's just my opinion.On a lighter note, I love yard sales, flea markets and second-hand stores. These are great places to find old cameras, Barbies, books and stuff for 25 cents.Peace, my friends.

I'd like to meet:

Dave Matthews, Patti Smith, Kevin Spacey, Flea, Anthony Kedis, Oprah's Dr. Oz (maybe even Oprah), David Letterman, Ellen DeGeneres, Johnny Depp and Jeremy Piven. Some COOL people I have met include: author Tom Robbins, Mary-Louise Parker (she attended NCSA), Nick Searcy (ditto), Scott Plank and Gordon Owens (ditto, ditto), John Mellencamp (I took his passport photo), John Doe, River Phoenix, Nicole Fosse, Gwen Verdon, and I had a beer with the Bangles.

Music:


Did I mention I LOVE dMb?? Well, of course I did!!I need a dose of dMb everyday, but I especially love them live. Also, I very much enjoy Dave and Tim together, and thanks to my awesome hubby, who stood in line for 4 hours, I had the privilege of attending the "Change Rocks" gig paid for by Barack Obama in Bloomington, Indiana. A total of 12,000 lucky fans saw this show at a cost of $63,000. Thank you, Mr. Obama. By the way, you had my vote in the Indiana Primary, and still do. CHANGE ROCKS!!The only thing better than a Dave and Tim show is a FREE Dave and Tim show!! Yeah, Baby!!

Movies:

Movies I could watch again and again include: HAIR, All That Jazz, The Turning Point, A Chorus Line, and O' Brother, Where Art Thou? Any movie with Kevin Spacey: American Beauty, Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil. Any movie with River Phoenix: My Own Private Idaho, Stand By Me. Most movies with Mark Wahlburg: Three Kings, Boogie Nights, Fear. Most movies with Johnny Depp: Chocolat, Blow, Ed Scissorhands, From Hell. Movies with Parker Posey: Best in Show. Other favs include: Clerks, Pecker, Alive, One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest, Easy Rider, Sling Blade (french-fried pertaters, mmmhmm), Pulp Fiction, Brazil, Raising Arizona. Holes, in memory of my good friend Scott Plank, and of course Because of Winn Dixie and the 2004 version of Where the Red Fern Grows, both starring Dave Matthews. Also, every American should watch Super-Size Me and Fahrenheit 9/11.

Television:

With the exception of BONES, HOUSE, DEXTER, Criminal Minds, The Simpsons, and Family Guy, I've decided TV produces the same effect as Ambien~~double-vision followed by a deep dreamless sleep on the couch. It makes me long for the days when TV actually went off the air...remember those days?? I know some kids who can't even sleep without the TV squawking and flashing all night...sad, indeed. However small my part, if a child is with me during my five hours of teaching time a day, it is with an open book in their hands.

Books:

I love to read, and I read lots of books. I love ALL Tom Robbins books. His books sum up so many of my experiences and thoughts. Still Life with Woodpecker, Jitterbug Perfume, Even Cowgirls Get the Blues, etc. Books by Annie Proulx: The Shipping News, Brokeback Mountain. Shopgirl by Steve Martin. (yes, the actor, and he plays a mean banjo, too.) Sappy southeast coast love stories by Nicholas Sparks, Anne Rives Siddons, and Mary Kay Andrews. The Traveling Pants series, and some Stephen King books. Favorites: The Girl who Loved Tom Gordon and Misery. The Da Vinci Code, but Angels and Demons was better, same genre. One Hundred Years of Solitude, by Gabriel Garcia Marquez. The Five People You Meet in Heaven, The Lovely Bones, and Chocolat, also Like Water for Chocolate. One Flew Over the Cuckoo's Nest and Sometimes a Great Notion by Ken Kesey, and Rubyfruit Jungle by Rita Mae Brown. Also love Calvin and Hobbes collections and The Far Side collections, oh yeah, R. Crumb comics. I also read National Geograhpic and Rolling Stone Magazine. *READ THIS BOOK* Everything You Know Is Wrong...The Disinformation Guide to Secrets and Lies. It will blow your mind!

My Blog

My FIRST E~a~r~t~h~q~u~a~k~e...

This past Friday at approximatley 5:40 am EST, I awoke to what I thought was my cat engaged in some enthusiastic grooming, then I noticed she was laying beside me staring at the bed side table which h...
Posted by Stacey on Mon, 21 Apr 2008 07:27:00 PST

Another great find in the Friday Folder...

Horribly scary nights. Arid winds, Underground scaries, Never ending dreams. Terrified. Eve of terror, Destructive people.   Horrible ghouls, Out of nerve. Under a collapsing ceiling, Sensing fea...
Posted by Stacey on Wed, 05 Dec 2007 05:23:00 PST

Boo-Hoo

Boo-Hoo by Coz Collins~~10   Once we had a dog named Lou. He loved to munch on Mom's shoes. But, one day he died, and we all cried. Boo-hoo, Boo-hoo, Boo-hoo!   Then we got a dog...
Posted by Stacey on Sat, 01 Dec 2007 08:58:00 PST

What's in a name?

Charging Orangutangs Zoom §§§§§§§§§§§§ Colliding Orangutangs Live Life In Nobody's Sight Coz Collins--10  ...
Posted by Stacey on Mon, 29 Oct 2007 12:50:00 PST

DMB: 10 hours away!! BIG EYED FISH

Yes, I'm a Dave geek.  Can't help it.  His music and lyrics suit my every mood.  I am counting the hours, and I was just added as a friend.  Yeah, I know, he's got several thousand...
Posted by Stacey on Fri, 17 Aug 2007 08:40:00 PST

Dave Matthews Band: Just three more days!!!!

Just three more days until one of my favorite nights of summer!!!!  Hope to hear Big Eyed Fish!!!  Seen them many times, but I don't think I've heard this one live.  I've heard som...
Posted by Stacey on Tue, 14 Aug 2007 03:45:00 PST

Pick up your Trash!!!!!

For the past week, I have been picking up a lot of other people's trash.  Everywhere I go,  I see trash.  Water bottles, fast food bags and wrappers, perfectly good reusable bags, etc.&...
Posted by Stacey on Mon, 13 Aug 2007 09:29:00 PST

photos/environment

I plan to add photos soon, and finish my profile.  Indiana feels like New Orleans today.  I feel I could swim in the air it's so thick with humidity.  Mother Nature is pissed,  tor...
Posted by Stacey on Thu, 09 Aug 2007 10:46:00 PST