One of the great things about our day is you don't have to sugar coat your feelings-but have we settled for a sugar-free existence as well? We accept low fat ice cream instead of real ice cream, emails instead of love songs, jokes instead of poetry. It's no wonder that when faced with the real thing, we can't stomach it. Is it something we can learn to digest or have we become romance-intolerant? -Carrie Bradshaw.